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bookworm_sue
Over 90 days ago
Straight Female, 63
0 miles · Birmingham

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Very apt description of any man wanting to be, claiming to be, or even thinking of being a Master.
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Quote by SereneProdigy
I don't look at anything specificic, I simply observe the general aspect of it. What catches my eye is when I can deduce an authentic vibe about what kind of person is behind it ; to me that's the main purpose of profiles. People who obviously take this into consideration are people I'd tend to become friend with, even if their personality is totally different from mine.

Personally, my profile defines me quite accurately. I can only hope people perceive and appreciate my authenticity. This is simply an act of respect for those I interact with.


I agree. When there is no profile details, I definitely will not accept a friend request without talking to them for a while.
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Quote by MadMartigan
If they don't say they have superpowers, I immediately stop reading.


Well don't bother to read mine then. I have no powers super or otherwise.
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Brad Pitt,
Leonardo DiCaprio,
Jennifer Aniston,
Any Kardashian,
Any Hilton,
and the list goes on and on ...
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Quote by ramrod32784
From a guys point of view attraction is more visual;but I have always been attractive to other features as well,brains ,wit,class all add into the perspective.Sex is great but you can only do it for so long.Sharing each other is just as important knowing who your partner is.Can you trust her etc


All very true. Unfortunately many people are shallow and do not see beyond the physical. Noe if everyone was blind for a period of time as mentioned above by MadMartigan, maybe everyone would have more depth.
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Quote by Ezbaby22
Does it bother you to hear or read about the vivid details of two men fucking? If ever presented with a threesome with two guys, would it be off limits for the guys to suck each other off and ass fuck each other?


To hear or read about it, not really. I do not like to share so I do not do threesomes.
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Well now. Women are more likely to not only judge themselves but others at times by their looks right or wrong. But unfortunately that is because we are raised and conditioned by society to do so. You never see models that are plain or even just mildly attractive. They are all tall beautiful girls. So if your short, you automatically feel inferior. Many of them are blonde so if you have dark hair then that makes you feel worse. At least until you have some self worth. I had this personal battle as I am only 5 ft 2 with dark dark brown hair. I rarely wear makeup as I am allergic to it and I wear glasses. In no way have I seen any models that look like me and society holds the models up as the ideal, right or wrong.

However, I would say that the guys also perpetuate this, not among themselves as I am not sure that they look at each other in terms of handsomeness but rather they make a women's looks key in whether or not they spend any time with her. I do not have any recent pictures of myself. But the first thing I get asked here by guys is what do you look like, will you send me a picture. What if I sent them a picture of a woman that was considered plain or weighed 400 lbs. Would they stop talking to me because of what they think I look like? I would say yes simply because it has happened before. Now I do not know if I would be considered plain or not as that really varies from person to person and while I need to lose weight, I do not weigh 400 lbs. But if either of these things or both were true, should that matter if you like who I am?

I totally get that attractiveness will often bring people together. But online, you have the chance to get to know one another without that barrier. The real question at that point is if you did meet, or share pictures, would that make a difference even if you have gotten to know one another? At that point it would depend on how shallow a person you are.

Did you mean this to be a philosophy session?
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More flexibility in searches. either multiple words or tags within categories or combination of all three.
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I have to say I agree with the other ladies here. It's best to cut your losses before they get any worse. At best she is using you and how you feel about her. I know it's is hard to hear and even harder to do but sometimes you just have to grit your teeth and do it.
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Quote by clum
Gav! Gav! He's our man!

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LOL .. perfect pic for Gav. Well done Gav.
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Quote by yourmisterdark
Over-rated: Anything with "Talent" "Idol" "Want to" or "reality show" included
Underrated: Copper, Longmire, Hell on Wheels


I definitely agree with your Over-rated selection. I am so sick of all the competition and reality shows.
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As someone that reads extensively, the title is critical to catching my attention. If it pulls me in, I am likely to read it. Some stories online I just totally skip strictly on the title. May not be fair to the story but ...
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Well if you have known him a long time, have been with him in the past, and you know he used to like getting with married women, I would say you need to pin him down. Ask him if he keeps canceling because you are married. Since you were out of touch maybe that changed for him. If the problem is not your being married, ask what the problem is since there obviously is one. Tell him its time to put up or shut up if he says there is not a problem or be prepared to walk away.
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Quote by Barry007

If you can prove your clean oh baby...lets get nawty


So how is someone supposed to prove they are clean to you?
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My first time hurt like hell as well. It was some time before I had an orgasm.