We were both young. I was spending the night at his house. He only had a mattress on the floor, no proper bed. He said he was gonna take a shower. He also says some of his dad's magazines were under the mattress. He went to the shower and I started looking through the magazines. I was getting extremely hard. He came out of the shower with just an oversized t-shirt on that went just about halfway down his upper thighs. He was standing over me and looking down at the magazine I had out. After a few page flips, I could see he was getting hard and as I looked up, I could see his cock fully erect, the tip against the t-shirt. I continued flipping pages and there was one with a girl sucking dick. I stopped there and looked up, his cock was twitching. I could see his legs tighten up and he looked like he really needed attention. I said "girls must love sucking cock, it must feel good to them too." He said something like "I wish I could be getting sucked on like that." I said I was curious to try it and he was game for that.
So I sat up and met his dick with my lips. I took him in my mouth and he moaned. I thought he was gonna cum right away and I was already feeling like I wish he would. I was really excited and in between bobbing forward and back, I would slow down and try to get more into my mouth. I was having a hard time balancing and our rocking back and forth was getting out of sync. So he started to lower himself and I laid on the mattress, not sure what he was doing. He then straddled my chest and put his cock back in my mouth. After some adjusting, he was now laying on my face. This was so erotic to me. He started pumping gently against my mouth. As he was doing that, I kept lifting my head to take more of him in. To try and get the timing right I grabbed his hips to get him with my breathing. I was just in heaven and I was eagerly anticipating him cumming. He started grunting and his thrusts were getting really strong. It started to make me gag. I guess that set him off because he started cumming with each pump. My mouth was a mix of thick mucousy saliva and his semen. I tried to swallow as much as I could but so much was just gushing right back out between my lips and his dick and my cheeks were covered in the mess.
He apologized but I told him it was actually really amazing for me. We did it a couple more times at other sleepovers until I moved away. I don't know why, but I was pretty much into girls before and after that but it's amazing I didn't become strictly gay, other than I have no interest in men other than just what's in the pants. It took several years as an adult before I would ever seek out cock to suck again. I am routinely on a popular app looking for guys though.
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I struggle with a similar issue where endurance is something that isn't working in my favor. If I could finish sooner each time, I think she would be more inclined. So I decided to make a couple changes in my life. I stopped watching porn. I read stories and stuff on here to get excited but I don't stimulate myself. I also try to abstain by not initiating sexy time as often, kinda like reclaiming my virginity. If she initiates, I'll still take care of her though. Cock rings also work well.
You can possibly turn this into a couple's game. Rules are you can't touch yourself ever for pleasure. It's her dick to use, you're just keeping it warm until she needs it. On the other hand, she can touch it as she pleases and if she doesn't get you off but only teases you, oh fucking well, you still don't get to take care of it yourself. She would have to be an absolute tease to really make it work. Like dressing sexy and if you touch her, she says sternly "no." She would be trying to keep you hard all the time until she finally makes you please her. By that time, you may have the opposite problem. Then it's kind of a learning thing where she deprives you of orgasm until she feels your endurance is a match to hers. It'll drive you nuts but the release will be intense.
You can possibly turn this into a couple's game. Rules are you can't touch yourself ever for pleasure. It's her dick to use, you're just keeping it warm until she needs it. On the other hand, she can touch it as she pleases and if she doesn't get you off but only teases you, oh fucking well, you still don't get to take care of it yourself. She would have to be an absolute tease to really make it work. Like dressing sexy and if you touch her, she says sternly "no." She would be trying to keep you hard all the time until she finally makes you please her. By that time, you may have the opposite problem. Then it's kind of a learning thing where she deprives you of orgasm until she feels your endurance is a match to hers. It'll drive you nuts but the release will be intense.
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Wow dude you are kind of a jerk, What about that part with FOR BETTER OR WORSE
what if she's depressed?
What if she's having health problems or stress
Relationships don't work when someone is refusing to look into the deeper side of things or being selfish
its not all about your sexual needs..
He said he's tried to work with her to resolve the issue such as to seek medical advice to get to the root of the problem. If she is aware of the conflict in the marriage and can't even be bothered to see a doctor to figure out what's going on, she's a bitch. She's basically saying his needs are so unimportant that she's not going to do anything about it.
As far as your opinion about me (saying I'm a jerk), your opinion means exactly jack shit to me. You are entirely unimportant.
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Deal breaker. You think the vow of "to HAVE and to HOLD is talking about hugging? I would give her two choices, either we get divorced, or I get as much anonymous sex on the side as I want. I would even go so far as to have a lawyer draft a contract permitting it.
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Yes, but only for alpha males. I'm not about to let some weak man have her. Last time I shared her, he was an electrical lineman with muscles and a well-worn Stetson hat. I learned a lot about my wife that night. He was fucking her doggy style like he was the human jackhammer and she was getting so loud I got concerned and asked if she was ok. She gave me an enthusiastic "Yes". I learned that sometimes a girl likes that slow sensual pleasure and other times she wants to be used like a rag doll by a guy who's only seeking to get his fill.
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Every day all day long .It is hard to work somewhere that is almost all men when that is all you can think about is big hard cocks . It is even worse for me now at work since I went to the haloween party dressed as a secretary.Most of the women already knew and some of the men but now everyone knows that I cross dress and like men .
Could be a good thing though because hopefully it turns up some new guys that are willing to approach you.
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My first cock was unremarkable. He was trying to find a top and I was not his guy for that. He would interrupt every time he was getting a message from the chat room. I left unhappy. From then on, I stayed clear of bottoms because they try to get you by letting you suck on them but they're just trying to get you to fuck them but I'm not interested most of the time in doing that.
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Most of my marriage she would never take a load in her mouth. Here recently, after a particular romantic night that moved from the pool back into the bedroom, that changed. I was doing her doggy style and grabbed a clump a hair and told her when I cum, I want to explode in her mouth and I want her to swallow it like a good girl. She said yes, which got me really excited so she got quite a workout. Then, when I was ready to pop, I got it into her mouth and she did as she was told. That's when I learned that she has a submissive side. We're starting to do some light s&m type stuff and it's putting a new twist on things for us.
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There is a difference from one to the other, but for me the biggest thing is her giving herself to me. I have a lot of endurance, to the point of it being a hindrance, but new pussy can make me a minute man again. It's also about how she responds, every girl is unique in that.
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What do you think the marital vow of "to HAVE and to HOLD" really mean? You think they're talking about hugging? She's breaking her vows by not letting you have her and hold her.
I would emphasize that you're done with this shot by moving yourself into the spare bedroom if you have one. If she gets unsettled by that action, tell her the next step is you moving out, followed by divorce.
I would emphasize that you're done with this shot by moving yourself into the spare bedroom if you have one. If she gets unsettled by that action, tell her the next step is you moving out, followed by divorce.
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I have and I enjoy it so much! I'm an enthusiastic cocksucker. I especially love getting face fucked but so many guys seem a bit reserved about doing it. Even though I'm enthusiastic about sucking cock, I'm still too submissive to clearly say what I want. Sometimes, I'll get my hands on his ass and start pushing his hips toward my face to get them thrusting. Had a black guy that responded well to this and started fucking my face so hard and fast my eyes got teary as I gagged a lot but it was fucking great. Now I'm doing freediving breathing exercises to learn how to hold my breath for extended lengths of time and learning to train out my gag reflexes. I dream of getting to a point where I can lay down and have a guy on top of me just fucking my mouth like it was a pussy.
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I was giving this other guy a blowjob and he was laying on his side on the bed and I was sucking him in. He started to gently thrust each time my mouth went down. We got a good rhythm going and my breathing was well-timed too. So I put my hand on his ass cheek and would squeeze and push his thrusts to my mouth deeper. He took that to mean I wanted to get my mouth fucked, and fuck it he did. He cradled my head and started to pump my mouth hard while he smacked my ass with his other hand. He was bigger so getting his whole cock in my mouth was making my eyes tear up. I would also gag but his cock was pretty much plugging my throat while the urge passed. It was difficult but I didn't care, all I could think about was getting his load. I wanted his cum but I also was fine with him to just keep fucking my mouth. When he came, I never even got a taste, he was too deep to even get some on my tongue. I relive it often when I jerk off.
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When I was younger, I could just barely get the head in. Not really deep enough to stroke with my lips. So I would suckle it and drool out a lot and jerk off with my saliva. Then I would cum and it would fill my mouth and run down my cock. The mixture of cum and saliva was super slick and back then I could get in a second or third load pretty quickly. My balls would just be coated and it was just so hot.
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Another way of bringing this up with the wife is finding out who her celebrity crush is. My wife gets wet for Jason Statham. So I would ask questions like how big she thinks his dick would be, whether she thinks he would be a passionate lover or use her as a fuck toy. Which way she would prefer it. Would she want to blow him, how good he'd eat her pussy, etc. After some conversation, letting her know that if she ever got the opportunity to bang him, that not only would I be ok with it, but I would expect her to go for it.
The whole idea here is putting the idea of sex with another man out there as a possibility yet in a "probably will never happen" sort of context. In that way, it becomes a "safe" fantasy. You can expand by maybe exploring the same fantasy but with a local celebrity. This further adds the excitement because the possibility is less remote.
Later, if at a club or bar, say something like "if you were here single and determined to get laid tonight, which guy would you pick? (Not me)" "you think he would dick you down good?" Do that over the course of a few evenings out. Then, when you get back home, continue the fantasy of her having picked him up.
The whole idea here is putting the idea of sex with another man out there as a possibility yet in a "probably will never happen" sort of context. In that way, it becomes a "safe" fantasy. You can expand by maybe exploring the same fantasy but with a local celebrity. This further adds the excitement because the possibility is less remote.
Later, if at a club or bar, say something like "if you were here single and determined to get laid tonight, which guy would you pick? (Not me)" "you think he would dick you down good?" Do that over the course of a few evenings out. Then, when you get back home, continue the fantasy of her having picked him up.
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We've done it and it has improved our sex lives. I would always screw her gently or just not overly rough. Well, we did this mfm threesome and this guy was working the hell out of her. Slamming against her hips, pulling her hair hard, everything. For him, fucking her was all about what he wanted, she was just the outlet. She was panting and getting louder than I ever heard. We talked about it afterward and it turned out she was really into that. So now, I have learned to be way more aggressive about fucking her. We still do the lovemaking thing but when she's giving me that playful vibe, I fuck it like I'm trying to wreck it.