thanx all>>wonderfull advice...i think the idea of it as a bit of a joke or light-hearted approach would work excellent given the circumsatnces....
thanx...ALOT!!
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frisky17
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 58
South Africa
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since i can remember my mom and i could talk about most things.... she was always very liberal in her thinking and even while i was in high school she would encourage me to be open and frank.... our topics were never lewd or purely sexual but i could talk about most things and she would never freak or be judgemental...she had a good friend who was in a lesbian relationship and whenevr she had problems she would confide in my mom, and my mom would tell me about their hang-ups and relationship problems and it would just be normal conversation, (i was in high school at the time)..... so yes we were always open, but had our limits as well.. never-ever any gory details...lol
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my 60yo mom is a big fan of chris rock and his sexual-topics in his comedy routines always leads to our discussing certain issues and more often than not she lets it slip she is still wanting. my question is, can i buy my mom a adult toy if i know she is sexually frustrated, she is not online in order for me to steer her in that direction to make an anonymous purchase via the net.
she did mention in some conversations that my dad is ailing, and i have known for quite sum time that as much as they love each other it is just not happening in the bedroom.
do i steer clear of their love-life and let them suffer it out.... or can i as an adult son try and help???
my father is not interested in their love-life any longer and i think its an ego blow that has made him turn the cold shoulder towards her...she has confided in me that the pills and the pump he bought years back is just gathering dust. i cannot get myself to tell her personally to try a toy....so i would love to hear what u guys think???
do i or dont i???? i am well aware it could cause great embarrasment on both sides.
she did mention in some conversations that my dad is ailing, and i have known for quite sum time that as much as they love each other it is just not happening in the bedroom.
do i steer clear of their love-life and let them suffer it out.... or can i as an adult son try and help???
my father is not interested in their love-life any longer and i think its an ego blow that has made him turn the cold shoulder towards her...she has confided in me that the pills and the pump he bought years back is just gathering dust. i cannot get myself to tell her personally to try a toy....so i would love to hear what u guys think???
do i or dont i???? i am well aware it could cause great embarrasment on both sides.
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WE ARE A 45yo happily married couple, decent sexlife, but lately she wants to watch porn as part of foreplay, NO COMPLAINTS, i myself love porn. BUT the porn we buy or that is part of my stash is just not that appealing to her.
she loves a wee bit of a storyline and any good guy-girl / girl-girl action.? we are sick and tired of buying trash and ending up not enjoying it. (SHE SIMPLY LOVES THE OLDER GUY SEDUCING YOUNGER INNOCENT GIRL TYPE SCENARIOS. ive noticed they get her sopping wet. we watched one of the series, where the dad and daughter get it on and she was
practically squirting when we were finished) i guess she got sum fantasies she's not sharing with me...lol
any advice on sum good lady / couple porn... sum titles will be appreciated
thanx
she loves a wee bit of a storyline and any good guy-girl / girl-girl action.? we are sick and tired of buying trash and ending up not enjoying it. (SHE SIMPLY LOVES THE OLDER GUY SEDUCING YOUNGER INNOCENT GIRL TYPE SCENARIOS. ive noticed they get her sopping wet. we watched one of the series, where the dad and daughter get it on and she was
practically squirting when we were finished) i guess she got sum fantasies she's not sharing with me...lol
any advice on sum good lady / couple porn... sum titles will be appreciated
thanx
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thanx a million guys and gals.... i was a bit hesitant laying out my prsonal problems on here for all to see....but i am thankful for all the serious positive feedback.... i think all the advice given is basically spoton. and i think we do seriously need to start with the basics again...connecting and talking !!!!.....
ooooh and the advice about the cockring..yummy....it gives me a very intense orgasm..tried one for the first time yesterday and although she did complain about me wearing it...she loved the fact she could ride me all the way to her climax....thanx guys....
i also feel better knowing that there is lots of people going thru the same at this stage of marriage..... and that we r not alone
lots of love, licks , and kisses all round
muah!!!
ooooh and the advice about the cockring..yummy....it gives me a very intense orgasm..tried one for the first time yesterday and although she did complain about me wearing it...she loved the fact she could ride me all the way to her climax....thanx guys....
i also feel better knowing that there is lots of people going thru the same at this stage of marriage..... and that we r not alone
lots of love, licks , and kisses all round
muah!!!
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i am a 41yo guy married to a 37yo woman...we been married for 15 years. we have a great relationship but our sexlife has always been limited to when she is in the mood. we have fallen into the routine trap and will make love only 3 or 4 times a month and 2 or 3 of those times are basically just after she finished her monthlies. she will ask for it or innitiate so we can be active. the rest of the month she will come up with all types of excuses to avoid it.
lately i have been getting soft halfway through sex...and she would go ballistic and perform which would all but make it impossible to get in the mood again. i accept that im getting older and that sex is becoming rather stale in our bedroom. i personally love foreplay, taking my time, enjoying the act of slowly pushing and edging her towards her orgasm . i simply love knowing i can make my wife have a mindblowing orgasm.
am i being too sensitive when she is complaining about my lack of permanently hard cock and nonstop stamina. i know she loves us getting into her fave position and me just sawing in and out of her pussy non-stop until she explodes. i know that works for her but is it unfair on her to expect me to perform the same as 3 and 4 years ago when i was at my horniest and fittest?
i am starting to feel she is ungrateful and inconsiderate.
i love my wife and wont leave or cheat because of this but i find myself more and more witdrawing from the bed, checking out more porn online, and chatting with friendly people on lush.
lately i have been getting soft halfway through sex...and she would go ballistic and perform which would all but make it impossible to get in the mood again. i accept that im getting older and that sex is becoming rather stale in our bedroom. i personally love foreplay, taking my time, enjoying the act of slowly pushing and edging her towards her orgasm . i simply love knowing i can make my wife have a mindblowing orgasm.
am i being too sensitive when she is complaining about my lack of permanently hard cock and nonstop stamina. i know she loves us getting into her fave position and me just sawing in and out of her pussy non-stop until she explodes. i know that works for her but is it unfair on her to expect me to perform the same as 3 and 4 years ago when i was at my horniest and fittest?
i am starting to feel she is ungrateful and inconsiderate.
i love my wife and wont leave or cheat because of this but i find myself more and more witdrawing from the bed, checking out more porn online, and chatting with friendly people on lush.