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Stardrinking
Over 90 days ago
Bisexual Male, 38

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Yes, people have weird kinks, fetishes and perversions. Some are normal, some are disgusting (like the one you mentioned) and some are very disturbing. Nothing to worry about as long as it doesn't harm you or anyone you know or love.
I can't think of any, unless you mean the literal oppressive master and slave documentary type things.
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Actually I have lived this lifestyle for 38 years and every pet I have had and every Master I have known has used a real Collar not a representation of one


I've found both ways have happened. Maybe times and attitudes are just changing, getting less traditional.
I don't have either, but in the past it has never bothered me. Why would it? We've all got free will, we can look at whatever, or whomever we want.
Nope, it doesn't bother me. If we can't be sexy together, with no holds barred, what's the point?
I like boobs. Simple as that. But, in terms of preference, I like them to be natural to the woman's body, so whether they be big, small, or whatever, I really don't mind. Boobs are just great, no matter what. Sometimes I wish I had boobs.
I don't use lube very often, most of the time I'm dry. I think the term "dry" is a bit of an oxymoron, though. I have my own lubricant, natural secretions and all that.
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You got skills.



Time was, but now I'm not so skilled. It was fun while it lasted.
I tried the ass one, that was painful, but I used to be quite adept at sucking my cock.
I don't change mine, but only because I'm lazy. I grabbed this one from Google and just decided it was mine.
Kissing is always a good start, but I find seduction to be better. If you can turn their mind on, the body will follow. I know it isn't the same for every woman, but in general, women tend to be a bit more cerebral about sex. I'd make her feel good about herself. Compliment her, kiss her starting with her lips, move on to her neck, hold her close, tell her how beautiful she is and just generally spoil her.
A lot of men feel threatened. They ask themselves questions like "is she going to enjoy this too much and leave me for her/him?" I think that's the biggest thing. Instead of talking it through and making sure everyone is happy, the man ignores his feelings until it's too late and then backs out at the very last moment, just because he didn't address those concerns. Of course, I'm just surmising, I really don't know. Personally, if a woman has asked me for a threesome, I've always gone for it. But then, I've never been in love with any of those women, so maybe that makes a difference.
Depends on who I'm with. Last time it was about nine or ten times. Generally, if I'm putting my mind to it, two or three. If I'm not trying too hard or I'm not really bothered, just once. Really just does depend on the circumstances.
I think it would work better if the Dom(me) was to shave the sub. There's more trust required in that, I think.
I think the word "collar" is used a little too literally, as with a lot of words in BDSM culture. In my opinion, it doesn't have to be an actual collar. I bracelet, watch, necklace, choker or any other piece of everyday jewellery can be used, as long as the intention in which it was given is pure and both parties know it's a "collar" and what said collar represents.
Mine is wherever it can be booted, damaged and broken. I don't know exactly where that is, but it's very inconvenient.
I find it hot. To think that someone can just let go, squirting with wild abandon is so sexy. If it's just occasionally, it can be even hotter, and also fills me with pride, knowing something I did may have caused it.
Fortunately, I met a man who was also bi-curious and we experimented. We were sexual right from the moment we met, so there was no awkwardness. I think your best bet is to go out and hone your gaydar.