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SamHarper
2 months ago
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I like the fact that you can now ignore certain story categories, if they're not what you're into, but what about adding the ability to ignore specific story tags? I, for example, don't like anal so would like to be able to hide those stories that are tagged 'anal' or 'anal sex' from appearing.
Alternatively, what about adding the ability to filter certain tags from searches? You could have a box on the 'advanced search' page that lets you type in a list of comma separated tags that you want to be ignored in the search results.
I don't know which way would be easier, or how hard either method is to implement, but I think I would find it to be a helpful additional feature for the site. I know it wouldn't be a perfect system, as people don't always tag their stories correctly, but it might make it easier for people to find stories that they really enjoy. You could even allow the community to add additional tags to a story to aid the filtering process, maybe?
Alternatively, what about adding the ability to filter certain tags from searches? You could have a box on the 'advanced search' page that lets you type in a list of comma separated tags that you want to be ignored in the search results.
I don't know which way would be easier, or how hard either method is to implement, but I think I would find it to be a helpful additional feature for the site. I know it wouldn't be a perfect system, as people don't always tag their stories correctly, but it might make it easier for people to find stories that they really enjoy. You could even allow the community to add additional tags to a story to aid the filtering process, maybe?
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I see. Some interesting replies, thanks ladies! 
I did wonder if it was guys' behaviour rather than the actual pictures that bothered you!
I've been experimenting on myself, taking 'suggestive' clothed pics (see my profile) plus some semi-nude and carefully-angled nude shots, before doing any work with other models. But I'm just an average-looking bloke, uncut and lacking in rock-hard abs and am therefore slightly uncomfortable showing off my body...
But I do want to be able to take tasteful 'girl-friendly' images of guys and you've given me some inspiration and things to think about.
Keep 'em coming!
I did wonder if it was guys' behaviour rather than the actual pictures that bothered you!I've been experimenting on myself, taking 'suggestive' clothed pics (see my profile) plus some semi-nude and carefully-angled nude shots, before doing any work with other models. But I'm just an average-looking bloke, uncut and lacking in rock-hard abs and am therefore slightly uncomfortable showing off my body...
But I do want to be able to take tasteful 'girl-friendly' images of guys and you've given me some inspiration and things to think about.
Keep 'em coming!
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I get the impression (from this site and others like OKCupid and PlentyOfFish) that women, in general, don't like all the cock-shots and topless-abs-selfies that men usually post. Is this true?
I'm also a photographer, trying to practice by taking self-portraits and hoping to work with male models, so I'd love to know what sort of photos you ladies DO like to see of men on here? Any particular outfits or poses? Maybe you could share examples of some of your favourites?
I'm also a photographer, trying to practice by taking self-portraits and hoping to work with male models, so I'd love to know what sort of photos you ladies DO like to see of men on here? Any particular outfits or poses? Maybe you could share examples of some of your favourites?
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Adjustable is good; I had a set, but one one was too tight and snapped! But get the right size and they'll make you bigger, harder and girthier!
The vibrating ones don't do a lot for me, but when I get it to vibrate against her clit it drives her wild! We only use them occasionally though...
The vibrating ones don't do a lot for me, but when I get it to vibrate against her clit it drives her wild! We only use them occasionally though...
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In another thread, a few guys were saying things along the lines of 'I jerk off every day, but only cum 2 or 3 times a week'.
I always cum when I play with myself, unless I'm interrupted, so I'm curious: why jerk off if you're not going to cum? Is it a conscious choice/is there a particular reason?
I always cum when I play with myself, unless I'm interrupted, so I'm curious: why jerk off if you're not going to cum? Is it a conscious choice/is there a particular reason?
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Roughly once a day for me. Sometimes multiple times if I'm horny when the house is empty and I can take the time to enjoy myself/watch porn with the sound on/be as loud as I want!
Except in the last 24 hours or so before a date, as I find I enjoy sex more if I resist the temptation...
Except in the last 24 hours or so before a date, as I find I enjoy sex more if I resist the temptation...
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Quote by ilikecock
Just wondered if any of you boys enjoyed having their feet licked and toes sucked? Not many men do, or rather they don't like to admit to it.
I've never had it done to me, but I don't think I'd like it. I quite like having my feet rubbed or stroked and I like playing with girls' feet and kissing their toes etc. (and it they usually seem to enjoy it), but I think I would feel weird if they did it to me. Plus, I didn't think there were many girls who were into that sort of thing....?
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I had insomnia for a while and found it was the only reliable solution, so did it nearly every night. But when I started dating again, I thought it was affecting my performance, so I cut down, which wasn't easy. I still do sometimes, but only if I can't get to sleep for ages or get naturally horny.
EDIT: oops, sorry, I didn't realise this was 'ask the girls'... ignore me!
EDIT: oops, sorry, I didn't realise this was 'ask the girls'... ignore me!
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Coming up with ideas and STARTING to write stories is quite easy for me, but then begins the process of editing, proofreading and finalising them. My problem is that I every time I update a story, I think "I'll go away and give it one last read-through later before I post it", but then I come back some time later and always seem to find more things to tweak, add or change... I always feel like I can make it better.
So, fellow writers, my question is this: when do you finally stop fiddling with a story and how do you decide that it is finished and ready to share?
So, fellow writers, my question is this: when do you finally stop fiddling with a story and how do you decide that it is finished and ready to share?
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Quote by ColletteXx
Natural is better, but if it makes the woman feel better about herself, then what's the problem??
Again, not a problem, just curious about whether people find the 'over-inflated' look attractive. Also, again, this may be hard to believe, but it's not all just about the boobs! :P
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Quote by BethanyFrasier
Its whatever a woman wants to feel good about her looks...
Oh, I appreciate that and I understand that some people want to change things for various reasons, which is, of course, OK. But I would assume that, if you were having your hair dyed or your boobs done or whatever, that you would want the end result to LOOK natural. The girls in these pics looked very obviously fake...
The psychology of why they do it is going a bit off topic, I was just curious if anyone found it more attractive and could explain why...
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This is a popular 'Ask the Guys' question, but I thought I'd ask the ladies... What style of hair do you like your boyfriend to have 'down there'?
I like it when girls trim their hair, as it makes going down on them more pleasant, and so I keep myself trimmed too, but is the same true for you girls? Just curious...
I like it when girls trim their hair, as it makes going down on them more pleasant, and so I keep myself trimmed too, but is the same true for you girls? Just curious...
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I like to use lube as a treat, usually when I know I can take a shower to clean up the mess afterwards (I do like to get messy sometimes!). If it's just before bed (which is usually is) I just go dry. Same goes for when I'm in the chat rooms, I don't want to end up with sticky keys after all! :P
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Yeah, I do. I use my own fantasies and I'm picturing them as I write so It's hard not to get turned on, which can be very distracting! I often stop writing, play with myself for a bit and picture what might happen next, then write it down when I've 'calmed down'. I try to proof read with a clear head, but, as others have said, if your fantasy/story and doesn't turn you on, how can you expect it to turn others on? For that matter, why would you write an erotic story that doesn't turn you on?
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