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Sperminator
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 36

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Agree a meeting with a girl from Badoo, open the door, tongue in her mouth after 10 seconds and dick inside her (unprotected) after about 5 minutes?
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Really fucking hot if she is clean and into it.

So far, I have licked four girls' assholes and that tally will no doubt increase.
Two of them have also licked my ass. Two others were casual hookups whose asses I licked on the first date.
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This is much, much more common than you seem to think.

If you're a guy who always has his condoms ready before even letting the woman voice her opinion on the subject, you may have a different perception, but the truth is that many women leave it up to the guy if he wants to wear a condom. If you don't bring up condoms yourself, they don't either, and are happy to just let it happen. And then there is a smaller minority of women who will actually tell you up front that you can go raw.

There was an article somewhere that I can't find right now, which stated that easily over half of people using Tinder have had unprotected sex with their Tinder dates. Mine and other people's observations are completely in line with that finding, despite everyone on internet forums loudly proclaiming that they always use protection. Reality of what happens in the heat of the moment, under circumstances like you described, is often a different story however.

A girl insisting on a condom on the first date, but subsequently telling me that I can go raw on the second date (or even during the second round in the same night or next morning) is also a phenomenon that I've encountered a few times. I guess that they want to come across as a good girl at first and avoid giving an overly "slutty" impression, knowing that some guys are quick to judge? But it does feel better, hotter and more spontaneous without a condom, for men and women alike.

Before anyone starts attacking me for this, of course some women stay true to their promises to always use protection, but it doesn't change the fact that many others don't (PS. I'm not judging them for it, we all have our needs).


PS. I have also made a small experiment with this on another internet forum, where an usual "Would you have unprotected sex with a stranger?" poll predictably yields a small minority of "Yes" votes.

Instead, I created a poll called "Have you EVER had unprotected sex with a stranger or one night stand?", with the following options:
"Yes"
"It has happened once or twice, but I don't normally do that"
"No, never"
"I have never had no strings attached sex"

Result? The two first options, so indeed all the people who HAVE had unprotected sex with a stranger, accounted for 75% of total voters (for both men and women).

Contrary to the first poll example, this result also includes everyone who has done it, but doesn't want to admit it to everyone in broad daylight, and are probably telling their friends that they always use protection (I have often heard the argument from women on the internet "I don't know what kind of women you go after, but all of my friends always use protection", which I feel is impossible both statistically and based on empirical evidence).
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Usually they are good, even unexpectedly good due to the raw passion and excitement of being with a new person, but that generally leads to it not being the last time you’ll have sex with that person (unless other external circumstances prevent you from meeting again), and thus not really being classifiable as a one-night stand anymore.. in my opinion.

I favour meeting again the girls that I had great sex with, and the high percentage of them agreeing to meet again for another booty call would indicate that they were pleased with the sex too. A small minority of my sexual partners have been just one-time romps in the end.
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Panties that she has just taken off for me, sure. It can be sexy to sniff them quickly. It’s a primal desire.
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On!

I also love it when she is still wearing her thong during sex, especially in doggystyle. It’s really sexy to just pull it to the side and enter her from behind - sort of gives the vibe that she was too eager to get a dick inside her and didn’t have time to take off her underwear ;)

On occasions I have asked a girl to put her thong back on while I’m taking her from behind. Generally they thought it was a funny idea but were happy to oblige smile
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I have. On a business trip, at the hotel by myself, watching porn and feeling like fucking a girl properly in the ass for a little change, something that I hadn’t gotten the chance to do in a while.

I contacted a girl from a local independent escorts website, told her specifically what I was after and warned her that my dick was quite big, so if that poses a problem then she can back out now, as I do want her to be able to take it in the ass properly if we meet. Even if the girls may have done it a few times, it’s not a given - it was actually not that easy to source a girl to my liking who would have no reservations about anal.
She assured me that it wasn’t an issue, and told me that she would just hop in the cab and be at my hotel in 30 mins. smile

I got lucky, she was friendly, beautiful, had a nice ass and clearly liked to please. I booked an hour with her. She suggested 69 at first, climbed on me and sucked my dick while I had her pretty shaved pussy and asshole right in front of me to play with.
She then put on the condom on me and went on all fours. I entered her pussy to begin with, to enjoy the view on her beautiful ass in doggystyle, and to play with her butthole that I was about to plunge in.
For the remaining time, around half an hour, I spent fucking her in the ass in several positions. It was some of the best anal sex I have ever had, I really enjoyed it and she seemed to as well; she didn’t get worn out and didn’t rush me to cum. I held it back on purpose to enjoy the situation for as long as possible, and finally cumming with her tight ass wrapped around my cock felt incredible.
Great experience and a lovely distraction, definitely putting me in a good mood for the next days business meeting.

A lot of people probably like to make different generalisations about escorts as well as their clientele, so I wanted to share this. Many of the girls are just ordinary young women looking to fund their studies and other living costs by doing something that they enjoy, completely out of free will. What could possibly be wrong with that?

Guys visiting such escorts to get something that they don’t normally get, or to explore a particular fetish is WAY more common than some women seem to think (”that’s disgusting, my boyfriend would never do that”).
She walked out with €220 in her pocket (this happened in Czech Republic, a country with legal prostitution and moderate prices), which I would happily pay again for an experience like this. If I ever visit the city again I’ll be sure to try to contact her and see if she is available for a repeat!
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I’ve never received a blowjob while wearing a condom. Even those girls who asked me to wear a condom for intercourse happily sucked my dick without. Seems like it’s the norm - who would want to suck rubber?

One of these girls who made me wear a condom for vaginal sex hopped off my dick while she was on top, took off the condom and proceeded to suck me off until I came in her mouth. That was sexy as hell.
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I would pick the girl who can suck mean dick, as oral is a more integral part of sex that should actually happen majority of the time you are having sex, unlike anal. In my opinion it’s a bit unexpected in this day and age for a girl to not like giving blowjobs.

I’ve known one such case who would actually take it up her ass any time but was really lousy at sucking dick, and her trying to do it all the time just killed the mood for me, because she really didn’t know what to do and seemed like she was unwilling/unable to develop her technique no matter what kind of subtle hints I gave.

Getting no anal in the long term is also frustrating though, and girls who enjoy anal are instantly more attractive in my mind for how ”dirty” they are, so I’ll have a ”three-hole girl”, please! ;)
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In her pussy, mouth or ass depending on which hole I’m in, or if cumming inside her is not an option or I’m just in such a mood, it’s sexy to pull out and cum all over her booty in doggystyle.

The sexiest thing though is when she makes her preference known. With most girls it’s either ”cum inside me”, or ”anywhere you want to”. To be honest, if I’m with a new girl whose preferences I don’t know yet, I don’t really like hearing the latter because it gives absolutely no indication about what she likes or dislikes, for all I know she may just be putting up with it if I decide to cum in a specific place in or on her.

Maybe I’m overthinking it, but you know, I like my sex partner to be excited about making me cum somewhere.
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In the long term, it would be very disappointing.
Particularly because anal sex really isn’t that important to end a relationship for if all other things check out, but total refusal to do it would still mean that I’m deprived of something that I enjoy. I would have to consider finding it somewhere else in that case.

There also seems to be a correlation between less open attitudes towards anal sex and general closed-mindedness in bed. I have not known anyone who would make an exception to this rule. Women who have no desire to be experimental in bed are not really what I am looking for.
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As my girlfriend and I are in an open relationship, I have fucked her pussy that was full of another guy's cum a few times. I have also been the first guy to cum inside a girl to let her boyfriend/husband have sloppy seconds.
Both ways are incredibly hot. Gotta love a sexy adventurous girl who loves multiple guys cumming inside her.
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I don't think I've ever pulled out of any girl's ass (since other holes are a no-go at that point and it feels good to cum inside, better yet with no pregnancy worries) and never used a condom for anal either, since anal sex is most likely going to happen with a girl I know well enough to fuck her without a condom. So she will 100% end up with a load in her booty if she signs up for anal. smile

Haven't had anyone objecting to it either, one girl said that it feels good because she can feel the cum shooting in her ass much more clearly than in her pussy.
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As the first thing I always try to figure out what kind of panties (if any) a girl is wearing by trying to spot the panty lines while she walks around. Then I find myself assessing her general style and based on that contemplating things like whether she would be shaved down there or not, what kind of things she is into etc. So yes, I'm quite bad in this regard.
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I love doggystyle/reverse cowgirl with her thong pulled to the side, it's sort of a fetish of mine. Looks so hot. If you like wearing thongs or strings, please don't take them off for sex.
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Guys are visually oriented and it's hot to see a big load you've just shot on a girl. In most cases I prefer to cum inside her or in her mouth, but I do have a weakness for cumming all over a nice ass.
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I flirt with the girls that I know well enough to know that it will be received positively, just like always before. I naturally speak more to women than men anyway, I actually have more challenges communicating with men because with some of them the topics of conversation are somewhat limited and not as interesting to me.
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I've been watched by at least three people while fucking a girl, both by the guy who was with us, and two random girls at the windows of the house directly across the street. Perhaps more since the curtains were wide open..
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Admittedly not the safest or smartest thing to do, but I've had a girl suck my dick while driving a few times. To my defence, we waited until a zone with lower speed limit and a long stretch of practically straight road with nothing much to concentrate on.
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It's hot to have her ass practically in my face and all that, but generally it's too distracting to properly be able to enjoy and focus on pleasing your partner at the same time.
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There's no denying it, approaching from a distance it's always going to be her ass, or the hips area if she is facing me (which will give you a pretty good idea of the shape of her ass anyway). Up close, eyes and smile can be captivating.
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A thong, most definitely! If you're a girl who likes wearing them, I insist you don't take them off for sex. I love to fuck with her thong pulled to the side, looks so sexy from behind. ;)
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Many men have been trapped by women who have lied about taking their birth control, and it's really not something you want happening to you.

Generally you will be able to trust a normal girl who tells you that it's okay to cum inside, as long as you know her enough to be able to judge from her character that she actually has something going for her in life (a career, meaningful relationships, future plans, etc), and thus wouldn't want to ruin it all by purposely trying to become a single mother. Anyone could be lying to your face and you wouldn't know, but it's obviously the ones without a clear direction in life that belong to the risk group who will most likely attempt to deceive you and get pregnant.

Personally, I don't pull out most of the time if I don't have to. I love cumming inside a girl more than anything, it's very hard for a horny guy to refuse. But don't do that to a crazy girl unless you want to ruin your life.
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I have to admit that smoking makes a girl more attractive for me, even though I don't smoke myself and have never done so.

Seeing a hot girl taking a drag on a cigarette is just very sensual, no doubt relating to the visual of seeing her planting her lips on something and enjoying it, but also the simple fact that it adds to the "bad girl" image. I feel that some people should just relax a bit, give it a chance and realise that kissing a girl who smokes is not all that bad. Of course I actually enjoy tasting it in a girl's mouth (because again, it reminds me of the "bad girl"), but maybe others would too if they didn't have such a negative and condescending attitude towards her smoking to begin with.

I've been with smokers, non-smokers, social smokers, and non-smokers who will light up before/during sex to entertain my fetish. The ideal girl for me would be one who only smokes socially and/or as a fetish thing with me, so that it wouldn't become a regular thing and damage her health that much. That way it also stays more of a special occasion when she's not smoking all day everyday.