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ToriSlutCD
3 weeks ago
Heteroflexible Trans Female, 63
0 miles · Fredericksburg
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After reading all the other immediate responses, I feel pretty slutty, but I have done all 7, numerous times.
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Without a doubt, it would be Queen and Freddie. Every live tape I have seen of them perform was not just music, but a mass audience experience.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TkFHYODzRTs
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TkFHYODzRTs
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There are those I have loved in the past that I still think of fondly, decades later. There are also those that I have loved that are still deeply in my heart, and will always be loved (or at least the memory of what we shared). Those, the love will never stop for. That doesn't mean that we would have the same love today, we are both different people now than we were then, but, the love for them as they were then is, and always will be the same. I guess it depends on the person and the relationship we had.
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Pain is a tricky but desirable thing for me. It is always desired at some level, even if that is a bit of nipple torture, but can go all the way up to a very hard paddling or flogging that leaves bruises to be proud of. How much depends on my state of mind, and how much prep my Domme has done. A slow build-up will always have me taking more and more. Bottom line, I seem to always be chasing sub-space, and the situation and play always determines whether I find it or not.
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We have both seen the other with all combinations. I believe her current favorite is to watch me with another man.
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No place has beat Home Depot (Dom Depot) for the amount of time, money and effort that has gone into our dungeon. Chains, restraints, and all the wood one needs for building a lot of wonderful furniture.
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Over the years, I have found that regardless of what the "accepted" definition of a word is, many have a different view and understanding of that word. When it comes to sex, porn, and kink, it is even more cloudy based on the person interpreting their meaning of it. This is a very good example of where lines become fuzzy for some. In erotic writing and porn, I have seen the words cuckhold, cuckcake, cheating, hot wife, swinging, and open relationship used interchangeably, where in my mind, they are different and distinct acts. So for me, here is how I see each of those terms and define them in my mind:
Cuckhold - the wife has sex with other people, with her partners knowledge, and tends to force him to accept it regardless of his desires (normally approved of at some level by him)
Cuckcake - the husband has sex with other people, with his partners knowledge, and tends to force her to accept it regardless of her desires (normally approved of at some level by her)
Cheating - one person has sex with someone not their partner, without that partners knowledge
Hot Wife - the wife has sexual relations with others, outside of the relationship, with her partners knowledge and blessing. The wife shares the experience later with her husband
Swinging - both partners have sex with others outside of their relationship, with their partners knowledge and blessing. This is normally together (can also be called swapping)
Open Relationship - both partners have agreed to be open to sexual relations with others outside of their relationship and have permission to pursue sex with others
Of course, this is just my understanding and opinion, and it can and does vary by person.
Cuckhold - the wife has sex with other people, with her partners knowledge, and tends to force him to accept it regardless of his desires (normally approved of at some level by him)
Cuckcake - the husband has sex with other people, with his partners knowledge, and tends to force her to accept it regardless of her desires (normally approved of at some level by her)
Cheating - one person has sex with someone not their partner, without that partners knowledge
Hot Wife - the wife has sexual relations with others, outside of the relationship, with her partners knowledge and blessing. The wife shares the experience later with her husband
Swinging - both partners have sex with others outside of their relationship, with their partners knowledge and blessing. This is normally together (can also be called swapping)
Open Relationship - both partners have agreed to be open to sexual relations with others outside of their relationship and have permission to pursue sex with others
Of course, this is just my understanding and opinion, and it can and does vary by person.
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I had started having issues after turning 50, and viagra did the trick, even after my first prostate surgery. Now, at 59 and a second surgery, things just don't inflate. My orgasms still feel the same from stimulation of my soft member, but following the second surgery, there is absolutely no more cum in them...kind of a dry heave thing now. The doctor said it was normal to have this issue, called retrograde ejaculation, but t is still disappointing. We have just found other ways to make me feel good, but it is all a bit of a blow to the ego when the desire hasn't diminished a bit (actually grown), but the ability is less than optimal.
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My wife gave me an anklet for Christmas this past year and it has only been taken off once for surgery since. I love looking down and seeing it, I love the constant feel of it. While she didn't intend it this way, I like to think of it as almost a collar...signifying both her ownership as well as the acknowledgement of my status as that of a slut.
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I started as a cross dresser, and as I felt more and more comfortable and at home in my own body, I have transitioned into someone who is full time Transgender...never been happier!
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While I do enjoy receiving head, I have always been so submissive with other men that I only care about what I am doing to him, and not what he s doing to me, so I will say I enjoy giving better than receiving.
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Quite a few times actually, both men and women. I always went into it knowing that it was random horny people getting together for raunchy sex, and in all but one case, it was an enjoyable experience. The one-time it wasn't? She wanted me to come to her place, she would pretend to be asleep and I would take what I wanted and leave. No connection to me meant not a lot of fun. The best time? She messaged me on collarme.com (kink oriented site). We hooked up, met again and again after, and we are now married.
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Given the opportunity, I'd be on the next ship leaving this rock.
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I had been sexual with men much longer than women, so accepted that part of myself from the beginning. Now, I realize that I get mentally and emotionally fulfilled by women in a no man ever could match, and physically fulfilled by men in a way that no woman ever could match. I happily and without question take joy where I find it.
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Now that this question got me thinking about it, I guess that "many" is the best answer I can give. While I can give an answer for women I have been with fairly easily, I would guess that men out number the women somewhere around 4 to 1.
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Now that this question got me thinking about it, I guess that "many" is the best answer I can give. While I can give an answer for women I have been with fairly easily, I would guess that men out number the women somewhere around 4 to 1.
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Now that this question got me thinking about it, I guess that "many" is the best answer I can give. While I can give an answer for women I have been with fairly easily, I would guess that men out number the women somewhere around 4 to 1.
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Interesting to think about. At one point in my life, I was a dom and while not seeking the age difference, my sub's were all 20-30 years younger than me. I have since transitioned to being a sub, and my Domme is 20 years younger than I, and she has the experience to make it work for us both. Maybe my preference is for younger women in general, but I don't seek to find them, each of my last few partners found me when I wasn't even looking for a partner,
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Interesting to think about. At one point in my life, I was a dom and while not seeking the age difference, my sub's were all 20-30 years younger than me. I have since transitioned to being a sub, and my Domme is 20 years younger than I, and she has the experience to make it work for us both. Maybe my preference is for younger women in general, but I don't seek to find them, each of my last few partners found me when I wasn't even looking for a partner,
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The wife is fond of rubbing and teasing me when we go out. She likes to make me cum in my panties right after leave the house (last time was in the garage before we pulled out) and then making me spend the evening with my panties full of cum.