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Quote by Gérard
I tend to overthink stuff that is very true.
I want to go with it I'm just not sure what to do or how.
But truth be told you people gave me better advice than anybody on this.
Thank you all. I will tell you how it goes if you want.
What do you want to do? Is it just a threesome, or you with another guy?
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Quote by Gérard
Ok so I might as well be more clear.
I find myself wanting to be involved with men as well as women, in the same role.. I got hit one once or twice and I found the idea greatly appealing.. I didn't act on it though..
I'm surprised that it was just once or twice that you were hit on by guys.
Sexual attraction isn't fixed, nor are sexual desires. You have the choice of following them or fighting them.
You're overthinking things. Treat it as an experiment, that harms nobody. Try to get passed your own self imposed limits.
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Quote by TerriC
Awkward. I had no clue what to do, no technique at all, just me bobbing up and down on his shaft, finally ended with me licking the head while I stroked him. I still couldn't get him to cum. We were both frustrated and I never got a second chance with him.
The second guy I was with went much better. He was very accommodating, talked me through it, told me what he liked, encouraging. I was happy when I made him cum, although I did gag and choke, when he came. I had to spit it out, wasn't ready for the taste. I have grown to like it since though.
I was with a guy a couple of months ago who had never been with another man. He was very hesitant to begin with. When he finally put it in his mouth he was surprisingly good. I warned him more than once that I was about to cum. He just carried on sucking and swallowed the lot.
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Quote by N16HTW1N6
Just one question. How do you think most women would feel if you were with another man?
In answer to the original question: if she did it without my knowledge that she might then I'd be upset and consider it cheating. However if we had discussed it and she agreed I could join in whenever she did it then I wouldn't care.
Maybe in his case they'd be relieved.hGDyKKDwtz7qOMmH
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Quote by Gandhi59
OK so i have been on lush for around 6 months and have had a lot of nice chats and read some amazing stories mainly about mm I'm exploring my curious side but am thinking about taking it further. A guy on here recommended a gay bar or sauna, so i did some research and it turns out there is a sauna right around the corner from me is it a good place to start and what should i expect once i get in there?
Really depends on what you're after. If it's just nsa fun, a sauna can be good. Although it depends on the sauna.
Judging by your photos, you'll be popular in a sauna.
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Quote by ny2wrstdfndns
Hi! I may, at some point want to try being a top but I am still kind of new at this and would really prefer to start out as a bottom. mainly to perform oral sex on std free men who are non smokers and well endowed. I do get turned on, at least a little simply at the thought of turning a man on in this way. I may, at some point even consider having a 3some.
You make it sound a bit like a new job. Start out as a bottom and work your way up to a top, lol.
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Quote by Corinnadancer
Personally I would much prefer a private forum for us girls as I have absoulutey no desire to read topics involving cum swapping transgender guy on guy topics etc as I'm sure a lot of people have no desire to read our lesbian topics! But hey that's just my 2 cents
I think you'd be surprised just how many straight men would be interested in your topics.EG106g4C94b0lymN
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Quote by petrova
I think it should be give and take at some point. If a guy is turned on because he was able to pleased his partner on his own way, I think he should let the woman do the same especially if it pleased her very much. It is like a mutual thing, my opinion.
No. That would only be the case if she didn't like being licked out. That would be quid pro quo.
If both parties don't like having it done to them, they won't do it.
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Quote by petrova
I know most of men likes receiving blowjob but this past guy of mine did not require me to do so. I asked him why & he said he likes to pleasure me more than I do.
So is it true? Does a guy like that exist?
I don't understand why it would surprise you. We are all different, and get turned on and off by different things. It's just how our brain works.
There are even lots of gay guys that don't like being blown! We are meant to love it.
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Quote by Shylass
My friend seriously likes his erection to be full-slapped to the point where it would really hurt if it was his face, and then sucked on hard. He says it's a pleasurable pain that's made even better when enveloped by a mouth.
Also, he loves to be bitten so hard that it squashes his cock unbelievably. And yet it doesn't seem to leave him in agony. He also loves teeth scraping hard over his helmet.
Is this peculiar to him, or do a few of you enjoy such rough handling at times? Does the amount of blood in the shaft make some pain pleasant?
I'd be grateful to know more, please!
I've never been slapped on the cock, but don't mind teeth scraping along the shaft. As far as sucking goes, I always tell them to suck as though their life depended on it. Even after I cum I like to be sucked, the pain is exquisite.
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Such a strange thread!
Yes, I've tried my own cum. It's not erotic or sexual, more convenience if there isn't a tissue handy. I much prefer it from another guys cock.
But I wouldn't drink it out of a glass!!! Why would he do that? Let me just think about this.
I have a partner who is happy to let me cum in their mouth and will swallow. No! I'm going to wank into a glass. Then I'm going to ask them to drink it!!!
Questions about his sanity are whirling around in my head.
Yes, I've tried my own cum. It's not erotic or sexual, more convenience if there isn't a tissue handy. I much prefer it from another guys cock.
But I wouldn't drink it out of a glass!!! Why would he do that? Let me just think about this.
I have a partner who is happy to let me cum in their mouth and will swallow. No! I'm going to wank into a glass. Then I'm going to ask them to drink it!!!
Questions about his sanity are whirling around in my head.
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Quote by Dancewithme
Everything....or damned near everything. When you give a woman a chance, and let her be who she really is, she can perform miracles.
I must exclude their fury....I am not fond of that.
Hell hath no fury...
I think that, in general, they care more. They are more genuinely concerned about friends.
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Quote by sprhr2
I think I'm less hoping to contribute to the subject here and more interested in some feedback - I don't have any close gay friends (no one that I would feel comfortable discussing the matter). I guess what I am trying to get at is that I am definitely looking for responses telling me whether you think i'm right, wrong, or I'm so far off I'm not even close to the topic :P
I think there are choices involved, but I don't think the choice is who you're attracted to. I think the 'choices' are whether you choose to try to be straight to conform to the 'norm', finding a partner of the opposite sex that you love as a person, but that you're not attracted to and not IN love with. Or people can feel pressures of religions and feel that they may be attracted to the opposite sex but choose to be abstinent. (I think the prison example is something totally separate - a mix of sex becoming a bartering tool, people using it to gain pleasure, others giving pleasure to gain security - I don't think this has really anything to do with being gay, just sex acts between members of the same sex)
loverman had to bring up the gender identity issue :P that I have no idea about - half of me wonders how we spend one day preaching how assigning roles to genders is wrong, and then the next day arguing that someone can 'feel like someone of the opposite sex.' (I reiterate here - I'm voicing my confusion about the issue and VERY MUCH trying to not be judgemental). We don't want to associate dolls, soldiers, cooking, technology, or anything else with a particular sex, AND we want to say you should be with whoever makes you happy regardless of sex, but then we say that you can associate with a sex other than what you're born into. I don't understand the finer points enough to reconcile these two concepts.
I agree with the overall statement that I hate that this is an issue in politics though. FFS, why does anyone care what two consenting adults do.
So... thoughts? Am I just a fucktard like Carson?
Nice. For someone who has no close gay friends, you have a wonderful insight.
So the gay man speaks.
He is a wanker. Neurosurgeon or not, who cares.
Being gay is not a fucking choice. If it was I'd be straight!
Who wants to live on the fringe of society. In the shade? The one that your parents don't discuss with relatives!
Who wants to think about killing themselves because they're a freak?
Who wants to risk being beaten up or killed for just being themselves?
Ask an honest gay man the question, you'll soon know.
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Quote by stephanie
Okay, I'm being SERIOUS... (I have NEVER gone there...) Apart from a few DRUGGED OUT jerk offs and ONE (given) quite pleasant BJ...
I have NEVER in MY LIFE wanked over the thought of a Man...
But you know... I'm fucking 52... I have done MOST EVERYTHING, (and paid the price...) I GENUINELY don't get the homophobia trip... YOUR SEX LIFE IS NOT MY BUSINESS! Your sex life is EXACTLY as vital, important and special as mine...
I will go FURTHER...
I'm like EVERYONE else... All I want is somebody beautiful, who thinks I'm beautiful, and is mostly around...
I can't imagine that might be another man???
But you know what?
Who Knows?
xx Steph
(Unless its John Cameron Mitchell in which case I'm dancing the SEVEN VEILS on the bar table in my underwear...)
But he IS very girly. He IS!!! I have NO IDEA what we'd do... But he's quite stunning...
I'll stop now.
xx SF
(Straight People are HYSTERICALLY funny to QUEERS when they talk about it...)
Just Noticed MISS LIVERPOOL DOUBLE POSTED...
(Who's keen, Missy?)
Hey sexy, you said define marginal. I said dip your toe in, not dive head first (there's a pun there?).
I'd love you as a mate Steph. Makes no odds as long as you get your roumd in.9Wb3PaDqJeKors0I