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Zaren
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 42
United States

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well my ex didnt exactly ask but she knew i would with a girl i was attracted to in some form. ended up doing it twice but the first one was way better and much more pleasurable. she always inquired about bringing a guy in but she never found one i was comfortable with so instead she just cheated.
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me and my ex did a threesome with one of my/her friends from high school. was never really attracted to her in high school (10 yrs ago) but after we met up years later i was. turns out she was really hot in bed and never really pursued anything do to being married at the time. would love to hook up with her with out being hindered by the ex. she was interested but didnt want to get in between me and the ex.
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haven't really talked to her in almost 2 weeks and she hasn't text me or anything so i'm guessing it's done and over with. which it how i figured it was going to end considering where it was going.
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to answer your question littlemiss the no i dont see myself developing any kind of feeling for her. I have also started distancing myself from her a bit as you said. she also knows she is not the only person i have been seeing or talking to. i enjoy having sex with her of course but outside of that there isnt anything there for me. i'm a very honest and up front person that doesnt like drama at all (why i hated high school i suppose). guess that's why i tend to get things out in the open as quickly as possible.
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i recently got divorced and currently have a friend with benefits. i told her my situation and that i had just gotten out of the 8 yr marriage and wasn't looking for anything in the aspect. i did this before we ever started doing anything sexually. yet she is starting to develop feelings for me that i'm not ready for. it has not been long at all since my divorce in which i was cheated on. my question is what should i do at this point in time. i have already reminded her of what i originally said in which she still thinks my feeling will change. any help is appreciated and i'm open for questions.
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if the person was into it and there was a attraction i'd be up for it
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always have and always will prefer small to medium sized just for the simple fact that they tend to be more perky than not. perky tits are a major turn on for me.
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my ex never gave BJs really but i would love to be woken up that way
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my advice is leave it alone and if she acts on anything make her choose her marriage or not.
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Dont get me wrong i am the dominant one the majority of the time but sometimes the woman needs to. Just in my experience it doesnt happen quite as much as i would like.
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well in my case it meant my wife was cheating. it was kind of a dead give away when nothing happens for month or 2 at a time. before that it was once or twice per week.
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with my ex wife about month or so ago and it was shitty :-/
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considering i just came out of the marriage that my wife cheated on me several times i would say no. i would never do to someone else what was done to me.
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actually going that whole process atm actually so i feel your pain.
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Definitely up hurts otherwise and can be difficult to move around going left/right/down