Lord what a beautiful thread. Now to go in search of something to add to this!
And the reason this post was moved would be???????
I'm new to this forum and I think it's amazing. I would really like to get some insight from the female (and male) members of this board about how I can help my SO discover and/or talk about her fantasies with me.
Here's whats going on. We've been together for 8 months, which is a long time for me. The sex is great, but tends to be a little too vanilla for me. It's not easy for me to talk about my fantasies, it's taken me a long time to not only discover them, but learn how to talk about them without feeling silly or guilty. I've finally started confessing my fantasies to her, a little at a time. She's a very sexy, beautiful woman...turns heads everywhere, both men and women. I love the thought of other men getting turned on by her, and I'd really like to hear her tell me how it turns her on as well. One of my my fantasies is to watch her seduce and fuck another man. I told her this and we've incorporated this talk into our lovemaking...which is cool. I don't know if that's a fantasy that I'd like to make a reality, or not. Big step.
I'm having a REALLY, REALLY difficult time getting her to open up to me about her own fantasies. We have an excellent level of trust. We are very close and talk every day. We have sex at least 4-5 times weekly, and it's terrific. I've never done anything behind her back, I communicate constantly, and I open up about my my feelings and thoughts with her. This has created a bond between us that she has never had with another man. That being said, I try and coax her into telling me about her fantasies, and she is really blocked up. All she can tell me is that she only fantasizes about me and that our sex life is beyond her wildest expectation.
I, of course, don't believe that for a minute! What can I do to encourage her to open up more and do some exploring with me? How do I get her more in touch with her inner fantasy life, and, in turn, have her tell me about it?
All suggestions and thoughts are appreciated. Thanks!
One more thing...my SO has a VERY hairy bush. I've told her flat out that I like pubic hair that is neatly trimmed, if not shaved. I keep myself tidied up, so fair is fair. She doesn't seem to get it. I love to go down on her, but I don't like doing the hairball thingie, trying to get that hair out of the back of my throat. What do I need to do here to get things squared away (so to speak)?
My partner is allowing me to slowly expand her horizons, but it's taken awhile. She is an amazing lover but pretty pedestrian in her tastes. Some of this stuff that floats through my membrane I can't throw at her all at once. For instance, I'd love to watch her seduce and fuck another man, and I'm hoping to one day talk her into it...but for now, I'll settle for letting her know about it a little at a time. And that's just one of my fantasies. What's frustrating is that I know she must have some wild fantasies of her own, but when I try and coax them out of her, she tells me that all she can think of is making love with me. I've GOT to believe that other things MUST cross her mind from time to time.
If I don't have a regular partner I'm usually rubbing one out at least once a day, and I don't think I'm much different than most men. If I'm in a relationship, if we miss a day (and we usually don't!), I have to come, one way or the other. The tough part about is that masturbating, for the most part, is much more boring than having a partner. It takes on a chore-like quality, like vacuuming the living room. Get it done and move on.
Sometimes shooting a load on their breasts, or tummies, or face seems like the right thing to do. Especially if the woman asks for it. Some of the women I have been with absolutely love to have come everywhere. Some absolutely love to swallow. Most seem to prefer having a man come inside of them. I'm good with all of it!
Hi all, first post...great to be here. I stumbled onto this site and I've been mesmerized by the stories. Seems like a great group of people.
So, weirdest place...when I was 19 I was the custodian of a catholic church and I had the job of cleaning the church after the 5:30 evening service. The parish had a woman in her mid 40s who's husband had left her, and she and I used to talk constantly throughout the afternoon. She came by one evening after church "to help me clean" so that I could leave earlier, as I had told her I wanted to get to the gym to workout. Within about 20 minutes we were fucking right underneath the altar and we went at it for about a half hour before I pulled out and shot a load on the altar (I was 19, remember?). Turned out to be a GREAT summer. We fucked over every inch of that church.
Wow! That's hot! This is Sarah and Angi. 
Claudia and Lindsay, from Africa
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