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jack0ften
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 54
United States
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Advanced Wordsmith
I take Wellbutrin to counter the problem of not being able to ejaculate normally, which is caused by Cymbalta. The former definitely makes it easier for me to cum, and I get that extra lift from being on two anti-depressants.
I'd rather not take any meds at all, but some of us just can't change our brain chemistry enough with exercise and positive thinking alone. Best of luck getting yourself back into a better place emotionally and sexually!
I'd rather not take any meds at all, but some of us just can't change our brain chemistry enough with exercise and positive thinking alone. Best of luck getting yourself back into a better place emotionally and sexually!
Advanced Wordsmith
It surprises me to hear that England has fewer mixed race couples than we do in the US, but I'll take your word for it. I purposely chose to live in a town where people are very tolerant of variations in ethnicity, so I thought my experience was more unique, but from what other Americans have been posting, I guess a lot of us have progressed. I should mention though, that it's pretty clear that rural communities tend to be less accepting of people different from themselves than those of us that live in urban or suburban environments. And first generation immigrants seem to frown upon losing ties with one's homeland more than parents who were born here do.
My family's ancestors were pale Europeans, but my last two relationships were with a (light skinned) Latina and a (dark skinned) Thai. Both were raised mostly outside US borders, but not separate from its influences. In fact, one parent from each had attended university here and both my SOs did too. However, their own acceptance of my ethnicity couldn't have been farther apart. The former introduced me to her family soon after we started dating and I was welcomed as a new son with very loving, open arms. The latter refused to even tell her parents that she was involved with another Caucasian (she had been married to one previously). Her excuse was that she didn't want her family to worry that she'd end up with a white guy again.
It turns out though, that after we broke up, the Asian did wed herself to another American of European descent. The difference between me and that guy was one of economics. He was rich, I am not. So you might want to be aware of other factors besides ethnicity as the reason your lover's family is rejecting your relationship. They may see you as inferior in status, superior culturally or just as someone too different from what they're used to. Or they may just not want anybody fucking their daughter :P
My family's ancestors were pale Europeans, but my last two relationships were with a (light skinned) Latina and a (dark skinned) Thai. Both were raised mostly outside US borders, but not separate from its influences. In fact, one parent from each had attended university here and both my SOs did too. However, their own acceptance of my ethnicity couldn't have been farther apart. The former introduced me to her family soon after we started dating and I was welcomed as a new son with very loving, open arms. The latter refused to even tell her parents that she was involved with another Caucasian (she had been married to one previously). Her excuse was that she didn't want her family to worry that she'd end up with a white guy again.
It turns out though, that after we broke up, the Asian did wed herself to another American of European descent. The difference between me and that guy was one of economics. He was rich, I am not. So you might want to be aware of other factors besides ethnicity as the reason your lover's family is rejecting your relationship. They may see you as inferior in status, superior culturally or just as someone too different from what they're used to. Or they may just not want anybody fucking their daughter :P
Advanced Wordsmith
I assume you mean points for or against relationship potential...
I would probably check out the titles of any books she may have on her shelves. This would give me an idea of what kinds of things she's interested in and how smart, worldly, etc. she is. No books = no clues, but that she's possibly not a reader
If they're all romance novels that would be points against. Non-fiction, travel or anything that furthers one's knowledge would be points for. Novels are ok, depending.
I'd likely also take notice of what kind of art she displays. Again, none = ? :(, standard framed posters from Walmart or country crafts would downgrade her potential, while original pieces would move the gal up on my list, especially if she made them herself.
A lack of shades or curtains on her windows would certainly intrigue me :P
I would probably check out the titles of any books she may have on her shelves. This would give me an idea of what kinds of things she's interested in and how smart, worldly, etc. she is. No books = no clues, but that she's possibly not a reader
If they're all romance novels that would be points against. Non-fiction, travel or anything that furthers one's knowledge would be points for. Novels are ok, depending. I'd likely also take notice of what kind of art she displays. Again, none = ? :(, standard framed posters from Walmart or country crafts would downgrade her potential, while original pieces would move the gal up on my list, especially if she made them herself.
A lack of shades or curtains on her windows would certainly intrigue me :P