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TheUprightMan
2 months ago
Straight Cis Male, 63
0 miles · Minneapolis

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Using Firefox 75.0 (64-bit) on a Windows machine (Win10). I'm suddenly unable to see new messages. The count of unread messages keeps climbing, but I'm not seeing them in my inbox.
Quote by Ivanka

Those cameras have caught people smoking cannabis in their auto, or having a bottle of bier or Pinot between their legs,
or giving another motorist the middle-finger bird sign, which ist a rather high traffic fine itself.


Flipping someone off is a traffic violation? I thought Germans had a strong respect for free speech.
Seeing a lot of ladies; here's a bit of the gentlemanly side of things:



We can look elegant too; it's just that all too often, we don't.
That would absolutely be a turn-on. Like reading stories on Lush, but more personal, which is always sexier.
Quote by Littlefreaky
Well when I see a guys pants tenting its kind of obvious that hes checking me out


In your case, who could blame him? ;)
Sam, first of all, welcome to Lush! I've found this to be a friendly, supportive, and lusty community, largely populated by decent people. Now, being a woman, you'll doubtless attract more jerks than I have, but I hope your experience here is positive overall.

On to your issue...

I'm sorry you've had bad luck with lovers. For myself, I love giving oral, but I know there are plenty of men who somehow don't think it's "manly" or something.

If you're going to put your mouth on him, it's only reasonable that he put his on you, or find some other way to satisfy you that you find an acceptable substitute. If you don't think anything is an adequate replacement for licking your clit, he needs to know that up front.

There are men out there who love giving oral (all of my circle of friends where the subject has come up, for sure); I hope you find several!
Getting a GF off with my hand while driving across country in a moving truck?

Or full-on doggy sex in a field. Beautiful sunny day, with cars a quarter-mile away or so. She turned out to be seriously unstable, but the sex was always great.
Getting a GF off with my hand while driving across country in a moving truck?

Or full-on doggy sex in a field. Beautiful sunny day, with cars a quarter-mile away or so. She turned out to be seriously unstable, but the sex was always great.
Quote by HeraTeleia
So, as to the title question, if a man is bisexual or heteroflexible, that's fine--monogamy is monogamy, and if he's with me, he's with me, not with anyone else. As to the other questions, a MMF is on my bucket list, but if it doesn't happen, so be it.


Could be persuaded to participate in that ;) but I'm boringly hetero, so basically you'd be getting all the attention. If that would work for you...
Quote by hidden_agenda73


I thought this was snow at first.

Also, delicious tanlines!
Quote by katiescott19999
Not on purpose. It was rather embarrassing latter when I found out. But also made me so wet at the same time


That sounds like a tale worth hearing! ?
What is the difference between a woman selling (renting, really) her body and a model or an athlete or a construction worker or a truck driver doing essentially the same thing? Allowing an employer to gain something from the body and the specific skillset the person brings to bear. I respect a sex worker who gives good value for the money as much as I do any of those (and rather more than some politicians or CEOs).

Obviously, coerced sex work is utterly unacceptable, and anyone engaging in such coercion should be penalized stiffly, but prostitution itself? I have no moral problem with that.
Quote by SonofAphrodite
If she said her husband got turned on by the thought, and had given her a free pass or would you be shocked and put off.


Oh, sure. The question is always "are all participants fully-informed, competent, consenting adults?" So if the husband is into it, and she and I are into one another, absolutely.

Much less likely to "go there" if she's cheating.
Not nearly often enough. More MFMs than FMFs; my preference is the latter, but circumstances have historically worked out the other way.

A few bigger groupings, too...
I used to want to be on the first colony starship, but [a] I'm too old and creaky for that, and it's not happening in my lifetime anyway.

But would I go on a trip to space? LEO? ISS? The Moon? Fuck, yes!
Yes, but I'd want to hone the bejabers out of my poker skills first. Because she's not interested in my kind, so she wouldn't enjoy seeing me naked. Which means if someone's going to enjoy the ensuing nudity, it'll have to be me.

And I would, because she's stunning
Like a couple of other posters, I can't see myself doing that. The one time I had a lady ask me to insert a finger into her anus, I felt I had to keep it away from anything else until I could wash it. It just screams "infection!" to my hindbrain.
I spent 7 years in England as a boy (and won the Spoken English cup at school more than once), then moved back to New England, worked for a Kentuckian for a couple of years (from whom I picked up "y'all" and a hint of a drawl), spent some time working with some young gentlemen "from the hood," and now live in the Midwest. So it's a weird amalgam; most people pick up on the England, but can tell there's something else going on. No one's yet guessed every part of my linguistic history!
Quote by Guest
So do you older many really want to atleast once, does age really matter for you; what is the greatest age difference you would allow? What is one thing you would like to do with her that you cannot do now?


I'm in my late fifties, so "younger" covers a lot of territory. When you get under 30, I start to pause, although if someone was really hot and/or really interesting, I'd be interested. Really young women I'm not likely to get into a relationship with, since we'd probably have little in common. For playtimes, well, that's more flexible.