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raph34108
Over 90 days ago
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I like to find out, learn about things that turn on my companion, and slowly do them to build up the excitement. For example, a woman I get would get very horny with caressing her thighs. We used to go swimming frequently, so as soon as we would hit the water and she would be standing near me I would start hugging her and massaging her body under the water. When there were people near us we always tied to be discrete but it sure was hard as hell. Often as we were driving down the road in my former truck she would seat near me, and sometimes start spreading ... that was the signal to start driving with my left hand ... and reach out for "someone" with my right hand.
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Watching my companion (woman) masturbate is a huge turn on for me ... especially if has me suck and lick her fingers.
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Self employed consultant - Real Estate Development & Environmental Design. Yes, I like it, it can be very challenging at times but I enjoy doing design work as well as having to work with numbers and also doing research. Yes, I enjoy the earnings also ... but at times it can suck when having to wait for some clients (developers) 30 to 60 days to get paid. Being able to work from home enables me to come to work in my undies or Al-Natural most of the time. when I feel like doing so ... as well as enjoying a glass of wine while working.
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I love the outdoors. Working professionally in the fields of land planning, landscape architecture and urban design has enable me to plan and design some outdoors places that are to be experienced by its users. For example, some of such places include privately secludes pools, hot tubs, outdoors showers, sitting lounges, etc. If it is for a privately owned property, I do tend to think "what would make this space inviting for intimacy while being comfortable?" I just love becoming intimate while being outdoors.
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I love the outdoors. Working professionally in the fields of land planning, landscape architecture and urban design has enable me to plan and design some outdoors places that are to be experienced by its users. For example, some of such places include privately secludes pools, hot tubs, outdoors showers, sitting lounges, etc. If it is for a privately owned property, I do tend to think "what would make this space inviting for intimacy while being comfortable?" I just love becoming intimate while being outdoors.
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Tell us about ways you like to tease your partner, or be teased by your partner.
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Do you like to be teased? How do you like to be teased?

hell yes, I love to be teased. I can be somewhat shy when I first meet a woman, so that has worked good for me in a few occasions. Some times I tend to get embarrassed and blush, which has led to some funny situations.

When I was in college I had a relationship with a woman that was 28 years older than me. She had also been brought up in s strict and conservative fashion. Her ex was a very conservative man. As we started becoming intimate and she saw that I was not judgmental she would open up more and become more flirty and sensual with me. She always stated that she liked to see me getting hot but not being able to do something about it due to circumstances around us. When we would travel out of town and end up going to shopping malls she would manage to drag me into lingerie stores and tease me by asking me different questions about what I liked to see her wearing. Often times we would go out driving around in country roads (usually isolated or with very little traffic) and she would either touch herself or touch me while I was driving ... but it was prohibited for me to get my hands off the stirring wheel.
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I went out with a woman that was 40 and a virgin until we started dating. Unfortunately she had too many taboos for me.
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The way she used to sit on my face and grind into it, not just sitting down, anytime I was going down on her she had ways of pressing her pussy into my face that turned me on so much.
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I am always polite and well mannered with women. I firmly believe in treating a woman like a lady. That has enabled me to establish very good friendships that developed into significant trust as well as desire for each other once that they are able to figure out that I can be a very passionate, sensual and sexual man once that we can both feel comfortable with each other. I am not trying to take advantage of their trust through politeness and good manners; that is just my nature ... but I just happen to be a very sexual person once that I sense that there is good chemistry as well as interest and desire for each other.
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Keeping an open mind that enables you to always learn from others as well as different circumstances/incidents that we experience in life.
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MMMM ... I am shy, sometimes reserved, yet very sociable and friendly. I am fortunate to have many friends. People that know me will say that I am easy to talk to and open up because I have an open mind that will always offer a sincere advise that while it might be very straight forward, possibly uncomfortable, but not painful. I take that as a compliment that I highly value. Best friend is a very special person to who you can open up to and talk about anything regardless of what the situation might be. Best friends are not always a person's companion or significant other. To answer your question, a person can have several very good as well as close friends, but the one person that you can open up to and talk about anything without any fear or reservation, I believe that most likely it will be one person.
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I do not own any toys, but women I have been intimate with have pulled them out at times and allowed me to play with them (used them on them). What is important is that the person feels and is comfortable with the toy. Toys can vary in so many ways. The only way to find out is to try a few and pick/stay with the ones that give to you the most pleasure. I had a relationship with a woman that had on hidden in her desk drawer at work, and it seemed to be worn out; but she would never take it home because she had a different one at home in her night stand's drawer, and a smaller one always in her purse. The three toys did the job for her under different circumstances.

Another woman I dated briefly had an overwhelming collection of toys, she was always into experimenting with different things. Sometimes I thought that she did not really know what she wanted.
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Due to my sex drive ... it has been at almost any place that comes to mind. However ... I tend to prefer masturbating in privacy at a place I feel comfortable at. When I am with a companion (woman always), it's anywhere she is open to. I love mutual masturbation when I am with a woman, as well as masturbating her any time she desires for it.
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MMM ... Several places. Alone I have done it at my office cubicle at the firm I used to work for. I have been self employed and have a home office for over 10 years, but that presents no risk. A few times at the beach while standing in chest deep water and people being nearby, alone as well as playing with a companion/girlfriend. Too many times in a car while driving, or parked at times ... do not consider it risky. Love to go out for drives with a woman I am dating and have her tease me by masturbating, touching herself and have me lick her fingers as I am driving. Love being vulnerable to what a woman wants or is able to tease me while I can't do anything about it because I am busy trying to focus on something else, or there are people neardy and I do not want to be obvious about our intimacy.
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I enjoy being nude at home but don't get to do it often as there always seem to be people stopping by, and have some nosey neighbors nearby. However ... I am in the process of starting to build a home in a rural area adjacent to Charlotte Harbor (part of Port Charlotte FL). As part of my private garden there is an open area in which an outdoors shower is going to be built. The area to shower is going to be large so that two persons can shower together and have plenty of space, with a teak wood bench for sitting down, and a cushioned aggregate like floor that will not be slick like tile is, but more like the texture of pavers yet soft enough to be very comfortable for the feet. The outdoors shower area although it is going to be an open area for the most part, it is going to have a nice perimeter landscape buffer composed of textured foliage also with fragarant, exotic flowering plants and palms of different heights and textures. Views to the surrounding water area are going to occur at some strategically left open pockets. Two fire bowls will help to provide natural light for night time showers, as well as help to set a romantic mood if needed.
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Yes, but I am horny very often. My sex drive is very strong, probably too strong at times.