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ManInNewHampshire
Over 90 days ago
Bisexual Male, 146
0 miles · Carlisle

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^^^^^ The two of you, I am sure, have hit the nail on the head. I totally ignored the article. I went to the responses and then the post. I started to read the "article" but sounded too stupid to read more than the first 5 or 6 lines.

My response to this post previously was aimed at the forever on going discussion about circumcised or not.
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I was not circumcised at birth. Was a little embarrassing during gym showers since I seemed to be the only one.

Had a medical issue causing several arteries to become filled with scare tissue when I was about 20. Part of the procedure was to remove the fore skin. Hurt like hell. But did not ever notice any difference in sexual pleasure. Maybe because nobody told me there should be any difference. Or maybe sex is about more than just penis head satisfaction.
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Quote by JohnC
What if your girlfriend had a great looking, hot bodied, tight pussy, friend, who is always flirting with you.... yeah, kind of sounds like a PIG doesn't it? Well so does the original question. And believe it or not, gals are attracted to more than a great body and big cock. Look around! There are plenty of physically imperfect or "ideal" people (of both sexes) having wonderful relationships and LOTS OF SEX. Sure, it is helpful to be "ideal", but we lust for and fall in love with much more than a body.

I find the question to be insulting, to both men and women. Sure, there are probably SOME people who simply would fuck anything that moves or catches their eye... but for most, there is a higher standard than that.


You always have answers that say what I try to say but you say them better.
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Right now I am driving my son's 2010 Toyota Camry and he is driving my 2002 Mercury Sable. He doesn't want certain people to see him. Crazy games kids think they are playing.
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It is good to see the women so far value honesty. I expected they would. I can only hope men feel the same. I know I do.
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I think when I was 17 or 18 it might have made a difference. My biggest concern is ahd has been for a long time is trust and honesty. I want a woman I can unconditionally love and who will unconditionally love me. That can only happen with trust and honesty.

Honesty means with me and in the future. Honesty does not mean we have to list all other lovers, sexual situations, fantasy we ever had, etc.
For God sake people. Are we 'reasonably' mature and mentally stable or not?

I don't mean to insult or demean anyone. I just get very frustrated with these issues. I have been burned by the most upstanding women you would ever meet. I have become friends with women with whom I know nothing of their past. And I am not, by a long stretch, a perfect person.
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Cold and covered while snuggling with a woman. More difficult to snuggle when hot, even with a/c on. Can sit outdoors in cool weather with a woman and have a blanket over us. Can't cool down outside and be close when it is too hot.
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Quote by Mari84
What the heck is a "misses?" And what would a 17-year be doing with one?


My thoughts too
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Quote by Lustyrose4u
in my opinion looking for it won't bear fruit, when it is right, Blammo!, it will just happen. Of course, there is nothing better than a nice tight body on a boy-toy to make the night more enjoyable.

You're right. That is why if while your out shopping (or any where for that matter) just be open to meeting people. The practice of being open to meeting people will increase your odds.
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You are very sexy. You have every right to be proud. Always looking forward to seeing more of you.
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Most of what I would say has already been said by people who have already posted.
I have had the best luck in stores. Super markets, clothing, home improvement, etc. It is causal and can just be a simple question. The is no pressure so it is more natural. You can be just you. And he is probably not trying to put on a show. He is just there to shop. You could be seeing the real him.
As far as all the other assholes, there are 2 points.
What qualities in those men drew you to them. Change what you look for.
And, are you projecting your self for who you are or for who you think will attract men.

Always just be yourself. That way you will attract men who like for for who you are.
Always be true to your self.
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I usually take over the counter Migraine Relief tablets containing Acetaminophen, Aspirin, & Caffeine. Cold packs also help.
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^^^ I am again impressed! Where was a woman like you when I was younger? Experienced a lot with a lot of different women. But wrapped up in one woman, I'm not sure I would still be alive. (over stimulation of the brain causing an implosion) But it would have been a very, very good life.
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Lots of places can be very exciting. It depends on the mood and desires of the couple at the time. Car, woods, back room, back of building, kitchen, etc. I like them all including the traditional bedroom. Have tried them all over time and all can be fun.
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Quote by Metilda
Maybe - if my husband dies and I'm like an unwantable gross 70 year old - I might need to. lol

But something tells me that even at that age in life there's a guy willing to service - for free.


I am sure that with the same likes and attitude as you have now, you will have no problem.
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I would like to get a lot of different suggestions/ideas. A woman and I could sample them and tell of our favorites. Maybe even a poll.
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Quote by adele
posers.... guys who come on to websites like this and set up a female profile. I truly hope they end up cybering with other posers.


This is another thing that pisses me off. I am an up front man. But with imposters around I am very careful about any "woman's" profiles that don't have consistency or sound like they are written from a guy's point of view.
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Quote by knobby
Lies. The worst thing about being lied to is knowing you weren't worth the truth.


True. I don't want anyone in my life that can't tell the truth. How can you possibly even think of having any kind of relationship with lies in it?
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I always preferred women but, based on me I always thought 6" circumference was average. Until much later in life a woman said she finally found the perfect cock 7 1/2 X 6. I think length is over rated. It seems the tong is way more important.
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I did once a long time a long time ago. I was involved with two women at the time. I needed to get away to just escape the tension. I knew eventually I would need to make a choice. They both knew of each other and didn't like it.
I drove to another city about 3 hours away and booked in a nice hotel and bought tickets to a concert. After the concert I went to the lounge in the hotel. I very pretty young woman began hitting on me. She convinced me maybe I should try a new woman and see how I feel after.
She was the best fuck I ever had. She said she didn't want more money but wanted to stay the night. In the morning she wanted to go home but come back to maybe spend the day , at no charge. She wanted to fuck and maybe go out around town. She liked how I treated her.
I left the hotel all fucked up. I went away to escape but instead got together with another woman. At least I got a good fuck out of it.
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Quote by crazydiamond




For the OP, If you are not pleasing during sex, I doubt it has anything to do with your cock.


From everything any woman has told me your statement is very accurate. There is so much more to good sex than the size of a cock or tits or the shape of a pussy. It is the excitement between the two people and attitude toward paying attention to your partner.

Just my humble opinion.
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Quote by Dancing_Doll
Yes and yes!

The p-spot is the male version of our g-spot. Why wouldn't we want to stimulate it if our aim is to create better orgasms for our guys?


I have had that done to me. It makes a great sex an out of this galaxy sex. Feels greater and the cumming / climax is like nothing else. The women that have done it for me used a rubber glove. (the glove was also for my protection from their nails) The prostate is not very far up the rectum. And it only takes a gentle massage.
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Could get interesting Edit: you beat me by a few seconds to the woman above you but would be the same for you.
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I learned a lot from the forums. You can pick-up whether or not a person is just a jerk. There are a whole range of personalities on the site. But overall I grew to like the people even if I disagree with what they say. There are a lot of good people here. But it is not a dating site. Most people know that. Letches and creeps don't care.
Please don't get discouraged.