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realz
Over 90 days ago
Male, 75
United States

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I appreciate a range of types, but in terms of getting my attention, well shaped is more important than size.
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I do it a bit. Just a nervous habit, what else to do with my hands. Just hang at my side?
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This can be dangerous. There is a huge industry of fake impotency drugs and you have no idea what you are getting. The fakes are NOT simply generics (which are chemical copies) , they are compounded by who knows where labs (typically China) in many cases with toxic ingredients. They may appear to work because there are chemicals that can cause an erection, but are still harmful.

The counterfeiters fake the pill appearance and the package fairly well, but there is no quality control over the product and they simply don't care. (There is a similar problem with weight loss pills)

There are some supplements that don't work as well as the medical pills, but can help (citrulline, Arginine). They are simply amino acids and a normal part of the body's chemistry. Other 'natural' treatments (such as yohimbe from yohimbe bark) have been shown to work, but are dangerous to liver for other than occasional use.
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Some years back I had a mutual affair with a 62 year old woman, and that was unquestionably the most intense sex of my ife.
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Back when I was about 50 I had an affair with a 62 year old grandmother.

Even though she claimed she had previously thought of herself as frigid, she could work me like no one else ever could. I would join her for weekend and it was almost continuous non stop sex. Times I thought I was too tired, she'd get me up and we'd start all over again. On Sunday we'd have sex in the morning, she'd go to church, and we'd have sex as soon as she came home.
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I've done the 'massage parlor' thing with services many times. Enjoyed it greatly.
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That would seem to be just a stupid porn thing. Whether it's hands, mouth or pussy, I want the woman to make me come... the last thing I want is to jerk myself.
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Unlike what some might think, it's not a matter of desperation. I prefer it to any kind of pickup situation. I know she's there for the income (hey, we've all got bills), she knows I'm there for the sex, it's so much more comfortable when we can be completely open about it.

I've got a couple of go-to women who probably don't fit the stereotype. They've got jobs and their own actual life. Both do a little part time dancing (where I met them) and when they got to know me, they let me know that they would take care of me in exchange for a little help with expenses. I'm happy. They're happy.
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we were members of a nudist swim club for years. My wife is completely at ease being naked, though eventually dropped out because our schedule made it difficult to take advantage very often

However last summer they had an 'old timers' reunion, and we went. It felt just as natural as ever.
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I've enjoyed both flavors, but I must admit that by far the most sexually intense relationship was with a married grandmother with a useless alcoholic husband. When I was sue I was too spent, she'd prove me otherwise.
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I've never been crazy about tan lines. Strong ones can be almost a turn off.
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It can be sexy as an abstraction, watching women is what I love best.

But in reality, not very interesting. I was married for a number of years to an openly bisexual woman. I figured I'd get used to it, but I never did. It didn't bother me if she flirted with men, but I was never comfortable with her flirting with women.
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I actually like a wide range of types but I like women on the curvy side. Nothing gets me hot faster than a set of nicely curved hips.
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If she wanted, I'd let her have him. Not sure I'd get too much involved, though.
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I've found both styles very pleasurable. In different ways.

I never thought much about really passive women, until one day one told partner me 'I'm tired but it's ok to take what you want'. The orgasm I had that day was one of the most intense ever.
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It's not an automatic deal breaker.

My first response would be to find out why it happened, if it was only casual experimenting, it would not bother me that much.
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Tried to get used to wearing a ring but could not. Can't stand to have anything on my finger for long.
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Touch is a much better indicator than visual. At the local strip dive, breast feels are part of the bar tip ritual. One gets to sample quite a few sets over the years and there is a fairly distinct difference.
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It depends on what kind of porn you're watching. In some places it's not legally permissible for her to swallow.

And I absolutely love the money shot - or any other shot - of a guy getting off. Stroking a cock and watching him come is such a turn on. In fact, more so than a blowjob at times.


My question is not the external vs internal, it's why the guy finishes himself instead o f her. It sure is not fun, at the peak of arousal, to go and finish it myself.
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Yes I have, but it's been extremely rare, when I realized I was so tired nothing was going to happen
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All of them. smile

Oldest was a 62 year old grandmother with an alcoholic husband (she was an animal in bed)

A number of plumpish sexy girls (a little padding is very nice to wrap yourself against... especially in missionary)
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Yes, and enjoyed it immensely.

Simple, no strings. No games. It's understood I'm there for sex, there's no reason to dance around it or pretend otherwise. Much better than a drunken pick up in a bar. And it keeps my personal life separate, she doesn't expect me to call her in the morning.
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I like curvy hips which which means I have really enjoyed women with a bit more padding than typical model figures.
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Truthfully it really doesn't do anything for me. I lover sexy things on women, but on me they'd just be silly.
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definitely MILFs.

Maturity and experience mean a lot, they understand their own sexuality, and they understand men a lot better.