So... I can't believe this actually happened! It was kind of ridiculous and didn't have to end up the way it did. Hi, it's Kathy again and my boyfriend Dave and I were going through a tough patch and it looked like we were drifting apart. We had a long talk one evening and it was he who suggested we spice up the relationship to keep the relationship. We had been together since High School and I did truly love him so I agr...