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Organplayer1
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 61
United States

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Sorry, does absolutely nothing for me. I guess that wiring was never hooked up . I just wait for her to finish...... Don't even know why their there. Lol
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The first time was back in the late 90s. Those pics were so HOT! A few years (and many pics later) the laptop crashes. Take it to be repaired. Guess what were the only files that could be saved. Yup. I was working crazy Amounts of OT so the wife had to pick up the laptop. She said the two guys (young college age) kept eyeing her over. She learned why when she got home. She was mad about it at first. But I know she got a thrill. She was quite the mild back then. We laugh about it now.
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Simple, I love that my wife likes it. When she asks for it I know she's really horny and that in turn drives me crazy.
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Not my first choice . However when I was a senior in high school my girlfriend would get super horny on her period. She would throw a towel on her bed and fuck me like an animal. She said it made her symptoms subside. The sex was so good I just tried not to think about the mess we were making.
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Yes I do. But I've never met a woman who didn't like it while it lasted. Then on to the next position.
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Unfortunately I have always ended up being the controlling one. I would for once like to be the subject of another's sexual whims or agenda. Would take some of the pressure off.
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Bare is my favorite but I do understand it can be uncomfortable for the ladies to maintain. I am very happy with a nicely trimmed partner.
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Talking dirty to me is hands down my number 1 turn on above all else. So Speech speech!
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When younger I could and would go several rounds with no issues. Then the wife and I fell into another rut (we've been married 27 years). Recently we broke that rut this way.

I cum much earlier now, before she has had enough. Then I focus on making her cum. At first my interest level is low but my determination is high. I use toys and oral and within and hour or so she has cum several times and is over sensative. Well low and behold daddies ready to go again and she loves the challenge of getting me off again.
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My wife rimmed me years ago and I thought it was so hot. I didn't experience any incredible sensations it was more the act of her wanting to do it that provided the thrill. I have never been fingerd though I would like to experience it.

I am sure my wife would rim me more and be willing to finger me (she loves anal) if I expressed interest. but my insecurities come into play here. At 52 my ass can't possibly be the inviting playground it once was. I fear I would spend more time fearing what it was like for her than just relaxing and enjoying myself.
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Really!!!! Yeah right. Show me the girl, I will get a divorce and beg her to marry me!!!!!
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I use to, then we stopped it. Simply because by the 3rd or 4th video, she would ask "have you seen this before? and when did you last watch porn?"

It became a trigger for the Porn Investigator.

So no more sharing porn. It was good while it lasted though, coz we would discuss all sorts of "would you do that" situations...


OMG they could be sisters.....Bill is that you????
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Very rarely unfortunately . My wife gets jeleous very easily and becomes concerned if I am paying to much attention to the screen. Considers my watching it alone to be tantamount to cheating. It amazing that we've made it 27 years.
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Good question and thank you for asking. I think I asked it once this week. I agree the room trolls ( I just learned a new term thanks!) have put a negative spin on this seemingly innocuous question. I am a male and as such am programmed to respond to visual sexual ques. It's been that way since we walked upright. Though originally it was physical traits that would visually attract a male (large breasts for feeding children and wide hips for childbirth). As we "evolved" cultural norms reprogrammed us to add other ques to our list of positive stimuli. Bright colors, form fitting clothes, articles that accentuate the female form. But in the end the male is still visually stimulated sexually. As long as I am not crass or disrespectful in how I ask that question I think it unfortunate that i may be view as less than sincere or shallow.

When I have asked this question of my cyber lovers it has been so that I may help create a scene that is as real to her as possible. I didn't care if she was wearing a white long sleeve T with sports socks. I can work with that. I want to be in her "here and now". And being as accurate as possible helps. If she wants to take it to the fantasy side and tell me she is in stockings and garter great as well.

I apologize for all the trolls. I get it really. But I do not apologize for just being a man and it does hurt a bit when I see this topic come up in chat rooms in a belittling way. I am always respectful and courteous as well as sensitive to the women who have blessed me with their affections. (Climbs off soap box).
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While I do tend to be able to get hard easily in the morning I do not like morning sex ( the wife however loves it) our breath smells and our hair looks like shit. Lol. Nobody wakes up like they do in Hollywood NOBODY!

With that said I listened to a story on public radio where a dr explained that testosterone builds up in our bodies while we rest. We deplete that charge throughout the day. As we age we start the day with less and less. That scientifically explains our natural predisposition to morning sex.
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I only want a woman who demonstrates a true hunger for sex. My sex to be specific. Older women tend to be more relaxed and confident in themselves and willing to "express" themselves. I've had younger women when I was younger. Been there done that. Give me a horny cougar any day
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I think that red is the only exotic color. That is to say o have no preference whatsoever on color. I like it long, straight and shiny. But red does take it up a notch and get my attention.
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I groom with an electric razor. Keeps the hair almost to the skin. Have been doing so since about 45yrs old. As you get older the hair on your body moves (down) and if you don't do something about it you will soon not be able to see the Forrest for the trees.... Sorry all you young guys this is what you have to look forward to.
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Absolutely, I spend as much time orally pleasing my lover as I can. Eventually she wants some cock and I have to come up for air. I love how a woman reacts when you've hit that spot. Doing this was the only time I was able to get a woman to talk really dirty to me. It was like she was speaking in tungs.
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OMG you mean to say some are fake??!!!! I would be shocked with anyone putting up a real pic. Save those for the friends you trust.
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Just lay back
My turn now
I'm your whore
Cum for me
Watch me cum
Watch me fuck
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I think of the 300 as more of a hypothetical and will not focus on that part of the question. I am 52 yrs old. I have heard all my life negative comments about men from women about our preoccupation with sex. I would find a women with an unusually high number to be a fascinating creature and someone who for once might view sex as I do. Sex is physical pleasure between people. Makeing love is what I do every day when I bring my pay home to support my wife, stay at her bedside and bathe her when she's in the hospital for a week. Kiss her and thank her for cooking even though I hated eating it. To me That is making love.

Having a woman that has such a level of sexual hunger is in my mind like finding a unicorn. Keep her? I wouldn't let her get away!!! I don't believe they really exist.
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Hair first. Long, straight and shines. Red heads to the front of the line. Then eyes, legs and backside, then hands and lastly the chest. But most importantly is she watching me to see if I am watching her. Her interest in me is the greatest turn on
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I have a dear friend of the opposite sex. She is young and attractive, extremely intelligent (engineer) we worked together for several years then went our separate ways for career reasons. I call her and she calls me at least every other week just to see how each other is doing. She asks me for advise romantic, professional and personal. We have had many long talks.

There is also a sexual tension between the two of us but I am married so that was a deal breaker for us both. So we stayed friends.

We also had some pretty good fights at the plant (always professional differences). To the point of cussing each other out. Quickly made up each time and went on as though nothing had happend. Why does it work for us?

We both truly care for each other and realize that a momentary loss of temper is not a reflection of either our true feelings or an indication of a breakdown of relationship. It is most often just one or the other letting off steam. A true friend will allow for that. Forgive and embrace the other for all they bring to the relationship everyday. If you are secure in your own skin you can offer that to another person regardless of their gender. I will say however it is much tougher when dealing with someone who is of the gender you happen to be attracted too.

(Stepping off the soapbox)
Good luck and I hope you find peace however it works out.
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