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I kinda feel like this is a non issue. We're all people, human with human. Bi-racial couples can come in a lot of different pairings. I think people see color less important than chemistry. It's sad to me that we are still dividing ourselves like this.

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Um, I'm really not sure how to read this statement. I certainly don't know what kind of answer it is you're looking for, Mathew.

Multiple people, including myself, have suggested that changing sociological, demographic, and economic trends, particularly in the last twenty years, have altered the way that interracial couples are seen in society. I didn't say that I disagreed with the "main issue" of the article, I said that the interpretation of the Pew Study was flawed. I also pointed out that it was one article, from a quasi-legitimate news source, and that I could find no supporting articles.

I'm thinking that, in reference to your original post and "sexual emotions", whatever those are, you wanted some kind of treatise on how hot black men are? Or how white women just can't help but be attracted to any given black man? I don't know. I think I'm done here.

Quote by kiera


So please show us this article. This is now the third time you have been asked to do so. Thanks.

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I didn't "misinterpretate" anything. You asked a question but you also generalised and made ridiculous statements about what "most" white girls do. So don't go getting all indignant and huffy with us because we don't agree with you.

Quote by BethanyFrasier
My younger sister just married a Jamaican man, and has been dating black men almost exclusively since she was in high school. If you are looking for reasons, hers are personal preference. As to what may have promulgated that personal preference, one might speculate, but the stigmatic social barriers to interracial unions have been diminishing the past couple decades, and that's a great trend. I have had sex with several black men and several racially mixed men, and I don't make generalizations based on race. They've all been different, and stereotypes rarely hold true, even though people still seem to cling to them. Only one of my experiences was with a true African (Zimbabwe). The rest were from America. But as Dani has said before in these forums, it is a fetish for many women, and my guess is that is how it started with my sister, but she has become a strong advocate for the BLM movement, and minority rights as a whole, and I'm very proud of her for her commitment and zeal. She lives in the 'hood' in Brooklyn, the only white girl in her neighborhood, and she has stood up to the racism coming at her from both sides, and has now been accepted after three years in Crown Heights. Knowing where she started out, a wealthy enclave of white privilege, her social conscience constantly amazes me!

Quote by Becky4Texas
Its BecKy by the way and I have a tremendous opinion of the African Race.....two of my best friends are from Africa...one still lives there....my point was to stay away from generalizations. Had you read my entire post, you might have picked up on that.

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If I may throw a couple of cents into this conversation.....I too have had the opportunity to have sex with two different black men from Africa and my experience was far different than Kiera's. In both of my instances, the gentleman were, in fact, well endowed but their egos were even larger than their penises. I found both to be completely inadequate in bed and were only really interested in their own pleasure. Now my sample size is small but there is a danger in generalizing that all black men or all men with large penises are whatever label you would like to use, equates to a great experience. Both of my encounters turned out to be a situation where they somehow felt entitled to be God's gift to women because of the notion that because they were black that they were somehow better in bed than white men. I realized this part of my bucket list and found the bucket, disturbingly empty. Give me a man with a smaller penis that is interested in me as a sexual partner ever day of the week and twice on Saturday.

Just my opinion......