Quote by avrgblkgrl
I think that being a little more selective would definitely help. I don't mind taking my time. Maybe I'm a bit cerebral. Isn't that a big part of cyber though? That general, blah-blah, predictable so called "sexy" talk does absolutely nothing for me. It's all that the guys that attempt to play the roll know. It's full of cliché's and boring. I know exactly what you are going to say before you say it. And, I won't hesitate to laugh at you. That's a general red flag for me. Take a little time to know the person, beyond the pics and the page. Any pics beyond what is available to my general friends are earned, as is viewing. You trying to shove yours in my face isn't hitting on anything either. Come on too strong, too soon and I have no problem with ignoring you. It separates the weeds from the grain--unless weeds are what you are into. That's cool too. When I feed my sexual self, I need substance. I'm not looking to fall in love and I more than just enjoy play, but I'm not so desperate for stimulation that I jump at just anything that presents itself. I make that clear. It usually sends the faint of heart or desperate running, clears the field. It's what works for me.

But, some may not be as patient as I am.