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Quote by Dancing_Doll


When it comes to SI... the models are chosen to appeal to a very specific demographic of guys, which is a readership of 78% male, with a median age of 37 yrs old, and an average income of 60K. The majority want to see the best of the best, the fit hotties, the 'dream girls' that they maybe don't get a chance to date or have sex with in regular life. They are practically biologically programmed to respond to healthy bodies in their prime. I think Ashley Graham is a beautiful girl, but I'm not offended that bigger girls are often excluded from these types of magazines. They feature what sells.


Hmm I wonder if they are trying to expand their demographic or just wanted to create a little controversy? I live in a college town with thousands of artsy, liberal students running around, and it's not unusual to see a cute plus size girl with a cute but lean guy. I'd think that a 22 year old music student might have a more expansive idea of hotness than a 30 something jock.

I don't know if I've ever actually looked at the swimsuit issue. Do they ever feature models with tattoos? I actually remember when Tyra Banks was the first African-American cover model and it was considered a huge deal. I think it's great that Ashley is featured, but I agree with you. I'd be very far from offended if she hadn't been. Sports Illustrated is usually not even on my radar tbh.

And yeah, wtf with thin-bashing. It's very ugly and unnecessary.
Quote by SereneProdigy


Maybe you wouldn't yourself, but I've witnessed plenty of thin-bashing in threads that didn't concern thin people in any way (and it was a whole lot more vindictive/mindless than what I presented in this thread myself).

You can find my posts exhaustive and hypercritical, but they were still on point and within the forum rules as far as I'm concerned; the OP didn't simply ask "So, do you find Ashley Graham attractive?" in her opening post, and I've seen dozens and dozens of people engaging in 'serious discussions' in The Pub, The Lounge, Art & Entertainement, Health & Fitness, Crowd Sourcing and the LGBT section.

If you don't enjoy reading my posts, what can I say... look elsewhere?


Whether someone has an eating disorder or a natural propensity to extreme thinness, shaming them for it is just wrong IMHO.

As to reading your posts, we'll see. I'll take it on a case by case basis
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How about not spanking you as a punishment?


Well then SOMEONE is getting a spanking, even if it isn't me
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Not too hard, but hard enough I feel a little sting!


Me too please, but only during foreplay (a little roughhousing is fun) or passionate sex.

If someone tried to spank me as a punishment I'd find it silly.
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I wonder if women here would have tried to prove how unworthy this model is if she appeared in a Sports Illustrated advertisement, or would have simply mentioned if they find her attractive or not:




Oh ffs why would we?? I'm not really interested in hypercritically picking apart people's bodies.

Some people can find a range of body types attractive. That's all.
"Your toes are weird looking wouldn't you rather just have hooves?"

I've been told it's really annoying to say that to strangers
THE SWIMSUIT ISSUE FEATURED ONE WOMAN THAT I PERSONALLY DON'T FIND ATTRACTIVE AND I'M DISTURBED AND GOING TO TRY AND PROVE TO EVERYONE HOW UNWORTHY SHE IS!- ginormous crybabies
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The Hunchback of Notre-Dame



Oh right, the bell ringer! silly
YES! Is how I say no to Nutella on a fresh croissant.

I don't like it too often though.
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Years ago I used to attract beautiful, intelligent women! Although not intelligent enough to realise I was gay. No idea why, I've never been that good looking.
With guys it's ranged from a Chippendale to a Quasimodo lookalike. I turned down both.


Quasimodo? Doesn't ring a bell. (Sorry)

I attract whoever I want to attract, with my voodoo prowess.
Quote by VanGogh
Without making a long song and dance here .... we are talking about the SI Swimsuit edition.

Swimsuits!

Nothing at all about this edition is about fitness. It's all about the skimpiest (did they get away with that?? comments) swimsuits ... and in past editions, some of those swimsuits were painted on! Hell, most men never buy any other edition except for the Swimsuit Edition!

I know SereneProdigy and many others here are totally in tune (and in love) with Jenna Renee's diet and workout. But that is not the "normal" .... most people want to enjoy their food and (hopefully) enjoy their workout to have some balance in their life and bodies. I'm all for moderation.

I applaud, any woman who is curvy and confident with herself, to do what is the norm with a skinny waif.

I am not alone to say .... woohooo Ashley .... you go girl!!

Van

PS .... The BMI charts are not 100% correct .... there are problems with them that are noted by medical professionals, as follows:

BMI does not account for body frame size; a person may have a small frame and be carrying more fat than optimal, but their BMI reflects that they are normal. Conversely, a large framed individual may be quite healthy with a fairly low body fat percentage, but be classified as overweight by BMI. Accurate frame size calculators use several measurements (wrist circumference, elbow width, neck circumference and others) to determine what category an individual falls into for a given height. The standard is to use frame size in conjunction with ideal height/weight charts and add roughly 10% for a large frame or subtract roughly 10% for a smaller frame.


I totally agree. The swimsuit issue is all about filling out a bikini. The vast majority of its models have not been pro athletes.

I get that Serene Prodigy has a preference for slender girls, but it's really not necessary to justify a preference by giving a bunch of lectures about health and fitness with outdated charts.

Serene Prodigy, I'm sure 99% of swimsuit models are still going to fit into your very narrow definition of female attractiveness, so maybe you should stop fretting about how standards are slipping and go drink a protein shake to calm down.
I have no inkling which movie will win or should win, but I *hope* it's Grand Budapest Hotel. You can call Wes Anderson a twee quirky hipster, but I don't care. I've loved all his movies since Bottle Rocket. I wish the real world were more like Wes World smile
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I'll air my dirty little secret...I absolutely abhor "romantic" movies. I am probably the only heterosexual woman in North America who spent the entire length of "Titanic" thinking quietly to myself, Sink already, dammit. Just...fucking...sink. That was pretty much the extent of my feelings, the entire movie.

So...favourite romantic movie? Sadly, I don't have one.


I would put Titanic and anything by Nicholas Sparks in the schmaltz genre, rather than romantic
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Brokeback Mountain had a happy ending, but it was in the middle!

That movie! Oh my god I don't think I can watch that without shuddering, sobbing, ugly crying.
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Pride and Prejudice is my all time favorite but I just love Sense And Sensibility and Bridget Jones's Diary


I love these too! Some more favorites would be Wuthering Heights, Roman Holiday, The Apartment, Romeo and Juliet (1968 version), Before Sunrise & Before Sunset, The Artist, Amelie, Casablanca...sometimes tragic or ambiguous ending romances are even more affecting to me.
My head says dark, but my heart says milk.

Orville Redenbacher or Colonel Sanders...?
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My mom is from the south and makes the best fried chicken. Next time we are visiting each other, I need to have her teach me how to make it!


Fried chicken night was the best! I never got the hang of it though.

Bean and cheese nachos with jalapeños, sour cream, and salsa.
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Great song! I'm about to play it on now.


Once I was shopping at one of those stores like TJ MAXX with a friend and he got on the store's microphone and started singing the chorus of Riders on the Storm in his best Morrison voice. It still makes me giggle to hear that song.

I'm listening to Matt and Kim, Cameras
I have never found it sexy looking, but when I smoked it was always easier to date another smoker. It's a huge turnoff now, even though I sometimes miss the act of smoking.
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There's really only one thing you can do in a situation like this:

Accept the contact for the challenge that it is, rip off your shirt and/or bra, and formally challenge her to a titty fight. This is done by screaming "TITTY FIGHT!" In response, your soon to be opponent will also rip off her shirt/bra as acceptance of your challenge.

Most bystanders know what to do in these situations, so someone will procure a six-pack of butterscotch pudding. Don't ask questions, just accept it. Your instincts will tell you what to do with it when the time comes.

Now, the chesticle battle begins! Place your hands behind your head or your arms at your sides and sway in a left-to-right motion. Your opponent will follow suit, and your boobages will engage in a slap-battle.

The last one standing wins.


I'm sorry I started screaming TITTY FIGHT! TITTY FIGHT! at that wedding every time the bride hugged one of her bridesmaids, but I was a little tipsy.vMczKUbXRBKXQasp