Quote by ComealotSex
Here is the situation.
I'm a 66 year old male and "happily married" for 26 years. I've got the perfect relationship except for one small thing, I'm stuck in a sexless marriage. I've always had a high libido and my wife had a low libido. Somehow we made it work, but over the last couple of years, she has no libido.
I went to counseling and my counselor recommended self pleasure as a way for me to find sexual pleasure without depending on my wife. This makes sense except for two small snags. First, I grew up Catholic and I was brainwashed into believing that self pleasure was sin and ended in eternal damnation. Yes, that's right I grew up in a time when self pleasure was considered abnormal and my mother scolded me when she found me playing with myself. The only acceptable sex in those days was PIV sex. And here's where matters get worse. I'm so well trained that I rely totally on my wife to initiate.
How do women get into the mood for sex?
Same age here and I am a recovering Catholic.
Also in a marriage where wife, who I love very much, isn't interested in sex at all.
But she understands that I am very interested. So over the years I have done lots of indoor and outdoor pictures of her. Naked, lingerie and (as you can imagine due to my online name) pictures with her flashing lingerie and nude under her raincoat. She understands when I want to go into a bedroom and use her pictures to JO.