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WillyNorth
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Quote by JasmineSmith
So I'm curious...

Your in a bar, and want to get lucky tonight. You look around for a gal (or guy if that's your thing) to try and chat up. There are three woman at the bar.

A slutty girl/boy, clearly easy, pretty much a sure thing.
A classy woman/man, you're gonna have to try hard with this one.
A gal/bloke somewhere in the middle, can't really tell if their a slut or not.

Who do you offer a drink?


Not enough info for me. For me it's all about a connection. Which one is nice? Someone can be 'classy' but a stuck up snob. Someone can be slutty but be outgoing and with a good heart.

I would want to chat with the one that acted sweet/nice and see how we hit it off.
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Yes, but back in the 80's when the thinking was that only gay men had to worry about AIDS. When anything you caught was gone with one penicillin shot. Seems so foolhardy now, but was more commonly accepted then.

Now? I've been off the market for a long time so not an issue.
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Not at all. I think for the most part, just knowing them so well take a lot of the fun of fantasizing out. You actually know their reality, and it's much harder to see a fantasy. Much easier to fantasize about people we don't know well IMO. However, when it has come to the ladies of Lush, it becomes easier to me the more I know them, because I know their sexual thoughts and desires (my close friends from now and in the past). But IRL, sexual desires and thoughts are so as a subject that we never really know if someone is a missionary only person, or wants to be tied up and spanked. For the most part, you just never know.
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Quote by SereneProdigy
I might yet again come across as the party pooper, but this is very likely to become one of those hollow multi-page threads where you'll have plenty of guys all answering: "Hell yes, I love it!"

Funny thing is, I was chatting with a girl just yesterday and she admitted to me that guys aren't usually too eager to go down on her. I don't want to reveal too many details about that girl not to make her identifiable, but I can assure you that she is 1) Young, 2) Attractive, 3) Undoubtedly very clean. In other words, she's seemingly the perfect candidate for oral sex, and yet a lot of guys deny her of that pleasure. And I've heard similar testimonies from different women through my life, either here or in real life.

I can't really comment about why some men aren't too enthusiastic about cunnilingus, but I'm fairly certain that many of them are that way. Either if it's because they find it repulsive or they simply are egocentric while having sex still remains a mystery to me.

In all honesty, this is one of those topics where women could certainly provide a much more thorough and truthful perspective. They might not understand the reasons of men, but at least they'll provide replies that are going to be quite a bit more representative of reality.

I don't really see a lot of guys jumping on this thread and openly offering all the reasons why they dislike oral sex. If you want a whole lot of empty politically correct answers though, I'm sure you'll be served, no worries.


I don't just love it. I crave it. I love to please my partner and will kiss, lick, suck and finger her to as many orgasms as she can handle. But guys are like girls. Some love it, some do it because it is expected, but they are just doing a duty.

Think about girls. Some will blow you. And it's like you put a milking machine on your dick. Just going through the motions. I want those girls to STOP!!!!! I want the girl who tells you she is going to suck my cock like she hates it (what a great line Cameron!). I want her to give me the eye that says "I am going to make you lose your mind!" There is such a difference between a girl who will suck your clock to make you happy, and one who sucks your cock because she just loves to suck cock. You are just the lucky bastard that is with her right now.

Same for guys. Some do it to get to what they want. I want to do it to drive her mad, because it drives me mad with lust. I do it because I love to do it. I crave it. I know that any girl lucky enough to be under the ministrations of my tongue will not leave unsatisfied.
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I'm all about that bass, bout that bass (no treble). Ass all the way. Love a girl with sensitive nipples. Big boobs that are not sensitive are blah. She don't react to me sucking them so it is no fun. But a girl with bee sting tits that cums as you suck lick and nibble is INCREDIBLE!!!

A nice ass, be it fit, or extra curvy, is what I notice. give me the girl with the badonkadonk. She can be big boobed or flat chested and it's all good. But a girl with a great big chest and a flat butt won't draw my desire. Maybe it's the German side of my heritage? Need a stout fräulein. And legs. Love volleyball girls with the long strong legs.

And as my friend says "She's got the kind of legs I like! Feet on one end and a pussy on the other!"
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Intelligence and a good person to others. Down to earth, nice round booty and likes to tease and laugh. I like my girls confident...the don't need me, yet they want me. There is a very big difference. I like me girls knowing that I cannot make them happy, only they can do that. It is hard enough to try to figure out how to make ourselves happy without having to be responsible for that for someone else. I think many relationships are lost because of that pressure on the partner (This is not a girl specific remark)

I like my girl a bit aggressive as to her sexual needs in case I miss a cue. Tell me...clue me in...I am willing to participate!
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I have not. Have wondered what it would be like, but just not attracted to other guys. Perhaps with a Thai ladyman? Something where I could feel she was 99% woman with a large clit...lol
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I love and notice girls with great eyes. Turn on for sure. And great asses. Like sensitive breasts, big or small. Great lips mesmerize me.

But none of those will hold my attention for long. Who she is inside, as a person is the thing hat I will love and treasure. If she has those other things, great. But the heart is what my love will be built around.
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Her first through tenth if I can help her achieve that. My only issue is that her cumming hard makes me lose control too often and go wild.
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For fast, cowgirl. For slow grinding, and me using a small vibe on her ass at the same time, reverse.

But is there a bad position?
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I have once. Have a job where we can be closed in with no outside access.... Brought someone from Lush in with me and had a lovely time. I can see her still when I am there.
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A confident girl. One that would give me a direct look where we both know what is on our minds......and the dance that lasts until we are sated in each other's arms.
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In a girl I find attractive...yes. On some girl that I don't find attractive... It's uncomfortable. But you can't look away. A bit of a train wreck in that regard.

Now let's discuss the hilarity that are guys with moose knuckles.
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Quote by Nikki703
1982-1983, you know how it is when a kid gets a new toy!


Lol....I was going to say that myself. Seemed like all of my teenage years were spent in one long masturbation fest. Reality? Maybe an hour or two.
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Quote by Nikki703
1982-1983, you know how it is when a kid gets a new toy!


Lol....I was going to say that myself. Seemed like all of my teenage years were spent in one long masturbation fest. Reality? Maybe an hour or two.
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Fantasy? FMF. Real life? Probably more happy with one girl. But the topic does let me say my fav joke right now!

"I don't ever want to be in a threesome. I mean, if I wanted to disappoint two people at once I would just have lunch with my parents!"


Oh, but sharing partners would be hot. My girl with another guy as I am with his girl.....but I'd like to see them going at it as her and I are.
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Quote by Candylips1960
Kissing some one that chain smokes. Is like kissing a ashtray.


This. I was crazy about a girl, we would stay up all night, kissing, playing, fucking and talking while touching. She taught me most of the great things I can do in bed.

One day I can't take the ashtray licking flavor of her kisses. I was done without even asking if she would quit smoking for me. I just couldn't handle one more ashtray kiss. I should have told her why. I saw her years later and she gave me a look that said she was still very hurt over me leaving. I was with my Father in law so didn't speak with her.

I never again dated a girl who smoked though.
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Quote by Candylips1960
Kissing some one that chain smokes. Is like kissing a ashtray.


This. I was crazy about a girl, we would stay up all night, kissing, playing, fucking and talking while touching. She taught me most of the great things I can do in bed.

One day I can't take the ashtray licking flavor of her kisses. I was done without even asking if she would quit smoking for me. I just couldn't handle one more ashtray kiss. I should have told her why. I saw her years later and she gave me a look that said she was still very hurt over me leaving. I was with my Father in law so didn't speak with her.

I never again dated a girl who smoked though.

Side note....I do have halitosis forever. Something in toothpaste makes it bad, and mouthwash..the alcohol also makes it bad. There is something called Closys that does not have that. So I brush many times a day and use that mouthwash to always feel more confident with my breath. Just a FYI in case someone else has this issue.
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I wonder how the night turned out? Did she go get attention, but come home and jump on her boyfriend? Did she not come home? Is the boyfriend an ex?

I do wish that people who ask a question like this would give us some follow up on what happened. I need closure. Lol
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I wonder how the night turned out? Did she go get attention, but come home and jump on her boyfriend? Did she not come home? Is the boyfriend an ex?

I do wish that people who ask a question like this would give us some follow up on what happened. I need closure. Lol
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And Kdanielle, I saw your pics. Amazing..beautiful girl, astoundingly sexy nipples!!!!!!!

And that ass. Oh my. Any man who wouldn't want to ravage that sexy derriere is just plain nuts.
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I would always prefer a woman that is overweight compared to underweight. But that might not hold true..that is in general. I want a connection, someone who is passionate, romantic, gets naughty, and loves playing in the bedroom. If she is BBW, that is as perfectly fine as someone who is 5 foot and 100 lbs. It is WHO she is that attracts me long term.

That said...if I am walking behind a group of girls and there are fitness girls in the group, and one that is packing some big round bootay, I am going to check out the nice round ass first.