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Memsasnon1000
Over 90 days ago
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As long as age isnt an issue neither for you nor him i say go for it! If you love each other, want to be around each other and you dont have serious problems in your relationship, there is absolutely no reason for others to try and patronize you into doing something you dont want to do. Live this situation to the fullest, enjoy it. If its meant to be it will be. If not you will have the experience by your side to continue to better things. Being 24 doesnt mean youre brainless. 24 is just a number as are 19 and 49. If you manage to close that 'gap' in between and youre sure that this is the right man for you(of course he must think the same for you)age shouldnt matter.

I hope this helps smile
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Memsasnon1000
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Quote by WellMadeMale
In the meantime.... make her come to you (if she doesn't) you haven't lost a thing, Chief.


You mean something like ignore her in order to really find out whats happening or suggest to visit me here, where my uni is?

P.s. Laughed my ass off with 'start banging a local hottie'.
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Memsasnon1000
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We are together for almost 6 months. Our brothers are good friends, met in uni and still visit one another. I suppose we dont want to risk that friendship in case we break up or something. For me?i dont care..they shouldnt have a say in our relationship neither stop talking or whatever if we break up. But i cant force things as i might have the opposite result. I agreed to tell them when she is ready(god knows when). Probably thats the reason her friends dont know, they know her brother as well as mine and shes afraid they might tell them(its so sad that i realize myself how poor this excuse is).

Even though im quite sure there is no other guy in the middle, Felix's answer gave me the chills..

I told her how i feel..and the answer is always the same, she loves me, wants to be with me but she cant be that committed cause of her work..She cant give her 100% and i knew that from the beginning.
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Memsasnon1000
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I have a long distance relationship with a girl who is, at the same time, 8 years older than me(im 22 shes 30). We dont even live in the same city and i currently study abroad. Our relationship is mostly based on facebook chatting and . Last couple of months she got a job so we cant chat as much as i want anymore due to working hours. Even less when she comes home and says she is tired..we barely talk to . And when she has free time she goes out with friends and doesnt want to talk with me because and i quote 'i cant be with a cell texting all the time in front of my friends'(they dont know we are together btw).

Each time i visit she says shes tired and wants to go home early. How come she doesnt do that when shes out with friends but stays as long as they do?

Im afraid to tell her that i might visit cause of that..i cant hear the 'im tired' excuse anymore. Am i unreasonable? She told me when she got the job that things might change..she wont be able to give as much as she wants. Thing is, i dont ask for much nor something else than i did before. I want to be treated equally. I feel like she doesnt want me there when i visit or she meets me just so i wont complain. I know its not true for sure, i can see that shine in her eyes everytime she looks at me, but this is how i feel.

I still have a year studying in this country and then im thinking of getting a job in her town. I feel like distance is killing us..if i were able to see her everyday i bet i wouldnt be that pushy, she would be more comfortable with our situation and things would get the right way.

What should i do?
Thank you for reading this smile
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