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LondonLimey
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 47
United Kingdom
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I spent this afternoon making dinner for the rest of the week. A 7 chilli, chilli con carne (9 chillies in total but 7 different varieties) made with beef brisket, cooked low and slow for about 5 hours.
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Several times. Once when I was 18 and touring Peru, got hit on by a girl in a bar and it was clear we had some connection even though neither of us spoke the other's language. Ended up having a great time together.
Again in Egypt, a very similar thing happened, except not in a bar but at a restaurant - she was the waitress.
Then, of course, every time I've ever been with a Geordie of Scot - can never understand a word they say
Again in Egypt, a very similar thing happened, except not in a bar but at a restaurant - she was the waitress.
Then, of course, every time I've ever been with a Geordie of Scot - can never understand a word they say
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As someone that has both given and received, I can tell you that good anal should not hurt. Yes, there will be intense feelings and pressure, but if it's actually painful to the point that it hurts - then it's not being done right.
It takes a body time to relax and adjust to accept it but patience, lube, relaxation and more lube will take care of that.
It's usually the guy's fault if it hurts, he's too impatient. Until the sphincters have totally relaxed and opened up then any thrusting or "pounding" will be very painful.
For the receiver, breath deeply, relax and always push against the cock/whatever coming in. That will help open you up.
Done right, anal is the most amazing and intimate act.
It takes a body time to relax and adjust to accept it but patience, lube, relaxation and more lube will take care of that.
It's usually the guy's fault if it hurts, he's too impatient. Until the sphincters have totally relaxed and opened up then any thrusting or "pounding" will be very painful.
For the receiver, breath deeply, relax and always push against the cock/whatever coming in. That will help open you up.
Done right, anal is the most amazing and intimate act.
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It's been going on for a while now. At least an hour, I think.
It's been about 3 hours for me and still ongoing.
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I think this is actually a much more interesting question than it at first seems.
I don't think anyone would disagree that the standards are different for men and women. Where a guy might be considered promiscuous, a woman doing exactly the same would quickly be considered a "slut".
Then, as other posters have mentioned, you get into the kinky name-calling aspect of it - but I'm going to ignore that side of things.
For me, I think the difference is actually quite important and comes down to intent. Both men and women are totally free to want to fuck as many people as they want. The more they do actually fuck then the more promiscuous they become and can be considered.
Where I differentiate between promiscuous and slut (either male or female), is those that are driven through previous life experience to seek personal validation through sex. If your only sense of self-worth is achieved by fucking a different person every night and choosing not to ever get close to somebody then that makes you a slut.
Not that being a slut is necessarily a bad thing. But for me, that is the difference between the two. A promiscuous person seeks out multiple sexual encounters for fun and experimentation. A slut is driven to have sex with as many people as possible as a means to make themselves feel better and to validate their lives.
I don't think anyone would disagree that the standards are different for men and women. Where a guy might be considered promiscuous, a woman doing exactly the same would quickly be considered a "slut".
Then, as other posters have mentioned, you get into the kinky name-calling aspect of it - but I'm going to ignore that side of things.
For me, I think the difference is actually quite important and comes down to intent. Both men and women are totally free to want to fuck as many people as they want. The more they do actually fuck then the more promiscuous they become and can be considered.
Where I differentiate between promiscuous and slut (either male or female), is those that are driven through previous life experience to seek personal validation through sex. If your only sense of self-worth is achieved by fucking a different person every night and choosing not to ever get close to somebody then that makes you a slut.
Not that being a slut is necessarily a bad thing. But for me, that is the difference between the two. A promiscuous person seeks out multiple sexual encounters for fun and experimentation. A slut is driven to have sex with as many people as possible as a means to make themselves feel better and to validate their lives.
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Personally, I enjoy undressing my partner slowly, savouring the ever more exciting image before me. But when it comes to me, I prefer when my partner is tearing my clothes off me, eager to get on with things.
Yes, I know that makes me a hypocrite.
Yes, I know that makes me a hypocrite.
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At a sex club, less than a minute when people have come up to a scene and asked to join in.
In the plain vanilla world 15-20 mins.
In the plain vanilla world 15-20 mins.
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Deep down I imagine it happening when I am bending over, and hoping the guy would really like that position from behind. It seems so much more erotic that way for some reason. Especially if I know he enjoys that view.
This is one of my personal favourites. Possibly the finest view in the world, glad to hear that some women enjoy it as much as us guys!
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I believe it is a lot more common than most people think. However, for most girls, it does not happen easily. It takes a lot of time and effort but almost more importantly it takes a huge amount of clitoral stimulation often beyond the point of multiple orgasms and even beyond that "stop, I can't take any more" point.
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I couldn't imagine life without eating pussy. I think I'd rather give up food than burying my head between a ladies thighs.
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Plenty of small injuries like banged head, rope burns, actual burns, bruised knees etc.
But my biggest injury came after the actual act. I'd met a girl at a bar, gone home with her, we'd had sex and fallen asleep naked. I woke up a couple of hours later needing to pee. To get to her bathroom you had to pass through the small living room. As I stumbled through the living room, I stepped on her cat causing it to yelp and me to jump.
Leaping off the cat I lost my balance and fell ass first through a plate glass table -- totally shattering it and slicing my ass cheeks in many places.
Needless to say, she woke up, wasn't pleased with the destroyed table and the pools of blood on the floor. Ended up calling an ambulance and heading to A&E. Many hours later I had a doctor tweezering shards of glass from my ass and stitching me up.
Walking, sitting and even lying down was agony for a couple of weeks. I still have the scars to this day.
But my biggest injury came after the actual act. I'd met a girl at a bar, gone home with her, we'd had sex and fallen asleep naked. I woke up a couple of hours later needing to pee. To get to her bathroom you had to pass through the small living room. As I stumbled through the living room, I stepped on her cat causing it to yelp and me to jump.
Leaping off the cat I lost my balance and fell ass first through a plate glass table -- totally shattering it and slicing my ass cheeks in many places.
Needless to say, she woke up, wasn't pleased with the destroyed table and the pools of blood on the floor. Ended up calling an ambulance and heading to A&E. Many hours later I had a doctor tweezering shards of glass from my ass and stitching me up.
Walking, sitting and even lying down was agony for a couple of weeks. I still have the scars to this day.
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Anyone that asks or tries to force you to join a pay site is 100% a scammer, being paid by the said site to get people like you to join so they can scam your credit card.
If you're not experienced, then be very careful with online sites - the majority are not good whatsoever. One site that is NOT a dating site but is an incredible resource and a great place to find out what is going on in your local BDSM scene is Fetlife. It's basically the Facebook of kink.
If you're not experienced, then be very careful with online sites - the majority are not good whatsoever. One site that is NOT a dating site but is an incredible resource and a great place to find out what is going on in your local BDSM scene is Fetlife. It's basically the Facebook of kink.
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Hell yeah! It's an incredible sensation, both physically and mentally!
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Quite a few times, both mff and mmf - almost needless to say which I prefer! But they have all been great fun.
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I liked that book too but have not seen the movie. The subject matter is riveting and thought-provoking as you point out but I was not sure I wanted to watch a movie about it.
The book was fascinating, especially the whole unreliable narrator aspect of it. The first part of the film is pretty good but as I mentioned it skips over a lot of the online research that Kevin did in the book. That part showed he was far from crazy and had carefully staged everything and timed his attack so he'd be released when he became an adult. Making him much more of at psychopath.
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I loved the book We Need To Talk About Kevin and even though Lynne Ramsey Tilda Swinton both claimed to adore the book I was sadly let downy the movie. It shied away from some of the most though-provoking aspects in the final third.
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i was staying with a friend in Williamsburg recovering from another friend's wedding on 9/9 down on the Jersey Shore. The first plane hitting the tower woke us all up.
We were on the building's roof in time to watch the second plane hit and stayed there throughout the ordeal.
A day I will never, ever forget. To this day just seeing footage of it on TV makes me well up and taste the dust once again.
We were on the building's roof in time to watch the second plane hit and stayed there throughout the ordeal.
A day I will never, ever forget. To this day just seeing footage of it on TV makes me well up and taste the dust once again.
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In Windsor Castle during the Ceremony of the Garter. I was working for a local paper and covering the ceremony for them, she was reporter for our rival paper and we had a bit of a friends with benefits deal going on. Once the royal family went in for the service we knew we had about an hour until they came back out. So I suggested we slip of for some fun. We found a private (as in not open to the public) bathroom and had a not so quick quickie.
Returned with a few minutes to spare before the royal family came out for pictures.
Returned with a few minutes to spare before the royal family came out for pictures.
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Britain's [url=https://]Atul Kochhar[/url]
A Michelin-starred restaurant in London, outposts in Madrid and Mumbai, a south Indian place in Marlow and a newly opened British restaurant in Buckinghamshire – Atul Kochhar has certainly kept himself busy since moving to the UK in the 1990s. One of the pioneers of Indian fine dining, he was responsible for changing our perceptions of the cuisine and helping British diners realise how refined Indian food can be.
I have had Atul cook me an entire 8 course meal at his flagship restaurant Benares in St James' Square London. I and my three siblings took our father there for his 70th birthday and had the private dining room overlooking the kitchen. We were able to see Atul not just run the pass but actually cooking some of the dishes.
One of the greatest meals of my life.
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If you built a glass cylinder around the Eiffel Tower then the air inside the cylinder would weigh more than the Eiffel Tower does!
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1. I once gatecrashed a mafia wedding.
2. I've appeared on a well known British quiz show.
3. I've visited 49 of the 50 US states.
2. I've appeared on a well known British quiz show.
3. I've visited 49 of the 50 US states.
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I work for a luxury travel company planning holidays for the insanely rich.