Slut shaming is something that is more prevalent among women to other women, but in general, it seems, that women cannot win when it comes to their own sexuality or desires.
We get called sluts for wearing revealing clothes, even if that person is still a virgin, but on the flip side, if a woman were to wear a long skirt or be completely covered up, then she might be called a prude even if she has slept with X amount of people.
If we sleep with a guy on the first date we are a slut, and if we don't then we are a bitch.
There is also the myth about that a slut has a stretched out vagina, not taking into consideration all vaginas are different and never takes into consideration the size of the cock, but why is it that a woman can have sex 50 times with the same person and its ok but when she has had sex with 50 different cocks she is stretched out?
I get it being used within a scene or with a D/s relationship or the like, cause then it is used as a term of endearment (or meant to humiliate) then when random people use it to place you in a box for having a desire to have sex.
I don't get it when it comes to men literally begging women for nudes over the internet and as soon as they get them, they turn around and shame them for it.
No on should be shamed for their sexual activity. No one should have to explain or justify their partner count.
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LadyLexxx
Over 90 days ago
Bisexual Female, 42
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I have a note in my profile (so if someone actually reads it they will see it) and I have yet to have anyone write it in a friend request, proving they have read and understood my profile. I always read the profiles of the people requesting to me, but I think I have only sent a few myself, yet I have always read what they took the time to write. Sometimes I just click around and read profiles. People are very interesting and have some very interesting things to say.
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Met my husband online but it was originally just a 2 week sex vacation in Europe that turned into something more. Before that, I had met many playthings online.
I think it is very different for men and women and how they go about meeting someone from online. What I mean is, I think it tends to be more scary for women, or can be. I had so many exit strategies when I did it, and always public. I don't regret any of it, but I did learn as I went
I think it is very different for men and women and how they go about meeting someone from online. What I mean is, I think it tends to be more scary for women, or can be. I had so many exit strategies when I did it, and always public. I don't regret any of it, but I did learn as I went
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I like both, but I think for me it depends on the weather, ie the temperature. During the summer, I will put my toy in the fridge for a little bit (never the freezer or at least not for any period of time). During the winter, if I want to get a little more warmed up, I put it in hot water and then dry it off.
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A white sauce as the base topping instead of tomato you mean? .. curious .. never heard of that.
I cannot have a lot of tomato products, so I either use a homemade ranch dressing or Alfredo sauce, or sometimes just garlic olive oil. Its really good, you should try it