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When we do anything its hot and rather kinky (suiting both of our desires) but then its back to a minimum of a month or the right hand
Try going back to basics, without the kinky. If she likes it enough to have sex more frequently then you've found your problem and you can do kink once in a while and have regular sex when you want.
Also, when we get to the point in a relationship where kinky is okay, us guys have a tendency to forget anything resembling romance and foreplay.
Suggestions:
Foot rubs
Make-out sessions
Compliments
These things have a tendency to boost a woman's self-confidence, make her feel wanted and can get her in the mood.
Whatever you do, begin a pattern of touching her physically whenever you are in the same room together whether it be hugging, or rubbing an arm or fingering her to get her off or going down on her or rubbing her breasts or just rubbing her legs while sitting watching television or running your fingers through her hair. Touch, Touch, Touch.
The things listed above should be done with no expectation of sex. The sex will come just give it a little time, and if the sex comes right away, even better.
Check back and let us know how it goes.