This is a very good question! And should be taken seriously, I have worked hard and now that I find myself in a comfortable financial position I do buy myself things that make me happy. This extends to sexual things. I am 39 it is not as easy as it used to be. It has taken me a while to come to grips with having to show largess to get some pleasure but now that I have I find it incredibly satisfying. I am no longer confused about what things I bring to the table and one of those (yes only one) is money. It gives me a degree of control and independence that is liberating *smile*!