Guys,
Is a girl refusing to have anal sex a deal breaker in a relationship with you? Just curious.
Meagan ("Meg"")
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Is anal sex a deal breaker?
No, because it's not a priority with me or a big desire of mine (at least with women). In fact, it would probably only happen in a relationship of mine if the woman offered/asked. I'm not likely to ask for it myself. I think you saw that in action in my story "Christmas in April" which you recently commented on.SCIppNMo7AQ1kBJZ
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Not a "Deal Breaker" but a disappointment.
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Anal is fantastic. I can still have sex if he doesn't like your pussy at that time of the month. He gets his rocks off I get an orgasm
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Certainly not for me.
Advanced Wordsmith
Nope, not a deal breaker.
If it's something both partners want to share, great.
If it's something that is more important to one than the relationship itself, it ain't much of a relationship.
If it's something both partners want to share, great.
If it's something that is more important to one than the relationship itself, it ain't much of a relationship.
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Nope not at all. I've never met a woman that likes it
Marx Sister
So, I like anal, but if a guy told me my having anal sex wit him was a dealbreaker, that in itself would be a dealbreaker for me.
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Hell, no - that would be selfish and disrespectful of her body and what she likes. If it's not voluntary, it's just .
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Guys,
Is a girl refusing to have anal sex a deal breaker in a relationship with you? Just curious.
Meagan ("Meg"")
Nope as I'd respect her wishes. I've actually had this with a few girls though who have refused the very though of anal sex early on in a relationship and then chaged their minds (for whetever reason) later on. My experience with those girls too was that once they tried it, they really loved it (their words not mine) and wanted it more and more as part of our healthy sex lives. As they say, I guess you should never say never and "don't knock it until you've tried it?"
Not at all.
Although, I have found that girls that are not willing to try it at all are usually not very good in bed anyways. It's more of a correlation thing. The degree to which the ass is involved varies, but I have found that the more open the girl is to anal play, the more adventurous she is not only in sex but in life in general.
Although, I have found that girls that are not willing to try it at all are usually not very good in bed anyways. It's more of a correlation thing. The degree to which the ass is involved varies, but I have found that the more open the girl is to anal play, the more adventurous she is not only in sex but in life in general.
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not at all. but its a pity...
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In the long term, it would be very disappointing.
Particularly because anal sex really isn’t that important to end a relationship for if all other things check out, but total refusal to do it would still mean that I’m deprived of something that I enjoy. I would have to consider finding it somewhere else in that case.
There also seems to be a correlation between less open attitudes towards anal sex and general closed-mindedness in bed. I have not known anyone who would make an exception to this rule. Women who have no desire to be experimental in bed are not really what I am looking for.
Particularly because anal sex really isn’t that important to end a relationship for if all other things check out, but total refusal to do it would still mean that I’m deprived of something that I enjoy. I would have to consider finding it somewhere else in that case.
There also seems to be a correlation between less open attitudes towards anal sex and general closed-mindedness in bed. I have not known anyone who would make an exception to this rule. Women who have no desire to be experimental in bed are not really what I am looking for.
Gravelly-Voiced Fucker
Not a deal breaker AT ALL, one of the great turn-ons from it (for me) is that the woman is into it. Her having the desire to is very hot.
No ass play of any kind would not be a deal breaker, but it might get a little boring. I like to play.
No ass play of any kind would not be a deal breaker, but it might get a little boring. I like to play.
Primus Omnium
No, it's not a deal breaker in any way. As a matter of fact, I don't make deals in a sexual situation. As partners we both allow and ask for what we each want. But making love is not a business activity.
I've tried anal with one partner and it was nothing wonderful. Neither of us cared for it particularly. Certainly not enough to make it part of the fun again.
I've tried anal with one partner and it was nothing wonderful. Neither of us cared for it particularly. Certainly not enough to make it part of the fun again.
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I enjoyed anal a couple of times. Frankly, anal feels nice, but is no substitute for the magic pussy.Pussy is sweet because it is designed to be fucked. Pussy is beautiful.
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The Linebacker
Women love anal sex. I've found that women are the ones asking for anal sex. If asked I give it. But generally, I find it almost too tight. Not my first choice, but if she asks...
Also, anal play when very clean is fun.
Women with too many limits are off limits in my opinion.
Also, anal play when very clean is fun.
Women with too many limits are off limits in my opinion.
Not a deal breaker if all the other sex was hot.
I have had anal with more than one woman and it was usually fine unless she was turned off by it.
What is really hot is when they ask for it or the best is when you are fucking and you slip out and she rocks her hips and guides your cock into her ass. Now that is hot.
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I have had anal with more than one woman and it was usually fine unless she was turned off by it.
What is really hot is when they ask for it or the best is when you are fucking and you slip out and she rocks her hips and guides your cock into her ass. Now that is hot.
Linda dear, where are you?
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Guys,
Is a girl refusing to have anal sex a deal breaker in a relationship with you? Just curious.
Meagan ("Meg"")
Not really. I wouldn’t be to bothered if she didnt like anal sex.
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Nope, it's not what I go for.
But if she wants it, I am happy to do it.
But if she wants it, I am happy to do it.
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not for me. i love it but if the woman doesn't, it's a right of hers and there are several other ways to have fun.