Quote by Pixie
Why is it when a girl cries, you men have no friggin idea what to do?? Obviously we are crying for some reason, weather it be we are angry, sad or you have done something to hurt us. I want to know why you cant seem to figure out how to handle us in this situation. And if you can handle it, how do you do so?
I get the feeling that knowing "what to do" actually just means doing what you want us to do.
If my girl is crying about something that has nothing to do with me, then it is easy to know what to do; I comfort her. But if her tears are a result of a conflict between us, then I might not respond the way she hopes. Sometimes women use tears as a weapon. For example, say a couple are in a fight and she says something mean to him, and then he says something equally mean to her, and then she starts crying. Is he supposed to stop being angry at her and comfort her? What if she's the one in the wrong? That seems to be when women cry the most.