The one that's better in bed.
But in all seriousness as long as we are talking curves and not rolls then personality every time. Besides skinny chicks don't have any pre attached toys, and where is the fun in that.
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Thrawn4191
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 33
United States
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For me, i don't care about the peach fuz, baby hair, whatever you want to call it on the small of a woman's back. Leg hair is annoying for the same reason a guys beard is annoying, its prickly and can kill the mood, also if its long enough to be soft then i feel like i'm screwing a guy/transexual. Breast hair pluck please. Pubic hair (don't know if you are including that in butt hair or you meant hairy cheeks but I'm going to assume you didn't) as long as its not a jungle who cares, heck even if it is it's not that big of a deal, just may be a bit annoying to go down on when you get hairs up your nose and stuck in your teeth, but as far as looks go rock it if you want.
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I've gone down on my wife or girlfriend after cumming to give her seconds or thirds so I guess technically yes, can't say i felt one way or the other about it
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I have yet to engage in any single person in conversation or communication outside of forum or blog posts. I'm not unwilling to I just haven't, and have always found making "friends" strictly online rather odd. However while I do enjoy the stories here and most certainly get my kicks from that, I also enjoy the forum topics and the discussions that can ensue. I would tend to think of Lush as leaning slightly more toward a community based on this simply for the fact that we are all here looking at, talking about, discussing, etc... sex, and doesn't a group of people with a common interest who gather together in one place make it at least a loose internet community? I would say yes
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See that's why I was curious in the first place. Everyone I know is either all in or no go period
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My wife was a virgin when we got married and I was not. I'll be honest it took a couple weeks for her to get into the swing of things but that has more to do with the fact that she grew up a good girl so hadn't really explored her body enough to give me many pointers (like don't lick her clit because it tickles, etc...). As far as the sexual compatibility is concerned I think that is a bunch of horse shit. If you know the person well enough to get married, you know their personality, how they treat you, how they communicate with you, how touching them makes you feel, how being with them makes you feel, how they will react to different situations. If you don't know them that well then you shouldn't be getting married in the first place, but if you do then your sex life will be fine. I could tell if a girl would be a good lay or not long before we got in bed (aside from drunk college hookups lol). You should be able to tell if someone can please you or not by knowing them. If your retort is the parts may not fit as well as they could well guess what, sex is about pleasuring your partner, not shoving a dick inside a vag and hoping they fit. Toys, fingers, mouths, tongues, and flavored lube were all made for a reason. If you want to wait don't worry if you know the person well enough to marry them, you can make it hot, just don't expect fireworks the first time. If you think experience in bed will land you a marriage your an idiot but also don't be so quick to judge someone who isn't a virgin just because you may be
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personally, it depends on how each woman tastes. I dated a chick who had a very sharp bitter taste, i only went down on her because I knew she liked it. My wife on the other hand has a almost buttery taste which drives me crazy so if she's in the mood I'm on my knees for her faster than a 5 dollar whore
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I think what each person wants out of this site determines that. We are generally all looking for stimulation, but those wanting more intelligent stimulation base things off of stories, forum responses, and implied personality. Those looking for visual or physical stimulation look for who has the best ass or seems DTF
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do you still enjoy getting your anus played with then? Or is that just a no go area. (if you don't mind sharing)
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I had asked her before I posted, she say's it's ok just doesn't feel as good as non penetrative attention, she gets bored with it and would rather vaginal penetration. I was just wondering if other women had this attitude or if she wasn't coming out with something. I prefer a good blow job to fucking her ass so that's not really an important reason for asking either lol, I just want to make sure she isn't missing out on anything I can give her.
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My wife absolutely loves it when i play with her anus, rubbing, rimming, etc... but whenever i insert anything, lubed or not, she doesn't seem to enjoy it as much or at all. Is this common? Suggestions or preferences are welcome.
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I manage the office so I'm generally the last one out the door, which equates to plenty of time for erotic reading or occasionally movies so yes. Plus, at work we have our own building and no close neighbors so I can turn the volume as loud as I want