hmmm this got me thinking
a four hand handjob is not hard to arrange at some of the local massage parlors.... I may have to check it out.
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realz
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Most assuredly yes. I remember years ago, at a strip joint, a guy telling a dancer he never 'paid for it'. Her response was 'you're missing the good stuff'. Lot of truth there.
I've sampled a wide range of delightful women that way, and I prefer the direct payment-for-services approach. I'm there for sex, she knows I'm there for sex. She's there to pay bills. The whole arrangement is simple without the BS of game playing. The ideal no strings arrangement. She's not expecting you to call in a day or two, or meet her friends. You're each there for a reason, then to move on. At least until next time.
I've sampled a wide range of delightful women that way, and I prefer the direct payment-for-services approach. I'm there for sex, she knows I'm there for sex. She's there to pay bills. The whole arrangement is simple without the BS of game playing. The ideal no strings arrangement. She's not expecting you to call in a day or two, or meet her friends. You're each there for a reason, then to move on. At least until next time.
my ex was openly bisexual when we met. I basically tried to ignore that component of her makeup but never was really comfortable.
We did not have an open relationship though plenty of flirting was ok. I did not mind when she flirted with men, but really did not like it if she was hitting on women.
It's sometimes sexy in the abstract (porn films etc) but not with someone you're involved with.
We did not have an open relationship though plenty of flirting was ok. I did not mind when she flirted with men, but really did not like it if she was hitting on women.
It's sometimes sexy in the abstract (porn films etc) but not with someone you're involved with.
There's a whole lot of variability here.
I certainly wouldn't throw away a marriage over a fling or one night stand. Things happen, and as far as I'm concerned a quick physical thing does not really bother me. It's emotional loss that hurts.
If it were an affair where she fell in love with someone, then I'd have to let her go. I had that situation in the past and we parted peacefully.
Now if she drained my bank account to buy stuff for her boyfriend....
I certainly wouldn't throw away a marriage over a fling or one night stand. Things happen, and as far as I'm concerned a quick physical thing does not really bother me. It's emotional loss that hurts.
If it were an affair where she fell in love with someone, then I'd have to let her go. I had that situation in the past and we parted peacefully.
Now if she drained my bank account to buy stuff for her boyfriend....
I was reading a forum for strippers (but open to the public to read).
One thing that really bugs them is the 'white knight' customer who thinks he's the one to save them from all this ('what's a nice girl like you doing here--hey buddy, you're here too). They are doing a job, and find that attitude really smacks of arrogance and condescension. Is that guy so holy that he can judge them?
Another annoying customer is the one who thinks they're going to be his girlfriend and then gets upset that the whole thing is just a game. It' entertainment, Bozo (do you go to a play, then get upset because the characters aren't real). You're there to have some fun, she's there to make a few bucks. That's all. Understand that, be a civilized human being and you can have a pretty nice time.
One thing that really bugs them is the 'white knight' customer who thinks he's the one to save them from all this ('what's a nice girl like you doing here--hey buddy, you're here too). They are doing a job, and find that attitude really smacks of arrogance and condescension. Is that guy so holy that he can judge them?
Another annoying customer is the one who thinks they're going to be his girlfriend and then gets upset that the whole thing is just a game. It' entertainment, Bozo (do you go to a play, then get upset because the characters aren't real). You're there to have some fun, she's there to make a few bucks. That's all. Understand that, be a civilized human being and you can have a pretty nice time.
My ex wife was admittedly bisexual when we met.
We did not have a full open marriage (for most of those years) but fairly heavy flirting was ok. However during all that time I was always far less comfortable when she was with a woman than when she was with a man. I never did get over that discomfort.
(Eventually we went our separate ways, but remain close. She's now married to a cross dressing guy and they're into the BDSM scene)
We did not have a full open marriage (for most of those years) but fairly heavy flirting was ok. However during all that time I was always far less comfortable when she was with a woman than when she was with a man. I never did get over that discomfort.
(Eventually we went our separate ways, but remain close. She's now married to a cross dressing guy and they're into the BDSM scene)
Interesting because my wife brought that up while we were at a street fail over Labor Day. She was bra-less as usual (and with the open lace backed T-shirt she was wearing there wasn't much question). She couldn't understand why there were so few others, many, oddly with bra straps poking out ungracefully from bare shoulder tops.
So we tried to identify others, but there were so few.
So we tried to identify others, but there were so few.
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Realz did your wife know that he looked at her photos?
My wife gets excited knowing that workmen were checking her photos out.
Absolutely. I wouldn't sneak that.
She seems to get a kick out of it. She wasn't home at the time, but asked me if he noticed and if he said anything.
I was just reading the story "Hard for the Money" recently posted here. Pretty well told story, but that's not my subject.
In the story they are doing a blow job scene, and it finishes with the guy grabbing his cock and jerking off on the girl.
Why? To me this ruins the eroticism of the scene. I've had my share of experiences (partners, masseuses etc) and the last thing I would want is to finish it myself. What a waste.
Why is this kind of scene so common in porn?
In the story they are doing a blow job scene, and it finishes with the guy grabbing his cock and jerking off on the girl.
Why? To me this ruins the eroticism of the scene. I've had my share of experiences (partners, masseuses etc) and the last thing I would want is to finish it myself. What a waste.
Why is this kind of scene so common in porn?
quite likely I wouldn't mention it.
1) the chance that anyone else would recognize them is extremely low... there are so many millions and millions of pictures out there.
2) Additionally with so many typical pictures the recognition could easily be a mistake. Lots of people look similar enough
3) The fact that I brought it up could cause all sorts of awkwardness between us. That could always be in the back of her mind. Best to keep my mouth shut.
1) the chance that anyone else would recognize them is extremely low... there are so many millions and millions of pictures out there.
2) Additionally with so many typical pictures the recognition could easily be a mistake. Lots of people look similar enough
3) The fact that I brought it up could cause all sorts of awkwardness between us. That could always be in the back of her mind. Best to keep my mouth shut.
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