Hello everyone.
As the title of the topic may suggest,I am nursing a breakup.It had its problems,it was long distance and online and it was mainly a relationship through phone calls and texting.Anyway...I thought we were working out our differences lately and by the phone call last week,he said he loved me so I thought things were on the right track.But then August 1st came and I got a text from him that basically said he wanted to be left alone by everyone including myself.That his tolerance is rapidly dimishing and that with a few days of no interaction he was feeling pretty good and to imagine how good he'll actually feel when he cut everyone off completely?That he is considering it,that nobody he talks to is doing a thing for him,that no one makes him laugh,that he isnt happy to talk to anyone and nobody can help him.that the love for his 'precious people' is gone and they are just burdens he just carries out of habit.that he doesnt need or want them.
That hes miserable and he's holding me back and this isnt good for either of us.That no amount of breaks or days off is going to soften the fact our relationship has given him more head and heartache than he has the capacity to endure.that there is stubborness and idiocy and hes no idiot.What I've done is tell him Ill text and call him when I get back from my vacation till the end of the month and if he still feels the same then I wont bother him again.He agreed to it.
So here's the kicker:turns out that he has done this sort of thing before.its his MO so-to-speak.He gets with a girl,seduces and sweet talks her to a relationship,they get into it and then suddenly it runs out for him and he splits.He is incapable to be comfortable with being close to someone emotionally because he doesnt trust. (this comes from someone who knows him 3 years.I dated him for nearly a year)
My question is this:all this time that I was together with him,all he said,the fact he said he loved me.Did I imagine it?Was I a victim of manipulation?someone's amusement?Because honestly now I dont know what to think
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