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If I see you in a Florida grocery, you can be certain I'll flirt with you! The Chefs hat and red tresses shouldn't be hard to miss.
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Shibui
Over 90 days ago
Male, 71
United States
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I have no short term solutions for you, however, I suggest you look in "estrogen rich" territory to locate a playmate.
Several suggestions are:
Dog shows, lots of travel involved and that estrogen rich atmosphere I've mentioned
Ceramics class, no real man would be caught there, guess what, lots of women with available time.
Equestrian events
Again, these aren't sure fire or short term, but I have witnessed the success of others in these locations.
Several suggestions are:
Dog shows, lots of travel involved and that estrogen rich atmosphere I've mentioned
Ceramics class, no real man would be caught there, guess what, lots of women with available time.
Equestrian events
Again, these aren't sure fire or short term, but I have witnessed the success of others in these locations.
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Do what makes you smile. It would seem to me that this group affair would be safer than some of your other escapades. 10 in a Limo? The limos I've been in had room for 10 sitting. I have a hard time imagining 5 couples getting wild in there. It will certainly be intimate fun! We will be looking for the story afterwords.
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Beautiful women are beautiful women. I might not even know your persuasion. Flirting is a fishing expedition. If we didn't flirt, we wouldn't know if you were interested. I have known few women that I knew for certain were Lesbians. They were intelligent, interesting and attractive in my eye. My chemistry said "go for it" even if their chemistry said no. Which chemistry do you think I hear? Intellectually, I know these women are off limits. Primordially, Lesbian women are the same as Heterosexual women. As in any endeavor, one balances instinct and intellect. I try to respect their preferences, while my body is screaming "Hot Chick" from the lower recesses of my mind. My point is; as men, we are, generally, compelled to put it out there. I would hope you would feel complemented, not insulted that we are interested in you, forgive us our sin of not accepting your chemistry*without being told.
As an alternative though, perhaps, they feel like Lesbians are a safe place to practice, because they know the end result?
*I am NOT condoning the over aggressive individual that cannot accept the word no.
As an alternative though, perhaps, they feel like Lesbians are a safe place to practice, because they know the end result?
*I am NOT condoning the over aggressive individual that cannot accept the word no.
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OK, I'll take his side, slightly:
Imagine, first date, I hardly know you and it comes up in conversation that you are wearing something from an ex. I might get the idea you're not over that relationship. Do I want to deal with that baggage? Hmmm, this odd situation makes me think twice about asking you out again. Now after having these thoughts, I am bold enough to directly ask the meaning of said item. You flatly deny that there is any sentimental connection. Do you expect me to truly believe you based upon one date?
However, this guy was your current guy and it bothered him? He should have known where the two of you stood in the relationship. Did you tell him? (and he tell you?). Perhaps, he was seeking an excuse to get out? Or, he wanted control and you weren't going down that path? If it was the control thing, you are both better off going different ways. He'll find someone to control and you'll find someone that can tell the difference between jewelry and jealousy.
If I was in a solid relationship, the jewelry thing would not bother me. I personally have mementos from past loves. For me, a male, you might say they are notches in the bed post. I would have to agree you are partially correct in that they remind me of the path I've traveled to get where I am. Either way, if they bother you, It won't be long before other things about me will bother you, so we may as well part as "friends" here.
Please, enjoy your ensemble. There is no reason to hide it in the closet after you gotten over the initial how do you dos.
Imagine, first date, I hardly know you and it comes up in conversation that you are wearing something from an ex. I might get the idea you're not over that relationship. Do I want to deal with that baggage? Hmmm, this odd situation makes me think twice about asking you out again. Now after having these thoughts, I am bold enough to directly ask the meaning of said item. You flatly deny that there is any sentimental connection. Do you expect me to truly believe you based upon one date?
However, this guy was your current guy and it bothered him? He should have known where the two of you stood in the relationship. Did you tell him? (and he tell you?). Perhaps, he was seeking an excuse to get out? Or, he wanted control and you weren't going down that path? If it was the control thing, you are both better off going different ways. He'll find someone to control and you'll find someone that can tell the difference between jewelry and jealousy.
If I was in a solid relationship, the jewelry thing would not bother me. I personally have mementos from past loves. For me, a male, you might say they are notches in the bed post. I would have to agree you are partially correct in that they remind me of the path I've traveled to get where I am. Either way, if they bother you, It won't be long before other things about me will bother you, so we may as well part as "friends" here.
Please, enjoy your ensemble. There is no reason to hide it in the closet after you gotten over the initial how do you dos.
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