I am a 36 year old man who has been in the BDSM world for 16+ yrs., I also was married for 10 yrs before my first wife and I split amicably over differences we could not overcome. I do not get into to much of my real life with the general public on Lush because I save that for the people who wish to get to know me.

I am a listener, a teacher, a mentor and a master. This means that I will always strive to make everyone the best they can be and do all I can to promote the lifestyle in a positive way. Does this mean I am perfect, heck no. But it means that I try to be the best me every day that I can be.

Our lifestyle. The BDSM lifestyle is one that is built on incredible communication, passion and love. At some levels even deeper than other more as we call then 'nilla relationships around us. Does that make us better? No. But we should not be treated or looked at any differently. I truly believe that in my life time we will see our community become accepted and not be just a shoved off thing in the corner. Does that mean it will be any less mysterious? Nah we will just think of other ways to shock them.

I am here to make friends, meet like minded people and see where things go. I never say never to anything except about saying never. Why because you just don't know what will happen. If you send me a friend request please have a note to it telling me what your reasoning is for the friend request. That is all I ask. Thanks and I look forward to meeting many of you.

Interests
Huge Notre Dame fan (yes I know we lost but not till the last game of the season); Love sports of all types. Big into professional wrestling trained for a few years to actually get in that ring but for medical reasons that might have happened. Love all areas of BDSM, the way the community is as a whole and the way we are starting to finally educate better. I love teaching and mentoring, why because that just makes for smarter better behaved people that are safer.

Favorite Books
The Wheel of Time Series, The Lord of The Rings, The Hobbit, The Stand, The Firm, there are many others but to name them all would take forever.

Favorite Authors
Robert Jordan, JRR Tolkien, Stephen King, John Grisham, James Patterson, Brad Meltzer

Favorite Movies
The Lord of the Rings Trilogy, The Original Star Was Trilogy, The Star Trek Movies, Secretary, The Batman Begins Trilogy, The Godfather Trilogy

Favorite Music
Favorite Artist of All Time is Michael Jackson, Tim McGraw, Garth Brooks, Sting, AR Rahman

Groups - U2, Beatles, Jackson Five, Rolling Stones, Train, Coldplay, The Police, The Verve