It's a question we get asked fairly often, but it's not something we would ever arrange. I wrote a blog piece on the legality of nuru massage in London but it applies to all forms of massage where the lines might get a little blurry. Hope this is useful x

Pro tip! Use your breath on their neck, back, ass etc as you work your way down. The sensation of breath with the massage oil is devine!

Another vote for coconut oil. I love the smell, and it's impossible to spill on your sheets/carpet, which is very handy once you start moving through the positions! I'll never get the stain off my sofa after i kicked a bowl of massage oil over whilst moving into a 69 ;-)

You can mix up your own all-natural gels and oils, too. I've used this nuru massage gel recipe before and loved being able to tweak it with a bit of aloe vera or whatever you prefer.

Generally, just opt for natural products over chemicals, and you'll be fine, but remember that everybody is different so find what works for you. xx

Hi all. I do some writing for a London based tantric massage blog. There's lots of great information there about tantra, massage, breathwork etc. There's even a recipe for how to make your own nuru massage gel at home! (you can also just buy it on Amazon though!)

Let me know if you like it and if you have any ideas for new topics. I'm always looking for inspiration on what to write next! x

Any massage can be great. It shows devotion and a willingness to hold space for the other person.

E - Erotic Massage

This sounds fun! I'm in x