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Phaypi
Over 90 days ago
Bi-curious Female
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I think most of my friends are willing to have sex daily, but if up to them would be more like a couple times a week, in a steady relationship. My personal sex drive seems completely dependent on being with a guy, when I'm single I feel almost no need at all, like I'll masturbate once a month, when I have a guy I want it everyday or more.
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One opinion is that if a girl gets into many serious committed relationships, that end badly, then her later marriage may not go as well, because that kind of experience won't encourage commitment or trust. However I would agree with what a lot of others have said - it's good to date different kinds of people and get to know what people are like and what kind of person is right for you.
Also because the media/society talks about love as if it has one form. It doesn't! The kind of attraction and relationship you have with someone can affect your happiness so you need to find the right kind.
Also because the media/society talks about love as if it has one form. It doesn't! The kind of attraction and relationship you have with someone can affect your happiness so you need to find the right kind.
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I would agree with above posts. Sometimes I'm not in the mood to chat and sometimes I don't have time - I'm just popping on to read my mails, etc. I know personally I'm incapable of holding more than one conversation at once, so it seems more rude if I am talking to one person if I ignore anyone else who messages me simply because I am caught up in the conversation. I'd rather go offline so I can focus on chatting to one friend, or reading a story.
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I joined this site because I fell in love with the work of a specific author. Now, I am still here because I get to talk to that author, and read his newer pieces. I also made a few other good friends who I wish I could chat with more. And I discovered that I want to write my own pieces too.
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Hmm I have never had a man ever say that to me - usually it's been the opposite. For me, however, I have been known on a few occasions to fall for a guy that might not have otherwise been my "type" but then again, I'm not with any of them right now so obviously the mis-match was a miss indeed :P
Thanks for being the only girl that responded :P
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My boyfriend does not say he does not find ME attractive, he merely says he normally does not find many asian women attractive. My ideal "type" is a quiet intelligent blond guy with glasses, whereas my boyfriend is dark haired dark eyed, loud, jokes a lot, and I hate when he wears glasses. I was just wondering if this kind of contrast is something that happens quite often, or perhaps since I put together my ideal image of a guy when I was younger, my tastes have changed without quite consciously realizing it?
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I'm asian, and I know my boyfriend has said, "i don't normally like asian girls, theyre not my type." Do you get that kind of thing, or do you normally match what your lover tends to go for looks-wise?
I'm just asking this with "type" meaning the ideal appearance that we look for when dating, if we include personality with that I suppose it gets a little more complicated.
I'm just asking this with "type" meaning the ideal appearance that we look for when dating, if we include personality with that I suppose it gets a little more complicated.
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The reason why I personally refuse to people I meet on lush is for multiple reasons which some others may share:
1. skyping can add an awkwardness that does not occur in real life, making it hard to create conversation if you're shy like me.
2. when you you not only show your face, but also your surroundings, your mannerisms, etc, which I think can add to the privacy issue.
3. if you're not good enough friends, you may not really want to see the friend's face on cam.
4. personally lush is my little private secret, which does not interfere with my normal innocent life, so skyping someone from lush can be bringing those two things a bit too close for comfort.
1. skyping can add an awkwardness that does not occur in real life, making it hard to create conversation if you're shy like me.
2. when you you not only show your face, but also your surroundings, your mannerisms, etc, which I think can add to the privacy issue.
3. if you're not good enough friends, you may not really want to see the friend's face on cam.
4. personally lush is my little private secret, which does not interfere with my normal innocent life, so skyping someone from lush can be bringing those two things a bit too close for comfort.
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When I get jealous I send the guy 500 mails saying "NOOOOO M3 THOT UZ LOVED M3!!! </3"
Or something along those lines. JK
Lol I think it's my nature make sorta one-on-one friendships and I feel a pang of jealousy quite easily when they get a lover or a crush or a new best friend because I want to be somewhat special in each of my friends' eyes, but if I let such petty jealousy affect me it would be completely unfair to my friends
Can't say I really see anyone on lush as "more than a friend," though I have become very fond of some
Or something along those lines. JK
Lol I think it's my nature make sorta one-on-one friendships and I feel a pang of jealousy quite easily when they get a lover or a crush or a new best friend because I want to be somewhat special in each of my friends' eyes, but if I let such petty jealousy affect me it would be completely unfair to my friends
Can't say I really see anyone on lush as "more than a friend," though I have become very fond of some
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i look for a girl that is thin or slim, smaller breasted, with strong independent outer personas. Particularly tend to like girls with long beautiful hair but hey all women are beautiful.
im straight btw, i dont lust after these girls, i just become close supportive friends :P
im straight btw, i dont lust after these girls, i just become close supportive friends :P