I would have a serious issue with a woman who didn't masturbate or understand why I like to.
As a guy, I really like this, too. I focus on my balls while I jerk off. Sometimes concentrate the flow on my anus, which is nice.
I do sometimes. Have thought about filming it, but am too scared of someone finding it. I would love to have a short video of me fucking my wife or of her masturbating. Have even thought about a camera to record her without her knowing, but that seems a little creepy since she has said no. I think she's so fucking hot, but I often watch other girls do it on redditt. Seems better to get off on her....
I only masturbate alone. My wife will lend me hand if she's around, but not horny. I would love it if she were more into mutual masturbation.
I know this is for the girls, but the longest I've gone since my first real orgasm has been about 2 weeks. That is rare though. A day or two is typical.
As I've mentioned before, I'm pretty jealous of all the possibilities that women have to pleasure themselves. I have a plunger with a ribbed handle that I always imagine my wife using to get herself off. It is too big for my ass, otherwise I'd try it out.
I've only ever given a hand job to myself, but the first one I got from a woman was after I lost my virginity. I really love a good hand job. I have gotten comfortable enough to ask her to stimulate my balls, which I really like. I also love a good wanking from a chick who is okay with with stimulating my anus/perinium.
I wish this was more common. Having a friend to experiment with would be so fucking awesome.
I was caught once by my mom, which was embarrassing. I was jerking off in the backseat of my car once, and my wife asked what I was doing. I stopped because she's never gotten off by that. I talk about it more with my guy friends than my wife at this point, but wouldn't really care if she caught me. I like to cum on my wife by stroking my cock, which she gets into...
A hairbrush handle was my first anal experience. I'll still purchase just the right kind of toothbrush for that purpose if I'm at a hotel alone.
I'm a guy, and my ideal would be once or twice a day. Sometimes that doesn't work out though.
A couple of times, with my wife, who is pretty cerebral about sex. It was pretty fucking hot for me, but I'm sure she didn't cum. I've fucked a few girls in public bathrooms...once at OHare.
Clandestine masturbation, I imagine, is one of the best things about being a woman. If I had a pussy, I'd definitely have remote controlled toys to vibrate my g spot and clit.
Handjobs are so much better than doing it myself. I get them when my wife is not in the mood for sex or sometimes in the car.
I do it only when I know I won't get caught. In the car, sometimes public bathrooms (empty), one time in my office when I was a grad student. One time outdoors, fully naked, but on private property. On rare occasions, I will do it at a friend's house late at night. As I mentioned in another post, I once did it in a car while driving with 3 friends sleeping.
I generally am not turned on by men. I have never looked at a dude and thought of sex, though if I notice the outline of his dick, I can't help but stare sometimes. Lately, though, my second to last porn genre has been guys jerking off, but I always go to women when ready to cum. However, I would like to try giving head once mostly as an experiential thing.
I once tried to get off in a public pool with a water jet on my frenulum. It was after a long period of not having an orgasm. I stopped at the last minute because...it was a public pool, and I wouldn't want to swim with another dude's cum.
As a kid, I didn't really use lube--only my own saliva. I have a 'go to' method, but when the mood strikes, I like to get creative with toys or take it slow with extended dry frenulum massage. I never did anal stuff until college. What has changed a lot is what turns me on.
My wife works nights, and I generally jerk off on those nights. I take it slow like sex. I also frequently jerk off quickly in the shower--usually only for release but sometimes for an experience. Anal play is common in the shower for me, but never anywhere else.
I once jerked off in the car with 3 friends sleeping. I hope they didn't know, but I do wonder...
I had a sexy English student teacher in high school. I imagined all kinds of things with her. As a current teacher, I got a note after the semester was over from a woman telling me she fantasized about me. It was pretty detailed and graphic. I gave it to HR, but think about her every now and then.
I discovered jerking off when I was young--before I could cum, really. I had one wet dream recently (I'm in my mid-forties), while traveling with my wife and kids, not able to masturbate or have sex for a long time. Since there was so much sperm built up, the mess was a bummer.
Lately for me, it has been her rubbing her clit, pussy, and my cock while we're having sex. When she tells me about her masturbation experiences, it's also a huge turn-on.
I've made a homemade sleeve once. Tried banana peal. Have inserted various things for anal play: toothbrushes, brush handles, etc. Nothing beats the real thing.
My wife and I both watch it, but we've only watched it together a few times. For me, I like reading forums first, then finishing with short video clips. Reddit is great...
For me (I'm a guy), it is more about time dedicated to masturbation. Typically it is under 20 minutes. Sometimes less than a minute. Occasionally, I dedicate a few hours to a session. Maybe I only cum once, maybe a few times. When I'm a little buzzed, and in a hotel room, I'll go to town for much longer, and I'll get really into the whole experience. I wish I was a woman at these times, because there are some really fucking cool toys to make this kind of thing really intense.
1. Why do you like eating pussy? What do you like about it? I like the intimacy. I also like the imagery.
2. At what age did you start eating pussy, in relevance to the age at which you lost your virginity? Did performing oral come right away, or later? I ate pussy before I lost my virginity.
3. When performing oral on a lady, what pubic hair style do you like best? Is it different from your general preferences on the subject? I like a clean, smooth pussy the best, but I've never met one I didn't like.
4. What can a woman do to make your experience of eating her pussy even better? What can she do to turn you on? Get into it and tell me what works for her.
5. What can she do to turn you off from eating her pussy? Honestly, nothing.
6. Think of the first time you went down a woman. Did you like it or no? Was your love of cunnilingus immediate, or did that come later? It was immediate.
7. Have you gone down on a lady in any unusual locations? If so, where? Outside on a college campus. While parents were in the next room.
8. When a lady moves around a lot while you perform oral on her by actions, including: swirling her hips, legs shaking, pulling your hair, digging her nails into your back, wrapping legs around your head, etc., does this bother you or do you find this distracting at all? I love it.
9. Honestly: do you like the smell/taste of pussy? Yes!!!!
10. Optional: Describe the sexiest or most erotic time you have ever had while going down on a woman. The best is when I'm also receiving oral or when she's fingering herself. I fucking love that!
I often do, but especially with the cool girls I know, even if they are not really my type. I have a really good female colleague, who I often jerk off to, even though I didn't find her attractive all at first. She's really cool, and part of it is that she's a bit religious. I also have done this with my sister in law, and many of my students. I would never act on this stuff, but they make nice fantasies when you need to conjure up some imagery for masturbation.
It is one of my most common sex dreams. I'm too old and inflexible for such things though...