My Dearest X,   Perhaps I should start with the knowns: We love each other dearly. You are a dominant personality and, in terms of love and sexuality, I am submissive. We are adults, both with good professional reputations, and therefor what we share goes far beyond the phony “sir” and “master” nonsense beloved of the chat line want to be dominants. We also realise that our professional lives demand that we ignore many of...