Quote by Magical_felix

I am not saying bigger gals are not capable of these things but if a plumper woman told me to slim down I would most likely pause, try not to be too mean and tell her she has a piece of pizza stuck in her teeth... Women who are fit are this way because they ask for the sauce on the side, they don't eat fried food too often, they ask for the brown rice, they don't get the sushi with mayonnaise on it, etc. This ALL takes will power. And don't forget the walks and exercise. Now my point was that being fit requires a lot of effort, sometimes these women put this much effort into all aspects of their lives. THAT is very attractive.

That is great that many guys turn their head to look at you (maybe you got a certain je ne sais quoi like Martha). I wasn't saying that men don't look. BUT if we can take magazines, movies, TV, fashion and the internet as an indicator of the type of women men prefer (and lesbians) it most definitely is not overweight women.

Also, I have a hard time relying on the source of your research... You say you see men look at you all the freakin time and not at the skinny girls? I mean do you sit there looking at the guy that checked you to see if he looks at the skinny girls too? How can you come to that conclusion?

Also, don't confuse skinny with fit. They are not the same thing. I mean that is kinda insulting too, I didn't call full figured women fat.

Um I am a full figured woman and most of my friends are thin and fit and a lot of them aren't that way because they order sauce on the side I promise you some of these girls could out eat me and my two brothers without a thought. I'm a fat chick but I'm in shape and I don't eat fried food and I don't eat sushi with mayonaise. And I agree with pixie I have guys checking me out all the time and I'm not saying but a lot of them don't look over and the skinny thin fit girl as do a lot of bi and lesbian girls. The guy I'm dating is a skinny muscular guy and he prefers bigger girls. I've seen plenty of the girls you say are the kind guy want try and get with him and he turned them down. There are plenty of guy and girls alike who prefer thicker girls. You can't say its about capabilities or media fed thoughts. People like what they like. It is about preference. Honestly my preference isn't skinny guys I like bigger guys but I fell for his personality while he fell for my body he know loves everything about me as I do him. I have been with multiple guys who would prefer being with me (a thicker full figured "fat" girl) rather than a skinny fit girl.

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