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Starlust
Over 90 days ago
Bi-curious Male, 40
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Came home from work and saw...

Damn that's nice. That's veeeery similar to my fantasy which is F/F cheating based too.

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Really, so much time has passed. Has your life changed somehow?

Basically, I was stalling over it up until COVID happened. Now that I have a job again, I'm probably gonna go for it in the next few months somehow. Have to admit it's an intimidating idea.

Honestly, dating and relationships seem as distant and incomprehensible to me as hardcore quantum physics. It's been years since I had a proper crush on a girl, to the point where I've started to suspect I'm aromantic.

Lesbian affairs. Especially a dominant butch/tomboy seducing a beautiful woman behind her guy's back and doing dirty things to her, especially licking and tongue-fucking her ass. I like pretty much everything to do with rimming as well.
^ Short hair and big tits are always an awesome combination ;)
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Which is why I recommended finding an online community dedicated to it. They'll know the local law, how to work with/around that law, and which women are "safe" in the area. It is technically illegal to buy sex up here, too, but the good independent escorts who work out of a private location and don't explicitly advertise sexual services (you have to be a bit cagey with language up here) are often ignored or even helped by the cops, who prefer to focus on trafficked women and street girls.


AFAIK, paying for sex in legal here in the UK, what isn't legal is pimping, soliciting in public, running a brothel etc.
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Aspergers is still a bit of a bummer in Western Societies, who are basically excellent at things sexy people are less good at but struggle with the things sexy people excel at. They are discriminated against as a result, not legally but in practical terms.

I cannot conceive of a worse way to meet women than getting drunk at the pub and having one hundred decibel noise blaring out in a disco, but that is what UK society suggested growing up. I did rather better leading women on a ski slope with a smart jacket on....it guaranteed one common interest and as I was good at it, confident in resort, it made me relaxed and attractive for some reason or other.

I personally do not see why bartering sex is honourable but paying cash is disgraceful. We buy food to eat in cash, we do not fill shelves at Tesco for five hours in exchange for a weeks food, after all. So you should have no issues with societal hang ups, for that is what they are. After all, if you give an escort two hundred, she gets to choose what to spend it on. You buy her supper, she puts out for a romantic meal. Less empowering....

Go for it, but remember that if you do date normal woman afterwards, do not expect them to be as professional without practice!


Yep you're entirely right....added to that I live in Brighton with its 'party' culture and you can just imagine. Sometimes I think a lot of dating advice out there on the Net is too USA-centric and isn't well suited to more reserved cultures. They make it sound like striking up a conversation with anyone at the bus stop or laundrette is easy as anything, lol.
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I see what you mean. But to be honest - it's not going to be of much benefit to someone who cant even get a date with a woman. It may actually have the reverse effect - particularly if you struggle, for example, to get an erection - which can easily happen with virgins who go to escorts. But hey - if you fuck like a champion then yes - it will do your confidence some good.


Well, here's the 3 main benefits I think I'd get from the experience:

1. It would de-mystify sex for me
2. It would get the "monkey off my back" so I wouldn't feel branded as a virgin anymore
3. It would fulfill my fantasy of doing it with a beautiful woman

I'm certain not working under the illusion that it'll make me suddenly confident with girls or anything, I know it's not a magic bullet....but in short getting the whole "virgin!!11" thing out the way might help things?

Thanks for your answers so far!
I'm over 30 and have never done the deed.....thanks to Asperger's, depression and having average looks/body I find it tough to engage women in a romantic way. Added to that, neither my work, hobbies or (very limited) friend circle bring me anywhere where I can meet girls easily. So yeah, I'm thinking the only way I won't die a virgin is to go the commercial route.....It looks like most people here have no problem getting sex wherever for free but has anyone done the same? Thanks.
Hi,

I've just about completed my first erotic story (actually my first published piece full stop) and I'd be really glad if someone took a look over mine. I'm pretty happy with it but as it's my first venture into erotic writing I'd appreciate it ;) Thanks.