Being spanked turns me on, especially when a dominant man spanks me. So, where did this come from? I have been asked many times. It didn’t come from my parents because they didn’t spank me. It started when I was in fourth grade and saw my best friend Larry, a year older, get his bare bottom spanked. I kept asking Larry what it was like. Finally, he showed me. I didn’t realize it at the time, but from that moment on, I was probably hooked. Of course, as a young boy, one does not go around asking to be spanked, so I resorted to self-spanking.
The stories I have posted and will post are my attempt to chronicle the experiences that had a profound impact on my sexuality.
The seminal event occurred when I was eighteen. I decided going around the neighborhood at night with no pants on would be fun. I did this often, and one night I got caught by Mr. Harris. I didn’t realize it, but Mr. Harris recognized an excellent opportunity. I accepted corporal punishment in exchange for not being turned over to the police. I learned that spanking and sexual submission are extremely erotic when combined.
I met Jerome, a black man who introduced me to BDSM play a year later. Two years later, after inadvertently learning about my spanking fetish, my neighbor Kenny convinced me to be a boy Toy for his motorcycle club, which I thoroughly enjoyed. When I was twenty-five, I worked with Reverend John, who enjoyed spanking and using me sexually.
Eventually, I got married. I shared my past experiences with her, and much to my amazement and delight, Barbara was turned on by my bisexual spanking fetish. She became an active participant.
I am not inherently submissive, and in fact, professionally and in all other areas of my life, I’m a very assertive and dominant individual. However, I decided if I were going to submit and allow a man to spank me if he chose to do more, I would comply with his wishes. I have been spanked by quite a few women and found it erotic and enjoyable living spanked by a dominant male is my first choice.
I’m not into categorizations. I guess by definition I’m bisexual or heteroflexible but I don’t seek out sexual activity with men. I seek out spanking and if the sexual activity becomes part of it so much the better. I found it to be a major turn-on that my wife enjoyed watching and participating. She passed away and her loss and my age brought an end to my active play. But my fascination remains as strong as ever.
Now about my nonsexual side. I’m a doctoral-level forensic and healthcare provider. That’s all say about that. My hobbies are shooting and astronomy. I enjoy cooking and am quite good at it. I love good red wine and good bourbon. Politically I am an independent with conservative-leaning. People find me easy to get along with and I like most everyone except arrogant assholes. I have zero tolerance for people who believe they have all the answers.
