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MistyR83
Over 90 days ago
Bisexual Female, 44
United States
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I'd like to add after thinking on this a bit. BDSM is really a horrible label for the entirety of us who live a Dom/sub lifestyle. BDSM life is a hardcore lifestyle. realize the SM stands for sadomasochism. which involves, but not limited to Pain, humiliation, degradation, sometimes cruel and dangerous. As a dom, I am not cruel or do I wish to hurt physically or emotionally. sure play time can be a bit different than some. Dancing Doll is somewhat correct in her thoughts, I don't disagree with her, their are defined roles. But it takes many kinds of people to make up this world, some need those rules in ways those that don't cannot understand.
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Provided their is no mutual agreement between partners and If you are in committed relationship everything about you belongs to the other. Even sneaking and masturbating and watching porn if the other is un-aware is cheating, why are you excluding them? their must be a reason.
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The lifestyle is certainly not what you see in porn, NO we don't use ropes and chains every time we have sex. Like anything else it differs from one to another. In general it'snot even about sex, it's about submission, those who seek to surrender, and those who accept it. It's actually a more trusting and loyal relationship than you're "vanilla" ones