I am not much into role or cyber prefering to chat about life (yours and mine). I find people are more open on here and that is attractive.

I was raised in a very conservative Catholic culture against which I rebelled. Rebelling got me pregnant at a young age. I like people who show respect and use their mind and humor. Just because you like erotica doesn't mean you have to be crass and lack empathy. I am not good or fast at using the chat controls on Lush, so is you say hello and I don't reply I apologise or I am busy with someone else.

Life is too short to not enjoy things and I feel sex and the drive are such a big part of life that they have to be included. I must confess though that the line between erotica and porn can be fine. Sometimes when I am in the mood I find that things that I thought would disgust me actually arouse me in a way. I blame this on my Catholic upbringing and addictive personality (oh I forgot to mention that I don't like to take responsibility *smile*).

If you ask me to be your friend mean it! I am not into accumulating 'friends' like it is contest on Facebook. Friends talk to each other and share things.

I can mostly control myself but love intensity. If I say "I love you" I mean it! But don't think that means I am your little fuck bunny. I decide who I give myself to and what part of myself I give. If I choose o play with you don't worry I am not going to fly to your door with a collar, flowers, chocolates and get on one knee.. Sex is big part of it, but I am not just your sex slave. I just feel that with you I am a comfortable, or I am more complete. Alternatively, it is because I love you so just go with it.

Unless we have chatted before I tend not to accept whispers. I have been told I am a bit quirky (well at least that is what they say to my face *smile*).

Interests
I work a lot as I own a small business. I love the movies, you can't beat the BIG screen with the great sound system. For me music and movies are emotion and they move me.

At my age keeping fit is more of a necessity. You can be graceful and fit and still enjoy the darker side of life (just not like I used to). Discretion and respect assured and expected in return.

I am very interested in politics mainly from the point of view of how intense it is. While I am probably left leaning I believe that not all those Americans who voted for Trump are dumb, intolerant, racists. Many are hard working good people who voted to reject internationalism of trade, political correctness gone crazy, and exploitation of the working class. However I don't like the man, he rules by FBI!

Favorite Books
I am into biographies, fantasy fiction, religion and philosophy. Sort of a weird mix I know and I haven't read any of these for a while as erotica is very appealing smile

Favorite Authors
The ladies of Lush. Biographies are sort of one off things so I can't put a name to one that stands out at the moment. I have read some of Stephen Hawkings books, Dawkins and Lawrence Krauss.

Mostly I like books that are about life. It can be other people's lives, what is life or why are we here? To my mind they tend to educate as well as entertain.

Favorite Movies
Love Actually, it just has everything. I know it is getting on a bit now but they play it every Christmas. The movie "Her" with Scarlett Johansson has a very interesting premise and is relevant to our on line lives.

Favorite TV Shows
I like my comedies. Hate reality shows. I am into a lot of the net flix type series these days and when I have time can easily lock myself away and binge watch.

Favorite Music
Depends upon the mood but mainly top 40 stuff from all eras. I am not the adventurous type when it comes to music. All music has its moments although I don't like (is hate too strong a word?) rap!

I find music that is popular is usually so for the reason that it is easy to listen to and atmospheric. Katrina and the Waves "Walking on Sunshine" was one of my dad's favourites and he got me addicted.