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brianlarry
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We've had three small clitoral vibrators that my wife has worn out on dates. She has even had an orgasm while sitting at our table in a restaurant with other people within just a couple of feet of her. That was hot!
A couple of times she has worn a remote control dolphin clit vibrator out to the book store and has turned it on and had an orgasm while standing up in the isle reading an erotic storie while I watch her. There is nothing like watching your wife have an orgasm in public and trying to keep it quiet.
Our latest one is the "oh my Bod" remote control vibrator that slides into a pocket in a special pair of sexy panties that it comes with, I operate the vibrator with an APP on my phone. We've had a lot of fun with this one. The only problem with this one is it really doesn't have a strong enough vibrator to get her off. It's a lot of fun but she can't quite get to an orgasm. We would recommend getting one to any couple that likes to have fun and expand their sex life a little. Hope your wife decides to wear it. We guarantee it will spice up your sex life.


Yes, that is the one I bought. Not the one that is controlled by the app though, just the remote . A bit of privacy concerns on my part there. I have it now and charged it up and man the vibrations were pretty good and then there was some pulsing options. I think it would get her off. I just need to convince her which I think I can...
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Sounds like the first remote vibes we bought because of the sound option. Let us know how it all worked out. The sound option was a big hit with my girlfriend.


Thanks. Unfortunately the package didn't arrive in time so it will have to be another night. She did wear the shelf bra, low cut blouse, sexy jeans and 5 inch CFM heels. Nice cool night and her firm nipples were at attention. Many lookers as we walked the streets. I was horny all night long. Fucked her really good several times. She came at least a dozen times before I finally finished myself.

Have to do it another night when it arrives.
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Sure it could be sexy to have her take it off but I am certainly not opposed to doing it for her. Any way it can come off so I can play with the breasts, I am good with it.

Certainly not going to waste time thinking or arguing over it.
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All women? No.

Beautiful women? Guilty as hell. Sorry, just being honest. I am very sexually active and if I see a beautiful woman I would do exactly what your boyfriend said.

Thankfully I can be honest, even around my wife. Heck if I happen to miss a hot woman, my wife will give me a nudge or move her eyes so that I don't miss it. She has even commented many times, "Heck, I would do her". So I imagine she is undressing them too.

Further full disclosure - I just looked at your photos and yes I definitely undressed you and thought of how I would like to fuck you. With that gorgeous ass of yours it was doggy and anal if you let me.

Sorry love, but IMHO your boyfriend is right (and lucky!) So am I with my wife so no complaints here...
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I just bought my wife a remote controlled clit vibrator. You put the small clit vib in the pouch in the panties and then the vibe can either be triggered by music (pulses to the beat) or you can manually adjust the vibe with the remote controller. It's a popular brand but I don't think we are allowed to mention names.

I am going out on the town with her tonight and I am going to try and get her to wear this along with one of her sexy shelf bras with a sexy dress and high heels. I just got it and she doesn't know about it yet. I am getting excited at the thought of her wearing it tonight, but I fear she may resist/be a little afraid.

I would love to see her look when we are sitting at a bar and I hit the vib! With her never knowing when I would turn it on or turn it up.

So gals, would you wear one of these out on the town with your lover? If you would be hesitant, any thoughts on how to convince her?
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Elevator (several times)
Beach
A house under construction - Bent her and did her from behind
Received Road Head multiple times
Movie Theater
While not that unusual of a "place" this is interesting I think - My ex liked to give me head while I was in my home office on conference calls. She would swallow, smile and leave
Our outdoor hot tub - On a canal so neighbors can definitely see if they looked
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I did. She has a lot but I always like getting her new too. I bought a nice teddy that opened in the back (no panties) with built-in garter and hose. I placed on her pillow and told her to come out in high heels. It was awesome.
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I know there was a thread asking how an orgasm feels for a man. Now one for the ladies.

A bit of background on the question.

Our favorite position is me standing with my wife's legs spread over my shoulders, with me lifting her ass off the bed. She says I hit all of the right spots nice and deep this way. When she starts to cum, I can always tell because her face gets beet red and her entire chest gets red too. Her nipples usually get rock hard too. I feel her clamping down on my dick as well. She says at that moment she feels it throughout her entire body. Oh and she is a screamer/moaner too... I don't mind at all. The whole damn thing is hot. I have never been with another woman who outwardly showed such signs of cumming in a physical way with the redness on her chest etc.

As a guy it feels great but I pretty much feel it in my loin region. Deep feeling from my balls and then huge pleasure as I cum.

How does it feel for you gals? Whole body? Any of you gals have similar reactions or unique ones?
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The other night I put a new sexy piece of lingerie I bought under my wife's pillow and told her to put it on with her high heels and to come get me later from the couch. It was a very nice teddy with a built in garter and hose with no panties so her butt and pussy were exposed. She came out to get me and it was stunning.

We went into the bedroom and she was already worked up. The view was great from the front but even better from the back. The look of her high heels, the hose/garter and her awesome ass was too much.

Tonight it was going to be the way I wanted her. I told her it was too much and asked her to get on all four and took her vibrator and I started working her pussy. She loves it when I fuck her with the vibrator. I then went in and started to gently rim her ass. Soon she was working the vibrator while I was fucking her ass with my tongue. She came several times with the vibrator and then told me to please fuck her hard. I couldn't say no and fucked her hard doggy style.

I'm curious. Are there any gals here that would like something like that done to them?
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Wife picked me up at the airport in CFM heels and nothing but a trench coat. Hot as hell. You could tell by the looks of guys and gals that they knew she didn't have anything else on.
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Everybody is different. Myself I can get it back up very quickly, but I don't think I am normal. If I ever do have trouble getting it back up, I just think of one of my biggest fantasy and imagine it happening. Sprung! Just close your eyes next time and try it next time..
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It's not as much a turn on as it is a preference thing. My wife does not like to swallow. I am ok with that. She does it for foreplay and not the finish.

With that said an ex of mine loved to give blowjobs and loved to swallow. When I would cum she would swallow and then continue to slowly suck and milk every last drop out. For me, there is the initial cumming and pleasure, but then it continues for a little while (10 to 20 seconds) and if you continue to suck slowly after swallowing. It feels amazing...

It sort of like when I cum while fucking. I have the big load and usually continue to have slower smaller strokes keeping my penis in her for 30 seconds or so enjoying every last bit of the orgasm. If you are doing a blow job and either pull out to manually finish me or stop to spit I lose that extra bit of pleasure after the big release.

That's my honest perspective
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I've definitely considered it for my wife. She is extremely sexy and loves sex. I love it when she dresses up sexy and gets noticed by men and women. I know it turns her on when someone will notice her and even flirt.

I think I would let her take it to the next level, but I don't know if she would. It's really a fantasy of mine right now. I just don't know if fantasy will become reality though.
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I think that comes later for guys. If your a fairly new couple and just starting to have sex, then I would say it's about the sex only. So sorry but yes it would be all about the sex for sex sakes until the emotional/love connection happens.

Making you a fuck toy sort of brings it to another level, not that it is good or bad. I like to fuck my wife good and hard and make her my fuck toy but she likes it that way so it would in no way be a negative thing for her. I sort of took your comment as being a fuck toy was a negative.
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I wouldn't marry "just" for the sex, but I sure wouldn't marry if the sex wasn't good...
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I would say it depends. If it is a relatively new partner I think you should ask. Sort of like knowing if they like to swallow with a blow job.

If you've been with the person for a long time you likely know whether they would like it or not like it. My wife has nothing against it but for me I want to keep fucking her hard all the way through my orgasm. I might do it just to see it cover her tits or ass (porn style) but it's not really my preference.
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I love to fuck my woman hard (she likes it too), but real men eat quiche and pussy!
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Usually nothing except her sexy high heels. Nothing hotter than fucking her in nice CFM's. Got a hard on just thinking about it...
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Thankfully my wife wears thongs. If she ever goes to the granny panties, I'll never be able to get it up...

She says she feels sexy wearing matching thongs and bra.
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I think you should have an open and honest discussion with her and explain that you do have sexual needs. If you ask me there is sex which is more of a primal need and then making love which includes having sex, but you can have sex without making love.

This actually came up in a conversation with some family and friends about a family member and we all agreed that this person should have had a girlfriend on the side for sex. It doesn't mean you still don't love your wife.

I would say Lushies are a bit more sexed than the average person but you have sexual needs. She should either meet them other ways blowjob, handjob etc. or not be upset if you go elsewhere for sex. Obviously I am not taking into account religion, etc. and just a thought.

You can even be upfront and honest with her
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I would like it shaved bald please. I absolutely love eating pussy, but there is nothing sexy about getting hair in your mouth.

You shave it and I'll be down there for as long as you need...
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My wife in super sexy high heels. Mostly because I know that later that night everything else is coming off except for those heels...
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Most days yes and I have frequent sex with my wife. We both have very high sex drives. Thanks god.
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I like her shaved (nobody needs to be eating hair) and I love to lick her pussy. But can't say that I want her to shave me or me to shave her. What if I goof? Best to do it yourself!
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Thanks for everyone's thoughts. Interesting as most definitions that I have found indicate that a gang bang is about control, yet lushies see it differently. I kind of like hopp3r's comment of 'harem'. Seems to match a bit better as they are all there to service her and not be serviced.
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All women are not the same. My wife definitely likes the foreplay first. I usually make her cum before fucking. Does she need her clit stimulated to cum? No, but often she or I will while fucking and that just takes it over the edge.

Our favorite position is me standing and having her legs over my shoulders with me picking her ass off of the bed and pounding her good. She has an awesome ass/legs. This makes playing with her clit very easy (tits too). Often she will use a bullet vibe on her clit while I fuck her. Midway through the fuck she almost always stops as she says my dick feels too good and she just relaxes while I fuck her hard. She is a multiple cummer and that usually sends me over the edge.
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There are a lot of terms we use like HotWife and Cuckold to describe situations. I have a fantasy and was curious if there is a name for it.

The basics of the fantasy is similar to a gang bang, but with one big difference. In a gang bang (correct me if I am wrong) the woman is basically at the mercy of the guys to have them do whatever they want. She is not in control.

In my fantasy, my woman is in control but is being pleased by multiple partners. Many times I will lick my wife's clit while "fucking" her with a vibrator. I've asked her if she likes to get fucked while I lick her and she says yes. She also loves to have her breasts and nipples played with. While I am fucking her, I may put a bullet vibe on her clit and use my hands or mouth on her tits. I don't have enough body parts to do all of this at once!

The ideal scenario would be one person licking each breast, me fucking her, another person licking her clit and another licking her ass. The key here is that ALL of this is for her pleasure, not theirs. So it isn't really an orgy is it, since it is all about her?

So long question finished, is there a name for this and does anyone else have a fantasy like this?

I think this will remain a fantasy but I am curious.
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I'm quiet sensitive to perfumes and colognes, and smelling someone wearing too much is a big turn off. Embarrassingly though, at different times over the years , I've crossed paths with maybe 6 or 7 men, while out shopping, or going to a movie or a sporting event, where I've noticed the smell of their pits, and have felt instantly aroused! yes I know! Not all men, believe me, but certain men. I don't understand why, it's not like they are male models, these men are just average looking, straight men, often with women. With the last couple of guys, I'm finding myself getting braver with them. Trying to interact with them, by passing in the isles multiple times if we're out shopping or trying to sit near them at a movie. My husband has know idea, I can't even bring myself to tell my girlfriends, it's been my own secret till now. My husband of sixteen years never smells, and always wears plenty of deodorant, I would never be able to explain this turn-on to him. For me, it's so dramatic and such an instant turn-on if it's just the right scent, that I'm almost ready to pull down my clothes and lay down on the spot.
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You are not alone. My ex was this way. She would say that the slight smell of my crotch would turn her on like crazy. She absolutely could not resist giving me head and she was damn good at it. She would ask me to pull down my shorts and stick her nose right in my crotch. I thought it a bit odd too but she was open to admitting it to me . It didn't freak me out like it sounds you think your husband would. It meant a blow job was always in my future...