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LadyofSilkandLace
Over 90 days ago
Bisexual Female, 35
0 miles · Athens
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Your Seduction Style: Prized Object
The seduction game you play is tried, true, and still effective: hard to get.
You know that the best seducers turn the tables - and get their crush to seduce them.
The one running has the power, and you're a challenge that is worth the chase.
You are a master of enticing and pulling back. Giving a little and taking some away.
You are controlled enough to know rewards come after a long seduction dance.
Even though you want to call, email, or say "I love you" first - you don't!
You're style is the perfect mix of hot and cold - so much so that you have many suitors.
Think Holly Golightly from Breakfast at Tiffany's ... or any of those creepy guys from the Bachelor.
You're skilled at inspiring a chase. The real test is picking the person to slow down for.
The seduction game you play is tried, true, and still effective: hard to get.
You know that the best seducers turn the tables - and get their crush to seduce them.
The one running has the power, and you're a challenge that is worth the chase.
You are a master of enticing and pulling back. Giving a little and taking some away.
You are controlled enough to know rewards come after a long seduction dance.
Even though you want to call, email, or say "I love you" first - you don't!
You're style is the perfect mix of hot and cold - so much so that you have many suitors.
Think Holly Golightly from Breakfast at Tiffany's ... or any of those creepy guys from the Bachelor.
You're skilled at inspiring a chase. The real test is picking the person to slow down for.
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Oh wow i love this idea!!!!!I really do hope I win I would love to be a gold member 
I'll take number 489 please
I'll take number 489 please
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Quote by dex69
The guy sounds like an asshole. Just count your blessings and be glad he is no longer a part of you. How well can you really know a person without meeting them in real life anyway? You're better off without him. Find someone who will treat you like the woman you are and will appreciate you for who you are. You deserve so much better than that. Oh and I'm available!!!! LOL!!!!
Hahaha seriously offering?And yeah I knew he was an ass.but the no longer being a part of me...he still is
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Quote by foxjack
Hate to say it but it sounds like he was using you, he finally got you to do everything that he wanted, and then he lost interest in you. Either that or he has emotional problems.
He does have emotional problems.Most of the time he is emotionless nearly.I am better currently as I have lost some weight those days I've been here (about 15 pounds) and continue on some dieting.Hate to say it,but after him,my standards are higher.Also hate to say it but a part of me still hopes he will call
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Quote by MadMartigan
Drop him like a rotten egg.
Go do some awesomely fun shit and clear out the gears as it were.
Live your life. Let the good shit come to you. It will.
I call you, you won't know until you try as far as meeting someone new.
I seriously wish I could erase it as quickly as he is.I truly envy that.But its gonna take me a while to be able to do this.Honestly have fun and be happy again.I am in the ''fuck off I dont wanna see anyone'' phase.And 20 days with family on vacation tomorrow?really not helping matters
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Quote by slipperywhenwet2012
Quite frankly, yes to most of the above. You didn't imagine anything. But it sounds like he was using you and anyone else for his amusement. He probably didn't mean it when he loved you...just felt like the right thing to say at the moment. And as much as it hurts, he sounds like a pretty selfish individual to be able to cut off not just you but pretty much everyone just because everyone stopped entertaining him. You're pretty much better off. I know that doesn't help. And I know it sucks that you put yourself out there just to have it thrown back in your face, but it's the truth. He was just using you and everyone else seemingly to pass time. It sucks that you got caught up in it. But if he truly loved you, he wouldn't have been able to throw you away along with the rest of the bunch he's throwing away. I think he was just toying with you because he could.
Go out with friends in a really cute outfit. Let guys you know you won't give the time of day to buy you drinks. Or if you would give them the time of day, slip them your number or get theirs and take a rain check. As harsh as it sounds, you've been had. It totally completely sucks. Your feelings were real, and his weren't. What he did was pretty low. So eat some ice cream. Cry a little. Or cry a lot. Then pull yourself together, go out and get White Girl Wasted. Have some fun. You'll be fine.
I really wish I were easy to woo sometimes.I truly do.But especially after this relationship in which I changed myself (cause I did) to not smother him cause he's totally not commitment friendly?I got rid of my insecurities for once in my life.I truly felt wanted and loved and especially enough.Beautiful.And I have never felt that.Not ever.And from one day to the next this happening...Im never gonna go back to being totally insecure.Not after this.But I was comfortable in my own skin for once.Who is gonna make me feel like that again?Who's just gonna look and SEE me?no lost pounds,no makeup or a pussy to fuck.just...me?
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Hello everyone.
As the title of the topic may suggest,I am nursing a breakup.It had its problems,it was long distance and online and it was mainly a relationship through phone calls and texting.Anyway...I thought we were working out our differences lately and by the phone call last week,he said he loved me so I thought things were on the right track.But then August 1st came and I got a text from him that basically said he wanted to be left alone by everyone including myself.That his tolerance is rapidly dimishing and that with a few days of no interaction he was feeling pretty good and to imagine how good he'll actually feel when he cut everyone off completely?That he is considering it,that nobody he talks to is doing a thing for him,that no one makes him laugh,that he isnt happy to talk to anyone and nobody can help him.that the love for his 'precious people' is gone and they are just burdens he just carries out of habit.that he doesnt need or want them.
That hes miserable and he's holding me back and this isnt good for either of us.That no amount of breaks or days off is going to soften the fact our relationship has given him more head and heartache than he has the capacity to endure.that there is stubborness and idiocy and hes no idiot.What I've done is tell him Ill text and call him when I get back from my vacation till the end of the month and if he still feels the same then I wont bother him again.He agreed to it.
So here's the kicker:turns out that he has done this sort of thing before.its his MO so-to-speak.He gets with a girl,seduces and sweet talks her to a relationship,they get into it and then suddenly it runs out for him and he splits.He is incapable to be comfortable with being close to someone emotionally because he doesnt trust. (this comes from someone who knows him 3 years.I dated him for nearly a year)
My question is this:all this time that I was together with him,all he said,the fact he said he loved me.Did I imagine it?Was I a victim of manipulation?someone's amusement?Because honestly now I dont know what to think
As the title of the topic may suggest,I am nursing a breakup.It had its problems,it was long distance and online and it was mainly a relationship through phone calls and texting.Anyway...I thought we were working out our differences lately and by the phone call last week,he said he loved me so I thought things were on the right track.But then August 1st came and I got a text from him that basically said he wanted to be left alone by everyone including myself.That his tolerance is rapidly dimishing and that with a few days of no interaction he was feeling pretty good and to imagine how good he'll actually feel when he cut everyone off completely?That he is considering it,that nobody he talks to is doing a thing for him,that no one makes him laugh,that he isnt happy to talk to anyone and nobody can help him.that the love for his 'precious people' is gone and they are just burdens he just carries out of habit.that he doesnt need or want them.
That hes miserable and he's holding me back and this isnt good for either of us.That no amount of breaks or days off is going to soften the fact our relationship has given him more head and heartache than he has the capacity to endure.that there is stubborness and idiocy and hes no idiot.What I've done is tell him Ill text and call him when I get back from my vacation till the end of the month and if he still feels the same then I wont bother him again.He agreed to it.
So here's the kicker:turns out that he has done this sort of thing before.its his MO so-to-speak.He gets with a girl,seduces and sweet talks her to a relationship,they get into it and then suddenly it runs out for him and he splits.He is incapable to be comfortable with being close to someone emotionally because he doesnt trust. (this comes from someone who knows him 3 years.I dated him for nearly a year)
My question is this:all this time that I was together with him,all he said,the fact he said he loved me.Did I imagine it?Was I a victim of manipulation?someone's amusement?Because honestly now I dont know what to think
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I just got on and tried to go on the rooms but they still won't load even though last night they eventually worked again...