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cethpada
22 hours ago
Straight Male, 55
0 miles · Newcastle upon Tyne

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Not on New Years Eve as my wife was on shift. We made up for it when she got home this morning.

Not to a complete stranger but my wife and I regularly send photos to one another.

I have not been active on Lush for a while but have numerous projects on the go at the moment.

Currently have four parts of my long running series written but in need of editing with another two parts outlined. This series is easy as so much of it is autobiographical and has become more so as the series has developed.

Have a half written chapter to my Hotel series which got off to a great start but has faltered as have six other stories all of which I return to every now and again write maybe one or two hundred words and then abandon for a few months. The longest running of these is from an idea I had about twenty years ago but for various reasons I have never finished. Currently sits at about twenty thousand words and is the one I think about the most but hardly every write anything for.

Definitely no, I tend not to wear brown and stand with my arms outstretched.

In case anybody was wondering my avatar is a famous landmark in the region where we live.
As an amateur photographer quite often it starts as a boudoir shoot and ends in fully naked. Shoot in colour and turn b&w in photoshop later when cleaning up. Last two stories I have used my own photos of my wife.
Rarely if ever drink these days so this is an easy question to answer. Could never give up sex.
We are lucky we had just created a gym at home a few months before the pandemic hit so I train 5 days a week doing a variety of different exercises from cardio using a spinning bike, through to a full weights workout. My wife trains slightly less but if depends on how her shifts fall.
My wife says I don’t and look about ten years younger but at this moment I feel at least ten years older.
On my girlfriends bed at the age of seventeen when we were supposed to be studying for an exam. Her parents were both at work it was not planned but as the day wore on we both started to get more adventurous in our behaviour until we were both naked and it seemed to be the natural next step. We both passed our exams but not long after that our futures diverged, i chose not to go to University and joined the Army whilst she did and although we continued to date for about another two years we wanted different things from life.
In all honesty no it is not factor in the stories that I read.
It is never about the age gap it should be about the two people involved and their personalities and social/cultural maturity. If you are both attracted to one another and are prepared to work at the relationship there is no reason not to. As in all relationships there will be bumps in the road and in this case the difference in age might throw up a few but always confront them and work them out together.
A few hours ago. We joked we should try and make 2021 the year of sex every day, it might kill me but hey I go with a smile on my face.
It never interested me as a fantasy until it happened then I realised just how hot it was. Have been fortunate enough to see in on plenty of occasions and it never ceases to excite me.
Most of my stories are based on real life experiences, it is easier to write that way as I know and understand the feelings of the characters. Yes subtle things are changed and sometimes I might combine characteristics and experiences as this helps to hide my identity.
1. Cethpada – These days I am a financial controller.

2. Winston Churchill (for his knowledge of history), J R R Tolkien (always been a fan of his work), Terry Pratchett, Jessica Ennis-Hill (admired he athletic talent from the moment she started), Cindy Crawford (I had a crush on her in my youth).

3. At the side of a swimming pool.

4. Write because you want to, if it is not fun don’t do it.

5. Couldn’t say, don’t think I write in any style.

6. There have been so many that I have enjoyed but in the early days of being on Lush really enjoyed reading stories by Buz.

7. Don’t think I am good enough to offer advice other than perhaps don’t take things to heart.
1. Eyes and face are the first things I notice followed by the legs.

2. For me it has to be toned, not too skinny or too overweight or muscular
A fairly nondescript british accent, friends I have in the North East of England where I live describe it as a posh southern accent but in the south they instantly pick up on the northern words that slip into my vocabulary and call me a posh northerner.
I have never had a problem with the mods, it can be annoying when a story gets rejected or changed but the explanations have always been clear and reasonable. I value what the mods do and I have learnt so much from them in my writing style and grammar.
I like both considering it the starter before the main course. Sometime the starter is all you need.
You original definition is correct in the Oxford English definition as in the husband of a wife who is or has had an affair. Whether the husband knows about it or not.

In porn and erotic literature it has come to mean a husband who is present and either does not like it or gets enjoyment from being humiliated.
For me the question would be how big. I prefer curves but only to a limit so above a UK size 18 it starts to become a turn off. I am the same with skinny woman below a UK size 10 they start to look unhealthy.
My wife was pretty independent, she had to be as married to a soldier I was frequently away and was away for most of her pregnancy with our first child. When she was carrying our second child we moved to Italy and she was helping carry washing machines and the likes into our new home. Oh and I went away for six months as soon as our daughter (child no 2) was born leaving her in a different country on her without any family support. Got to love the British Army.