If writing a short story then you have to go to the action almost straight away. However, if writing over 2,000 words then the build up is important to get the reader aroused.
One of the joys of writing is to get aroused - hopefully if I am aroused then the readers will get aroused as well.
I can even get a full hard-on when I am thinking about the next paragraph or section
My preference on the lady I am with is a Brazilian.
At my desk in an open plan office
I know the lady who disciplines me hates me making faces and laughing at the pain. So I do, and it feels even better when she is annoyed.
I'm a dedicated bottom, much preferring to be disciplined by a dominant lady. However just recently there has been one lady, a switch, who let me spank her and it was so sexy. I've spanked other women, I suppose half heartedly, but this lady can take a really hard spanking and I know enjoys it.
I expect to stay a sub myself as I still enjoy the stinging feeling afterwards.
I love to be across a dominant woman's bare lap to be spanked and paddled with me naked is a submissive style. I know I have been spanked properly when I squirm around on her lap and grunt. It's then up to the dom to decide how hard she makes it for me.
OTK is best - I like the feeling of submission, humiliation. That works for a hand spanking and short paddles.
For floggers and canes then the horse is great, so again bent over with an unprotected bare bottom
"Be careful what you wish for"
Don't ask your partner to act out your fantasy unless you are sure they will enjoy it, and they won't tell their friends what you like.
Ask him to spank you and hand him a hairbrush. If he refuses then suggest you spank him. I bet he spanks you staright after that.
I am a male sub in to being spanked by a dominant female. Do women enjoy dominating men or do they prefer to be submissive?
I would let a strict woman spank me, well any woman actually, oh and I would forgo the $5
Across a womans lap with a bare bottom looking at the carpet knowing what comes next is going to be vary painful, and oh so erotic
How popular is spanking as a sexual art?
I am a male sub particularly in to being spanked by dominant women. BDSM is certainly interesting. Being dominated by a strict woman is incrediibly erotic.
I met a lovely young lady and we enjoyed many conversations, mainly on instant messaging, acting out spanking scenes. We never met or needed to. The exchange was wonderful for as long as it lasted which was a very long time. We "met" twice a week and loved it.
I just did and see my stories have made it on to other story sites - so much for the copyright rules
It is very brave to write a book about your sexual desires let alone your love of being spanked. Few of us will go "public" more the shame. There have been some high profile newspaper worthy stories and maybe that will improve in the future. Hopefully
Yes of course. i love spanking and other than "The Secretary" there is little spanking on normal TV.
Kate is sexy and desirable but no one, not even a Royal, should be subjected to this intrusion. Hopefully she is strong and assured and confident enough to ignore it.
When I was younger I would often look at a woman and fantasise that she took me across her lap and spanked me. I am a male sub and see women as the dominant sex and so only fantasised about women spanking me. Of course others see men as the dominant sex. Did you fantasise in this way?
Ben,
That was me. If you go to the Google Group:
and register or log in if a member, then search the group, "Discipline of Choice" the stories come up.
Regards.
Peter
Hi,
Thanks very much for writing. I am delighted you enjoy my stories. I found Lush a while ago and it is a really successful site.
Besv regards
Peter
Hi,
I've just submitted my first story, "Mrs Howard Spanks"
I get a lot of enjoyment from writing and hope some of you enjoy my stories.
Please let me know.
Peter
