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TheUprightMan
2 months ago
Straight Cis Male, 63
0 miles · Minneapolis
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If you haven't read fuzzyblue's work, you're missing a bet. Deeply intense, and while there's plenty of sex, there's plenty of other material too. Definitely my favorite author; I confess I'm a bit smitten with her, actually.
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Quote by nil4sinDo u think that spirituality and sexuality can coexist?
No question about it. "All acts of love and pleasure are My rituals" says the Charge of the Goddess.
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I have, and now that Lush has that option I think that makes it even better. Not giving out phone numbers; just using the video chat room feature.
Now all I need is a willing partner or two ;)
Now all I need is a willing partner or two ;)
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I can't think of any sexual aspect to a woman's past that would make me discount her. If she has a disease, I need to know, but that's about it.
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So, I'm looking for the benefit of everyone's expertise here.
I'm not either naturally dom or sub; I'm more the "cooperative" type. However, I recently got into a chat with a stunning friend whom I've been lusting after for quite a while. The text conversation went from "hi" to flirting to discussing how not-gentlemanly she would like me to be, in the space of about thirty delightful minutes, at her instigation.
Her schedule is really full, so it'll be a couple of weeks before we can actually get together in person, which is bad because I really want to spend some time with her, both clothed and otherwise, but is good because I need advice on how to dom someone who's really subby without being naturally dominant myself.
I have some fairly straightforward ideas (shibari, spanking, maybe tell her not to wax for a while beforehand and then wax her myself), but I need suggestions on (a) things to do with/on/to her and (b) how to present as dominant when I'm not.
She and I will be having at least one good long conversation about this, to give me some ideas of what she likes, but I'm also looking for advice from the site with the most sexpertise that I know.
Aaaaand ... go!
I'm not either naturally dom or sub; I'm more the "cooperative" type. However, I recently got into a chat with a stunning friend whom I've been lusting after for quite a while. The text conversation went from "hi" to flirting to discussing how not-gentlemanly she would like me to be, in the space of about thirty delightful minutes, at her instigation.
Her schedule is really full, so it'll be a couple of weeks before we can actually get together in person, which is bad because I really want to spend some time with her, both clothed and otherwise, but is good because I need advice on how to dom someone who's really subby without being naturally dominant myself.
I have some fairly straightforward ideas (shibari, spanking, maybe tell her not to wax for a while beforehand and then wax her myself), but I need suggestions on (a) things to do with/on/to her and (b) how to present as dominant when I'm not.
She and I will be having at least one good long conversation about this, to give me some ideas of what she likes, but I'm also looking for advice from the site with the most sexpertise that I know.
Aaaaand ... go!
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Lush has a voice/video option now, so if your partner is concerned about security through even , this is an option.
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I normally don't like horror films. Life is terrifying enough, thankyouverymuch, and I identify with the victims far too easily.
However...
However...
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I would, except Terri is not interested in the likes of me. So, since I don't want to have sex with anyone who doesn't want to have sex with me, that's a no.
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I would be delighted to. I'm really bad at poker, though, so this would motivate me to take a thousand or so classes.
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I've had sex in public places. Nothing too wild--I don't need to get arrested for public indecency--but at a campground during a clothing-optional event several times. Also in a field at midday with cars going by about a quarter-mile away. To this day, I wonder if anyone noticed.
I like it. Now that I'm older and have more to lose and fewer years to recover, I'm less likely to risk arrest, so I'm more likely to go for "outdoors, yes; in public, no."
I like it. Now that I'm older and have more to lose and fewer years to recover, I'm less likely to risk arrest, so I'm more likely to go for "outdoors, yes; in public, no."
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Quote by LisaMM
My husband wants to try swinging. I’m nervous.
Anytime a (non-sterile) penis goes into a (non-sterile) vagina, there's a risk of pregnancy. Some thoughts...
First, you say your husband wants to try swinging. How do you feel about it? Do you not want to? Are you not particularly interested, but willing to give it a go? Or is this something you've been secretly fantasizing about but are a bit nervous now that it might become reality?
Are you nervous just because you don't want to get pregnant, or do you have other concerns? Make sure you both understand and agree to negotiated limits, and by that I don't mean "whatever one of you can wheedle the other into (or out of)" If one of you says "no kissing," and the other says "OK," it's not OK to later say "well, it was just once" or "just a peck." If one of you says "nothing that could make anyone pregnant," then both parties have to mean it and agree. If one of you is reluctantly agreeing to a limit, or reluctantly going beyond a comfort zone, you probably need more discussion before you try anything.
Second, once you've set boundaries and committed to them (with, perhaps, an option to renegotiate at some future time if you both want to), discuss things like STD and pregnancy risks. If your biggest concern is pregnancy, then perhaps you want to say no penises in vaginas until you can get set up with an IUD or the pill. And probably still best to commit to condoms.
I've gone a bit beyond the scope of your original question -- in fact, I haven't answered your original question LOL -- but I hope you find some use in my rather verbose response.
And, to answer your question, I don't know of anyone who got pregnant from swinging once, but I do know a couple who had a child because they decided to forgo contraception "just this once." Literally, once.
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Fuzzy is amazing. I keep telling her about the depth and complexity in her stories, and she keeps trying to handwave it away. I am not sure she has any understanding of how amazingly good her writing is.
When I read "The Library is Closing Now," I knew this was something special. She has yet to disappoint. I'm kinda crushing on her purely for the quality of her writing, TBH.
When I read "The Library is Closing Now," I knew this was something special. She has yet to disappoint. I'm kinda crushing on her purely for the quality of her writing, TBH.
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Her fingers slip slowly inside
Completing the entry she sighed
There's not been a man
Completing the entry she sighed
There's not been a man
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I have to wonder how many of the "no way" ladies here distinguish between men in at-least-nominally monogamous marriages and those in explicitly non-monogamous ones.
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Newman's Own Light Caesar. Goes on all kinds of salad, and adds dimension to any number of other foods. I put it in spaghetti sauce or sautee meats in it, for example. It's an all-purpose wonder!
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Quote by Venutian
Anyone here fascinated or curious by occult practices such as Tarot and Astrology? Have you ever tried casting a spell? Would you ever try witchcraft?
Wiccan since before you were born, so ... yeah. I've never actually been much for either Tarot or astrology, but other forms of divination do resonate with me. I've cast the occasional spell, but find my results unreliable; sometimes implausibly spectacular, others ... well ... not so much. If I have a problem I can't solve myself nowadays, I usually either suck it up or ask the gods for help. Of course, They aren't always inclined to help either, but sometimes They'll blow the doors off.
Like most things in life, it's a mixed bag.