I never considered myself homosexual, or even inclined that way. I mean, I had thought about it - what it would be like and would I find it weird or gross, and I determined that I would never go there. Never had a gay fling growing up, got married in my mid-twenties and was always attracted to women. I never stepped out on my wife and never acted out on any sexual fantasies. But then I got divorced and flung myself into a...