My friend, Jill, and I had been friends for a long time.   She and her husband lived down the street and she was a big comfort to me during my recent divorce.   Last month, my divorce became final and Jill said that we should go out and celebrate.   She said, “Girl, you are single again and need to start getting out and meeting some guys”. And knew that Jill sometimes played around on her husband and so I thought to mysel...